is it so wrong for a 45 year old female to be seeing a almost 37 year old male?? why is age such a big factor??its okay if a man is 8 years older but when i have to tell people when they ask how old he is they give me a funny look. i get a little embrassed.. why do people have to ask how old any one is a nyways?? what do you think of this situation?/ is it such a big deal?
2006-10-14 10:29:52 · 23 answers · asked by mary c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing is wrong with it. i dated a man 13 years younger than me and it was fun. i told my friends and they cheered me on. i wasnt embarassed and besides i dont look my age, noone ever looked at us in a funny way.
2006-10-14 10:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, in your situation there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Who cares what people think? However, age difference does become a big deal when you're 45 and seeing a 13 year old. If that's not you, then don't worry about it.
2006-10-14 17:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, age is just numbers but if the girl or guy is younger than 18 than yeah thats a big problem its called breaking the law. No in your 20's or older its okay to be with older men or women. You cant help who you lkove
2006-10-14 17:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! There's nothing wrong in dating a younger man. It's no one's business how old he is or how old you are for that matter. There are plenty of successful relationships where the woman is 5-10 years older. Here's a tip: the people who give you funny looks are just jealous and wish they were in your shoes....good luck!
2006-10-14 17:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only time I take age in consideration is when the parties are under the age of 18. After the people are adults, then I think that age is only a number.
2006-10-14 17:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by Ness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today age difference is not a big deal. It is all about maturity level. So what if your a little older than he is. Maybe he likes mature women. Girl you are lucky to have a man that is younger than you! Who cares what other people think, all that matters is what you think!
2006-10-14 17:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forty-five years old is fine to be seeing a thirty-seven year old age difference becomes a conflict when you are ten years older or more than the other person.
2006-10-14 18:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by leged56 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sister: 8 years are not a big deal if he has the level of maturity and cultural identity to match yours. Don't assume that simply because he is silent often that he is mature. Take your time and good luck.
Mr. M on "big deal."
2006-10-14 17:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see why an older woman shouldnt date a younger man if she wants to.After all its been scientifically proven that a woman reaches her sexual peack well after the male does .So if the attractions is there have fun seeing if he can keep up with your appetite,go for it!
2006-10-14 17:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by davidparker1959 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all sweet-heart!
If you both are sure what you are sharing is true love I'll say Go for it!
What matters most is how you both feel for each other
and don't let others dictate who you should be with.
I wish you both all the happiness possible on this Earth.
2006-10-14 17:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by Bliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋