There is this girl in my school, I used to be friends with her in 3rd grade, I got annoyed in 4th grade, I was so furious in 5th grade, and now its 6th grade and if she talks to me I get superrrr mad. She is such a baby and she is in the 6th grade. I want to just tell her to stop annoying me but this girl is a baby and babies have sadness issues. So how do I tell her to back off in a nice way. I dont want her to tell the teacher.
2006-10-14 09:42:37 · 3 answers · asked by da202101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh yeah and once she talked to me in class and I got in trouble because of her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-14 09:54:18 · update #1
You may try just telling her that you can't pay attention to the lessons in class when she is trying to talk to you in class and if she could wait for a more suitable time to talk. If that doesn't work sometimes you just have tell people to shut the hell up.
2006-10-14 09:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Marla C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just trying to be your friend, which makes it sound like she looks up to you. I know you don't want me to say this, but could you be nice to her? You see, you are both at that super-critical age where your self-esteem is developing. Not only do I not want you to develop into a bully (which you could if you were mean to her, etc.), but I'd like her to develop friendships.
It doesn't mean you have to be best buds or anything. I'm just thinking what harm is there in being nice to someone less fortunate than you? For instance, you say she's a baby. Maybe she hasn't "grown up" yet. She could have all younger friends and family, so she may not know how 6th graders act, what they do, etc. You could kindly help her there.
Please, just be nice. Try to say in your mind when she's bugging you "This is an act of kindness. I have to remember she is learning from me." And kind of be her teacher, without saying "I am teaching you how to act 12 years old."
It's just food for thought. You may get picked on by your peers, but how you handle it is your knowledge that you really ARE doing the right thing. Just give it a try --
2006-10-14 09:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her maybe she will go away
2006-10-14 09:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋