Family & Relationships - 14 October 2006

i have been with my boyfriend for 1 month now, and and went on our second offical date yesterday. He payed for food, we held hands, shared the same straw, etc. but yet, while we were eating, he brought up that he "will take me to the Old Spagetti Factory" for our first date. I don't get it. What does he think we're doing? What does he consider a date to be?

2006-10-14 14:40:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is worthless and I need to dump him but financially right now I just found out my job is ending. He helps pay some of the bills but its a fight to get the money from him. I dont know if I should get rid of him now or put up with it alittle longer until I get back on my feet!!!!!

2006-10-14 14:39:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cant be with the guy i loved what now?

2006-10-14 14:39:03 · 7 answers · asked by Alisha 1 in Singles & Dating

I am totally mixed up! I don't know who i want to be! I like diffrent peaple but then i have to change my personality for each one,what do i do?

2006-10-14 14:38:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

You walk into a room, he's standing right there. Takes a quick glance, looks down and glances again.

I've always wondered what this was about.

2006-10-14 14:38:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have an 8y/o daughter..this ho has been around for almost 7 years...on and off again. They both swear nada going on but tell me why she would hang up when I answer, leave my house on my way in, and just in general do stupid sh..? I called her up one day about 3 years ago, cause it had gotten so bad. I told her to come and pack his sh.. and take him to the house with her raunchy as..She said"It's not like that......we're just friends" Of course, I said BS!
We had our marriage license at that time and were planning a June wed. He got his mom to bring me to the minister's home(tricked me!) and we got married. Sure, it was sweet. On our way home the bit.. had the nerve to blow the car horn at him on the way passed us unknowing that we had just wed! So he then said "Drop it! I just married YOU! I don't want her skank as.." Now here she pops in again! Just like a bad virus. One you can't get rid of. Now what are your comments on this?

2006-10-14 14:36:41 · 16 answers · asked by edgeston34 2 in Marriage & Divorce

But havnt been caught out yet?

2006-10-14 14:35:54 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy on an online dating site and we've been dating for 2 months. When he's with me (which is couple of time a week), he's loving, attentive, caring... he mentions and introduces me to all his friends ..BUT his online profile is still up..AND I know he logs on everyday (yes, stalker behavior I know!). I guess I'm assuming he's still dating around, which I don't feel quite comfortable with. I'm not sure if I should ask him for us to be exclusive or wait a bit longer until he brings it up?

2006-10-14 14:35:35 · 4 answers · asked by soju999 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there a female on here who can blow huge bubble gum bubbles? Older than say 18? I think it's really cute, especially if they're as big as your head, or a bubble inside another! Do you have any pics? I'm just a guy in his 20's who thinks it's cute, not crazy or anything. And I'm just talking about bubble gum not anything else.

2006-10-14 14:35:32 · 2 answers · asked by stormbubble05 2 in Singles & Dating

Answers please.

He keeps talking about ladies shoes, with alittle more interest than he should have, although he refuses to wear them.

2006-10-14 14:35:30 · 5 answers · asked by funkyfaerie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mother's father is of black/N.American descent and her mother is of black/white descent.My father is black and sumthin else.So does that make me biracial or multiracial?

2006-10-14 14:35:21 · 18 answers · asked by dizzydmoney1 1 in Family

?!?!? thanks

2006-10-14 14:34:09 · 16 answers · asked by Role Model 1 in Singles & Dating

I had been going out with this guy for a week. I thought everything was going fine because he would always tell me that i was pretty and he liked my boobs and stuff like that. So one day i go into the cafeteria to go find some friends to sit with. So i see him with our friends so i go sit next to him. He's got his head down so i ask him "what are you doing?" and he says "hidding" so i say "from what?" and he says "from you" and then i frown a little and i turn away then i get tickled by him like we always did and so i just go with it and the next thing i know they all leave really quick to go sit in the gym so i try and catch up to them. so i sort of walked with my friend and my boyfriend at the same time. Then when we got into the gym my boy friend was walking to the place where we always sat, he say "come on" i say "i'm gonna go sit over there." so he just sat there by him self. Then my friend wanted to tell me smthng said that "israle thinks you and him would be better as friends"

2006-10-14 14:33:41 · 8 answers · asked by minnimoose_04 1 in Singles & Dating

i like a boy thatis total skater boy and he will only nitice me if I am like him..shoud I go skater?

2006-10-14 14:33:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-14 14:32:54 · 10 answers · asked by chaos causer 5 in Singles & Dating

do guys like skinny girls????
....im 5'5ish weigh about 102 pounds and im a freshman.
im not anorexic or belemic...and i do try to eat a lot.

2006-10-14 14:32:40 · 13 answers · asked by aeiorjklsdjf 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 14:32:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

oftenley he wants me in bed

2006-10-14 14:32:02 · 23 answers · asked by Patuma K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I see this girl at workplace but feel shy to introduce myself. I know she is also shy. Every time we pass each other on the hallway we give each other smiles but I am too shy to talk to her. I want to ask her out but feel hestitant b/c she is white and I am indian. I don't know what she thinks of me or my race. I keep thinking about her all the time and can't take her out of my mind. Is that unusual? Please give me your opinions.

2006-10-14 14:32:01 · 16 answers · asked by S J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean, women love jerks. They love that bad boy thrill, and want to "reform" a loud, vulgar, dishonest man. So, if that's what you want, then why do you whine about it when you get it?

2006-10-14 14:31:13 · 7 answers · asked by mike_answ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A) the guy that talks to me but i dont know if he likes me, but i like him.

B) the guy that i heard thinks im hot, but i dont know if he likes me.

C) the guy i really like and went out with him for a day, but we still kinda like eachother. but one of my friends is cheating on her boyfriend for this guy, but wont ever brake up with her boyfriend.

2006-10-14 14:31:09 · 8 answers · asked by snickelfritz 4 in Singles & Dating

I HAVE A FETISH OF SNIFFING MY FINGERS EVERYTIME I DO SOMETHING 1 SECOUND LATER I HAVE 2 SNIFF SOMETIMES IT SMELLS GOOD MOST OF THE TIME IT SMELLS BAD. WHAT DO U GUYS THINK AM I COOL

2006-10-14 14:30:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just moved back to my old home town miles away from all my girlfriends...and i just cant find friends...i have a daughter in kindergarden and i try to talk to the other mothers ........ they just dont seem interested in being friends....i also just decided to quit my 8 yr job to stay home with my kids because my hubby is an otr truck driver....so its even harder to meet more people my age...how can i get some friends....sound pathetic i know.......

2006-10-14 14:30:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-14 14:30:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-14 14:28:55 · 18 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

My wife & I filed for a divorce 2 months ago.Reason being she wasn't able to enjoy life as she used to be after I was retrenched mid last year.Constantly comparing how lucky all her g/f were (going shopping/holidays).She also venged her fustration on my daughter whenever she's in a bad mood.Despite efforts to salvage the marriage,she failed to understand my dilema. Eventually she demanded for a divorce.Knowng I can't provide her the life she wanted like before, I hv no choice but to comply.
However, she called last week trying to hint for a reconcilation.I have lost faith in our marriage since.But thinking of my daughter's sake(she's not too keen to see her mother back after all the abuse), should I patch up with her ?

2006-10-14 14:28:31 · 23 answers · asked by chasen54 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I are on a break which was first initiated by her. I have accepted this and i'm giving her space to do the things she wants. We still occasionally go on little dates and we have so much fun together; although we are not physically affectionate during these dates and that bothers me a bit. I want her back as my girlfriend again; im not sure what angle would be best.
do I:
1. Keep in touch, still hang out with her occasionally
or
2.put alot of space between us and have minimal contact until she wants me back

I mention #2 thinking that maybe being completely apart will get her to miss us even more.

Also, If u think i should do #1;
should I make it obvious that I still love her and care about her and want her back in my life.
or
play it cool and forget the lovey stuff for now

Im worried that #1 might get me into friend territory quickly! :S I dont think i could handle that. I just love her too much.


thanks everyone!

2006-10-14 14:28:04 · 9 answers · asked by Dmsask 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont wither i should remove my pubic hair..or not?? Is it bad to keep it on..or should i shave it off??

2006-10-14 14:27:45 · 10 answers · asked by <noidea> 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who had a baby many years ago and had to give it up for adoption when it was born. This person had to do this for reasons beyond her control. Now she is grown and wants desperately to be able to find this child of hers and be able to meet it. Has anyone ever done this or have any advice for finding this child of hers?

2006-10-14 14:26:11 · 3 answers · asked by I know, I know!!!! 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-14 14:25:15 · 13 answers · asked by crystal_1774 1 in Singles & Dating