2006-10-14 14:32:54 · 10 answers · asked by chaos causer 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just do it! the bigger the deal u make of it the harder it is to ask...the more embarrassed u may feel so...... just do it, u dint know till u ask......right. whats the worst that can happen, they say no. then ur right back where u started what have u got to lose ??
2006-10-14 14:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by symon_sayz2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are 'extremely embarrassed' then you might ask why, but if you are just nervous about asking some one out it is just life. Confidence is the key. Problem is that those with too much confidence dont take dating very seriously (some dont).
I would say that some things that help me is to think about what you are going to say. But right before you ask her out do some things that are normal for you. That way you are not thinking about it right before you ask, that is a problem as over thinking an issue (especially this one) can do more harm then good. Take a deep breath right before you ask (sounds silly but it will calm you). Then ask.
I have not done this but practicing with someone you trust I hear is helpful too. Good luck and remember everyone gets nervous about such things.
2006-10-14 21:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by Duane L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST DO IT!!!!!! If she says "no", still be friendly with her, but if you don't ask, you won't give her the opportunity to say YES. A guy I grew up with had a serious crush on me since junior high school. I knew it, but whenever I came around, he would become intimidated and quiet. He finally got in touch with me YEARS later and told me about the crush. If he would've just asked, I would've said yes. But it's too late now, I'm off the market.
2006-10-14 21:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by Butterfly Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say " you know what ? if i thought you'd go out with me i'd ask you to go -------(whereever) because i think you are neat" say this in a jolly manner and dont push it any futher let them make the next move and if they want you will get an answer soon//
2006-10-14 21:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her and ask her the worst thing she can say is no
2006-10-14 21:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by vani 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just have to take a chance.
2006-10-14 21:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by green star 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just imagine if they said 'no thanks' think of how you will feel after. At least you will know. Then sock em in the head.
2006-10-14 21:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by djzlyric 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know what you have to say before you approach the person
2006-10-14 21:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by uDONTknowME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why be embarrassed?
2006-10-14 21:34:44 · answer #9 · answered by annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask.... worse he can say is no
2006-10-14 21:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by cooler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋