My bf had a gf that he caught cheating on him about 7 months ago. We have been together for about three months now and things are going great between us. The problem is he has dreams and in them I am cheating on him. although I have shown no signs that I have any intentions of being unfaithful, the dreams still upset him. He gets sad and I have to remind him that they are only dreams and I am not that kind of person and I care about him a lot. How can I help ease his mind that I will not cheat on him?
2006-10-14 10:35:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him-Hey men,you're real,I'm real and your dreams aren't!And if he loves you he should thrust you!in fact,he should have trusted you when you first time said him that you love him and care about only him!
2006-10-14 10:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by oneya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He now has trust issues. No matter how much you try to convince him for right now he is still going to think that. It all depends on how much his ex and him were together and if he put alot into the relationship. It will take time. The question for you now is can you take him having questions about you cheating on him
2006-10-14 17:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep reminding him that u love him and would never cheat on him. i have dreams that my husband is cheating on me all the time but i dont think he would because hes always telling me how sexy i am and how much he loves me. so let him know how u feel about him and tell him u would never do that. good luck. thats about all u can do cuz until he gets over it he will always be insecure.
2006-10-14 17:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by emilybailey1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is prolly still upset about the incodent and tramatized... try a therapest or talk to him about his deams but if u tell him u would never do such a thing he should trust u enough to not let the dreams influence his opinion once i had a dream i was at my house and then a hurricane hit and killed my mom ... we were in nevada... and my mom aint gunna die... he should just ignore these dreams
2006-10-14 17:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just always tell him you like/love him and don't talk about other boys that could potentially like you. Call him a lot, don't wait for him to call you. Good luck!
2006-10-14 17:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by yo yo grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing that you can do aside from being understanding, faithful, and allowing time to heal his wounds.
Mr. M on "advise."
2006-10-14 17:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheat on him and say ur dreams have come true honey
2006-10-14 17:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by akihabro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him with actions not words. plan a romantic date and you take control. do something you know he likes. and then tell him how much he means to you.
2006-10-14 17:37:46 · answer #8 · answered by Leen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him see a shrink. he has some problems with puting faith in people. let him see a psychiatrist.
2006-10-14 17:39:20 · answer #9 · answered by CreativeGEEK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he SOUNDS like he's making excuses--you can do much better than someone who is insecure right now
2006-10-14 17:37:35 · answer #10 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋