My ex decided when our daughter was 7 that he just wasn't into the family thing and left and hasn't seen his daughter or contact w/her in almost 4 years. He can't hold a job, lives off his elderly grandparents for free (he's never lived on his own, always lived with or off of someone, yet when I got w/him I thought he was responsible but he was in the Marine Corp, I didn't realize they MAKE them be responsible but he's been out a long time and he went down hill) doesn't see his kid, tries to get out of paying child support. Why would anyone want to be friends with someone with those sorts of values and lack of character? Why would his brother name his son after him, a dead beat parent. The family knows all about him.. but seem to be in denial. But why would anyone want to hang out much less want to be in a "relationship" with a 34 year old man who can't hold a job and lives off his elderly grandparents and won't have anything to do w/his kid??
2006-10-14
09:39:55
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Christina M L
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