Can't grow up ladies? Better learn. They will (say it with me now) NOT CHANGE. can you say that? You can do it. What does not change mean ladies? That means they act the same as they did yesterday. You must use common sense. Do you need to learn how to use that? How long are you going to be dumb?
2006-10-14 10:21:09 · 15 answers · asked by savannahfast 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sound like a very impertinent sexist to me. I suggest that you grow up and forget these idiotic notions. It is wrong to make random generalisations based on only a few experiences. I feel sorry for anybody that goes out with you if this is your attitude.
2006-10-14 10:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...you made a mistake with lumping all ladies in a "dumb" group...You should have said, "some of you ladies..."
Me personally, I steer clear from bad boys. I have a thing for "nerds". Nerd sounds like a negative term, but what I mean is I like a smart guy that understands the importance of intelligence and having a good head on your shoulders. Also, they tend to be the ones that know how to properly treat a lady because they are great observers and because they are thinkers..they tend to be thoughtful. Go for the smart men is my motto!
So my past guys are far from bad boys...infact, they seem more like goodie goodies.
My current boyfriend is constantly telling me right from wrong and is known by his friends and co-workers as the nicest guy ever. Almost too nice to where he is walked all over by others, but point being...I am not in this category.
Although, I know some girls that do like the bad boys. With one of my friends, she said it was the fact they are charmers and good at being slick so you don't notice it until later. In her own words, "with a charmer it is easy to overlook the crappy treatment when he is so sweet at other moments."
Sad, but that is why she is dumb. Maybe it is the same for others? Just a stab in the dark.
2006-10-14 10:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by angedeaile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are right, I experienced this in my younger days and part of this is about reinventing the past, but most walk through life and never question their choices or do not understand how their past affects the future. People unaware tend to reinvent the only lives they have ever known. If that life has been chaos and pain they will find themselves in different scenarios that are uncomfortable yet familiar. Freud described the way we tend to repeat and perpetuate the relationships we know. He called it repetition compulsion. We drag out the old game board, choose the most familiar pieces with which to play, and arrange or rearrange them in familiar patterns. Today I am the abuser and you are the child, you are me. Tomorrow I shall be the child, and you can torture me. Over and over human beings will play out enactments of painful childhood events hoping to exorcise the past and set the players free. Until a woman consciously understands this scenario you can bet the bad boys will be part of her life. As you get older though, the drama and the pain are just not worth it.
2006-10-14 10:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad boys are sexy to some women and I think you are maybe jelous of someone aren't you? anyway some bad boys do change, not all but some. I myself have seen a couple change for the better, yes they did grow up. most of them don't your right but some women like an interesting relationship. oh well bad boys need lovin too!
2006-10-14 10:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by Bonnie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer understand why women date undesirable boys myself. they are oftentimes losers and broke. Who needs that? i've got on no account dated a foul boy. i assume i become greater desirable at making existence possibilities than maximum women. right here's a clue that can assist you sparkling up the secret of girls: maximum are dumb. they gained't understand what they want and want till they get run over a million circumstances or finally end up pregnant with a guy that tells her to get an abortion. father and mom do no longer develop their daughters up superb anymore.
2016-10-19 09:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad boys are sexy and have a sense of control that some women enjoy and girls like me CAN change bad boys into lovers :)
2006-10-14 10:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by â?¥CURiOUSâ?¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN I WAS IN MY 20"S I LIKED BAD BOYS, BUT I AM OVER THAT NOW, IF A GUY HITS ME I WILL KNOCK HIM INTO TOMORROW, I JUST WON'T TAKE IT ANY MORE. I HAVE A VERY NICE BOYFRIEND NOW, AND HE UNDERSTANDS ME.
2006-10-14 10:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dude... if guys don't change, you think girls are going to change? lol
no one's changing, you proved you're point. some ladies are always going to be attrtacted to bad boys.
2006-10-14 10:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by Chrissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak for your self, some ladies are not like that
2006-10-14 10:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree, they wont ever change but for some reason they have this major sex appeal about them that good guys just dont have.
2006-10-14 10:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by Katy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋