I need help i don't know why.. but i feel like i love this girl who i barely know her but she talked to me on myspace..
i know she goes to my school...
Im so lonely that i cant even focus on anything right..
im depressed and i only feel happy when i talk to her..
everything else just seems to fade away..
shes so beautiful and i want to be with her for the rest of my life..
how do i even start this.. .i don't care that i dont know her..
but i want to...
shes the one iwant to be with...
2006-10-14 09:47:21 · 7 answers · asked by ghacknoob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask her to hang out. If she talks to you on myspace then maybe theres a chance. Whatever you do, DO NOT let her know that you "love her". That stuff will scare chicks off. Especially when you barely know her. Just play it cool and dont act like your crazy about her. Trust me it works. Girls can smell desperation a mile a way. I was there once. I thought I was in love with a girl after only dating for a month. Guess what happened? She dumped my ***. Girls want what they cant have. You need to play hard to get. Once my girlfriend knew I was wrapped around her finger, she moved on to the next dude. After recently having a girlfriend for 2 and 1/2 years, I now realize what love really is. Hope that helps.
2006-10-14 10:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by Answers yo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your just in need for some female attention, your needing someone to love you and when someone shows you some attention, your automatically attracted to them. If you and this girl start a real friendship like talking at school, not just on my space, the friendship will grow and you can realize if she is really what you want. Just make sure you don't mistake friendliness for attraction, she might just want to be friends but when you become comfortable enough you should talk to her about it. If it doesn't work out don't get depressed there are other girls out there whom I'm sure would love to be with you, you just have to find them or they might find you!
2006-10-14 16:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by Lanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love with her. You think you might like her if you get to know her, that's all. Love takes time, and includes compassion, respect, physical attraction, and it requires time to get to know someone. You are lonely... don't confuse that with love. You need to hang out with friends, go do social activites, and basically get your life moving. Trust me on this: NO ONE else can make you happy, only YOU can be happy, by your own choice and actions!!!
2006-10-14 16:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question is... It's because you are 14 year old male!
2006-10-14 16:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay calm, my boy. you are having problem that every person of your age had. let some years go by and you will sure get cured. wait for it .
2006-10-14 16:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by mammus007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... Your hormones are just really acting up...
How do you know for SURE that she goes to your school? o.0
2006-10-14 16:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not love--
2006-10-14 16:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋