My boyfriend of 7 months, is nothing but good to me and would never hurt me, this I know. He tells me he loves me but I feel it's more of a friend love than partner love, just the way he has been acting latley, I have a sick feeling he is falling out of love with me. For example, he seems to have lost interest in sex, he plays his xbox 360 like a madman after work, never comes to bed with me anymore, never seems to want to talk to me, i dunno, maybe I am being paranoid, but something has changed with him and im worried. I ask him what's wrong but he says nothing, he has been working tons latley, so have I, but is this any reason to shove me in the corner?...Does anyone have any suggestions/advice, thanks in advance
2006-10-14 09:54:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The Xbox 360 is a powerfull thing, and if he's on xbox live too then your really in trobele. But give him a little time , mabey 2 weeks, but reconect before Halo 3 comes out, he may play that game and forget about every thing else.
2006-10-14 10:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married almost two years and my husband has done this same thing, he will go 2 days sometimes without kissing me or commenting on me, he'll stay on the computer working all the time and I start feeling he's completely bored of me. Finally I could not take it and I poured my heart out to him, turns out he didn't even realize he was acting that way! That's just guys for you, they get wrapped up in their own worlds, just like us girls sometimes and forget to be affectionate. Just tell him how you feel, theirs no reason you should have to feel lonely or unsatisfied, he might have not noticed he has been acting that way. In a relationship you have to talk these things through as they occur or you will build up walls between you and your significant other. Just talk to him.
2006-10-14 10:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not a men but a little boy stuck in a grown up body.
he know's you're right and does'nt know how to deal and
for him it's easier to play the victim then to be a men.
maybe you should follow you're feeling and confronte
him about it.don't be to hard.be soft after all you ask him
a question and you're not accusinng him,and if he get
mad and accuse you than he's guilty,when you're caught
you want to put the blame on anything than take responsibility...
right?.....be careful i think is looking for a way out but don't want to be responsible for the breaking up....
take care
isabelle
2006-10-14 10:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you maybe right.... every women has her intuition and if you feel deep inside that something is wrong... then more that likely there is. I would make sure he is working all the hours he says he is. Men always use work as an excuse.
2006-10-14 10:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by Marla C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋