Family & Relationships - 14 October 2006

He drinks almost everyday. He will drink several beers at a time. He also sometimes drinks when he wakes up in the morning. On his days off he will sometimes drink all day. I'm not sure if he's an alcoholic because he is never abusive when he drinks. How can I tell if he is an alcoholic?

2006-10-14 15:03:29 · 15 answers · asked by Angry 1 in Singles & Dating

a friend of mine that is a guy
he is nice
he is cute
i graduated from high school with him

2006-10-14 15:02:56 · 3 answers · asked by babygirl25 1 in Friends

whats the best way to get a guys attention? I am starting to feel ingnored and used by the guy i am "Supposed" to be seeing. :(

2006-10-14 15:01:00 · 7 answers · asked by babydol702002 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i am 17 VERY shy, never had a boyfriend, or been kissed, not that good looking. sad i know. i have always has crushs but never told anybody how i felt. but now i have a guy friend that i have knew for awhile. i have liked him for about a year now but never said anything. we got like kind of close last year and were even working together. everyone said i liked him but i would tell them no cause i was to shy to let him know. i was hoping for him to ask me out. i quit that job but thats another story. so we kind of dont see much of each other anymore. we are in a crew together and see each other at meetings and camp outs. my liking of him has gone farther then a crush. i want to tell him how i feel but i dont want to ruin the friendship or make him uncomfortable around me. he is leaving next year for the navy. my question is should i tell him or not?

2006-10-14 15:00:31 · 8 answers · asked by ?????? 1 in Friends

He claims the baby as his but he hasn't bought anything but a pack of diapers and some wipes for the baby. The baby is 2 months old. Neither of us has a job but the little money that I get, I use it to get to and from the doctor and buy the baby medicine if he needs it. He hasn't spent 24 hours with the baby since he's been born. He says he loves them but he never comes to spend time with him and rumor has it that he has another baby on the way. With all that said, who do you think the judge would grant full custody to?

2006-10-14 15:00:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

at thte time i did it for this other guy cuz i really liked him and he told me he liked me and wanted to go out and it wasnt fair to my bf so i broke up with him after 5 months. anyways then this other guy gets really mad at me for breaking up with my (ex) bf and will barley talk to me now.. now i feel like i have lost them both and cant get over my bf who said he was NEVER going to be able to get over me either but now is perfectly happy with all these otehr girls..and is rubbing it all in my face.. this is soo hard. what should i do!?

2006-10-14 14:59:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy is the hottie of the school. He's image is shy. But he used to text me and we talk about things that are not really that important. I thought he liked me. When i finally decided to give him a hint that i like him, i decided to tell him that someone from our class has a crush on him. He asked me who. I told him to guess who. The clues left pointed out to me and my girl pal (whom knows very well that i like the guy and who's by the way is the hearthrob of the school also), Then he said that he thinks that my girlpal has a crush on him (theyve never txted each other nor talked at school). When he said that, i just told him that he guessed it right coz i felt i lost. I told my girlpal about it, she couldnt believe it at first but u can tell from her words that she's willing to flirt with the guy. I made them meet up for coffee with me. I made them tell who theyre crush is, and one said the other's name. Now the guy is texting my girl pal and theyre flirting with each other.

2006-10-14 14:59:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance cheated on me with a guard. He is locked up. I first noticed,him changing about a 2 months ago. He stoped writting, he only called on certain days. When i asked him about it, he said it was nothing so i did a little investigating myself. I found out he was having relations with a guard. I was at visitation and i said i'm going to get her fired to see what he would say. He yelled you don't even know her name, the he quickly changed it and said "i'm playing". He kept asking my what is her name if i'm cheating. I found it out and told him. This is the second time he lied to me about a female. He was still commuicating with his ex. When i found out about it I called her and we just talked. When he called me collect that day, i pretened tha some one was at my gate and i called her on three way. Since I found out he is cheating he constantly calls me, saying i'm a good woman and he still want to marry me. He made the comment "i'm not a cold you can't just get over me.

2006-10-14 14:59:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can I put my ex husband in jail because he doesn't give financial support for two years to our 2 children? He has a regular work.

2006-10-14 14:58:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It can be mother or father in law OR daughter or son in law. I adore my daughter in law. She's the greatest.

2006-10-14 14:58:02 · 13 answers · asked by Zelda Hunter 7 in Family

2006-10-14 14:57:33 · 7 answers · asked by Yale H 1 in Weddings

2006-10-14 14:57:18 · 19 answers · asked by Mrs. Fuzzy Bottoms 7 in Family

I'm sort of a non-living person in his eyes. He knows me but he doesnt.I need help!!

2006-10-14 14:57:11 · 9 answers · asked by Megan 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 14:56:48 · 5 answers · asked by debra r 1 in Family

do you bealive in the saying"it only matters whats on the inside not the outside" or is it bs you say to be nice???

2006-10-14 14:56:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 14:55:58 · 4 answers · asked by emo_afi_forever 1 in Singles & Dating

I know she loves me, but I dont know if she thinks of me as boyfriend material.

2006-10-14 14:55:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my friend Jess* (*name was changed) is secretly dating a austriallian teacher. he is 22 and she is 16. (oh and hes also married!) i think this is wrong but she loves it. she says he loves her and she loves him. i think hes liying. she said that they were very close to having sex. the only reason i know about it was i walked in his classroom and caught them making out. what should i tell her??

2006-10-14 14:55:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 16, and I think I'm pretty good-looking but I don't have a six-pack or a great build.And I'm also really shy around girls. What do I do?

2006-10-14 14:55:09 · 14 answers · asked by oupp30 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 14:54:42 · 11 answers · asked by Mrs. Fuzzy Bottoms 7 in Family

I mean, women love jerks. They love that bad boy thrill, and want to "reform" an abusive, vulgar, dishonest man. So, if that's what you want, then why do you whine about it when you get it?

On the other hand, confident, honest, not boring men are dismissed as being "too nice".

Then women have the nerve to complain about why they can't find a good guy. Sheesh.

2006-10-14 14:54:38 · 5 answers · asked by mike_answ 1 in Singles & Dating

my bffl like the same boy i do and he likes her bck but i secretly like him too,what should I do?

2006-10-14 14:54:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a married man cheats ..........with a girl he met at work comes back home says sorry......we try to work it out he says he wont quit his job.......he expects the wife..........me ........to just deal with it he has the balls to say i need to trust him lol......anyway 6 months have passed he lives with her now.......does he lack a heart at what he has done to me ?.........does he feel no guilt.......by the way he is 42 she the girl is 21

2006-10-14 14:53:50 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

That's me up there, no girl, just school and TV.

2006-10-14 14:52:58 · 20 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

plz dont call me bad names because im really sensitive =(

2006-10-14 14:52:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, this is lame that Im asking this, but i've been pretty confused lately. My last boyfriend and I dated for 2 1/2 years. We lived together for 9 months when we first met, then the entire last part was long distance because of a job. We got less close due to the distance apart and now we are just friends. The thing is that I totally still love him. I have been considering moving across the country to live in the same city as him again. This feels stalkerish, but he lives in Portland, Oregon (which is a fun city where I used to live) and my job ends at Christmas so I have no reason not to move somewhere new. He says that going from friends to a couple again might not work--but I think if we actually hung out in person instead of talking on the phone he would change his mind. Is it dumb to move for a guy who more than likely doesnt want to get back together? Maybe I should just move somewhere new and exciting and meet new people....I really love him a lot though and miss him....

2006-10-14 14:52:44 · 13 answers · asked by jancanyon 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 14:52:40 · 4 answers · asked by omg 1 in Singles & Dating

all women say they ant passion in a relationship in a man etc. well whats passion for you describe it and give examples??? ..... if you can't explain or give examples don't bother answering this question???? thank you

2006-10-14 14:52:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this thing called a choroidal nevus in the white part of my right eye, like a freckle (its not malignant so i don't need to seek any medical attention :) ) and it's always been hard to look at people in the eyes during a conversation, especially the opposite sex. I always find myself looking away every so often. Is there any advice you guys could give me to boost my confidence when approaching different people? people usually say that they find eyes to be attractive..and mine just aren't

2006-10-14 14:51:25 · 15 answers · asked by Julio 4 in Singles & Dating

My guyfren n i started to get intimate lately (for a yr plus now).but we're not dating exclusively.i liked him alot,not sure if he likes me too.but wen we cuddle n get comfy together, he will kiss me all over n i cld see tat he's realy horny.he kissed my lips only twice aftr we started getting intimate.after tat he will text me apologising n said tat he dont wana ruin our friendshp.eversince,he nvr kiss me on my lips but only all over my body.i asked arnd,some frens said he could be afraid of rejection n wants me to initiate the lip kissing.others said if a guy dont kiss u on d lips means he's just not into u n just using u for lust(since he kiss me all over).wats ur take on this guys/gals?pls help!

2006-10-14 14:50:59 · 30 answers · asked by pristine 2 in Singles & Dating