Family & Relationships - 14 October 2006

I am in a relationship with a man 30 years older than me. He is verbally, emotionally, and psychologically abusive to me. I am trapped with him...my only income is social security, which is not enough to live on with two children. I want to get away from him so bad....but it seems like there is no way out. I tried to get help through the local domestic violence office, but they could only put us in a motel for two days. Since my son is 17, he's considered a man, and they do not allow men to live in the women's shelter. I have no family that can help me, and he has alienated all the friends I once had. I don't know what to do, I'm desperate to have him out of my life. Being disabled, it's hard to find a job and I really have no job skills. The abuse keeps getting worse and worse and I'm afraid he will kill me if I stay with him. Can anyone offer any suggestions? Serious only please.

2006-10-14 14:50:46 · 19 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-14 14:50:08 · 33 answers · asked by Zujiya 2 in Singles & Dating

well im sota fat/

2006-10-14 14:49:45 · 14 answers · asked by crystal_1774 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 25 and always been kinda a loner... never really had a lot of friends or went out much. I'm pretty reserved and shy, and hardly ever leave the house (only for school.) Now I'm feeling kinda lonely and like I'm missing out... I'm in my last year of college and would like to meet some people to go out and have fun over the weekend or whatever... but I don't know where. I talk to some people in class, but they are just acquantances.... everybody seems to be so busy with their studies or families, have kids, etc. I don't drink, and don't really like the club or bar scene... but then again I've never really been. So... where could I meet friends... and am I too old already for that? I do have a boyfriend, but it's a long distance relationship. I'm also kinda scared or shy about going to places alone.

2006-10-14 14:49:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know she loves me, but I dont know if she thinks of me as boyfriend material.

2006-10-14 14:49:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you had your preference and were actually able to.... would you prefer to be with different woman every night (and the woman are aware of this) and not have a relationship with any of them, or do you prefer to be just one woman in a long relationship, whether your relationship is good at this moment or not. I am trying to figure out would men prefer more woman than just the same one day in and day out.

2006-10-14 14:49:06 · 3 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Singles & Dating

if you had your preference and were actually able to.... would you prefer to be with different woman every night (and the woman are aware of this) and not have a relationship with any of them, or do you prefer to be just one woman in a long relationship, whether your relationship is good at this moment or not. I am trying to figure out would men prefer more woman than just the same one day in and day out.

2006-10-14 14:48:45 · 3 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you had your preference and were actually able to.... would you prefer to be with different woman every night (and the woman are aware of this) and not have a relationship with any of them, or do you prefer to be just one woman in a long relationship, whether your relationship is good at this moment or not. I am trying to figure out would men prefer more woman than just the same one day in and day out.

2006-10-14 14:48:24 · 11 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-14 14:48:09 · 3 answers · asked by Angelina R 1 in Singles & Dating

it was on aim and I dont think it was the best place but I really wanted to but wat does it mean I dont understand guy talk

2006-10-14 14:48:07 · 10 answers · asked by My Life is in Black and White 4 in Friends

My bf thinks that he can get it every time we are close. However I do want to do stuff with him but I dont want our sex life to become boring. What can I do? Should I play hard to get... how?

2006-10-14 14:47:32 · 11 answers · asked by Kiss_Kris_xo 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to know if the person i like has the same feelings????

and to prove your a phsychic i need u to write my first name thanx so much

2006-10-14 14:47:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi,
I have been with my boyfriend almost 3 years and 6 months and I get so mad when another girl even talks to him or seems to flirt with him at all....I dont like when he see's other girls pictures on myspace..I got mad at an ex friend for her talking to him online too much(thats not the reason me and her arent friends anymore but) ...I want to be with him all the time ...I love hearing his voice so much and it makes me want to kiss him everytime I hear him. I want to hurt anyone who has even been with him before me and I want to be the only one who he wants at all or gets his attention. I feel soo inlove with him because were so much alike and there is nothing about him I dislike. I am younger than my boyfriend and still finishing school but want to be his wife REALLY badly..Do u think im obssesed or what?
P.S
Besides being boyfriend and girlfriend were best friends too,were very close
I know he would never cheat because we both hate that. I still get really jealous though EASILY

2006-10-14 14:46:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So, I have....had.. this friend. She tries to take away every friend I have. She 'likes' every boy Iike. She is an attention craver. She crossed the line the other day. I know this is completely imature and stupid, but I really need to get back at her. I need suggestions.


Help?

2006-10-14 14:46:10 · 8 answers · asked by kait 2 in Friends

I'm not in it for the money even though she is rich, I love her for her looks and for who she is.

2006-10-14 14:45:25 · 36 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like carlos but he has a girlfriend now so things are different.

2006-10-14 14:45:05 · 3 answers · asked by Paris H 1 in Friends

I really like this boy at my school.He is really cute.I really like him and i think he does too.but when i want to talk to him he goes to the bath room or anywhere else meaning trying to avoid me and when he wants to talk to me he does the same thing he gets really shy and we both like eachother but we don't talk so I want to talk to him but i get nervous sometimes and only try to him when we are both alone and with out our friends so waht should I do?help!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-14 14:44:53 · 4 answers · asked by blackrose* 2 in Friends

Not that I have anything against these guys. They're sweet, but where are all the straight guys? Why am I attracting men I can't have? I'm straight, so it's not like I don't want men or something. And no mean comments please.

2006-10-14 14:44:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a married man who does not usually wear his wedding band, all of a sudden wears it, out of the blue -- what do you think could be going on?

i know this guy for 2 years already and i've never seen him wear his wedding band. he says that he just doesn't like wearing it. one night i saw him wearing it for the first time (without the presence of his wife). do you think that's a good or a bad thing? and why?

2006-10-14 14:44:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My problem is that I have this group of friends. There's about 5 or 6 of us. One of them is one of my best friends, but for a while now we're not the best of friends because she found someone of her own race in our group that she talks to more. There's also this other girl who talks to those two and she's in our group too. My problem is that everytime I walk with them or something, I ALWAYS feel left out. When I call them, they say they have to call me back. And the one I said was my best friend treats the other two better than me. I want to know what to do. I DO NOT WANT TO MAKE OTHER FRIENDS because there's not a lot of people at our school. There's about two different groups of girls. And I like my group I just don't know what to do. And I don't want to confront them because I know them, and they'll make the problem even bigger. Any ideas?? Thankss.

2006-10-14 14:44:24 · 2 answers · asked by nainii 1 in Friends

2006-10-14 14:43:48 · 15 answers · asked by Mike S 7 in Marriage & Divorce

think of what i am asking

2006-10-14 14:43:43 · 7 answers · asked by Scott R 2 in Singles & Dating

Husband's ex wife comes in when she is dropping my step daughter off. She then complains that my house is a mess and starts insulting me. I ask her to leave. She keeps tossing insults at me. I ask her to leave again. She stays and continues. Husband passively tells her to leave. She doesn't. All the while throwing insult after insult about me and my children. Finally, I ask her if she wants to take it outside. She tries to keep bad mouthing me. I cut it short with the same question about going outside. She leaves and calls me white trash on the way out. His family now calls me violent and evil. What would most women have done in this situation?

2006-10-14 14:43:40 · 14 answers · asked by stop_staring_please 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 14 a freshman in highschool but I have 7 younger siblings ages run from 6 through 9! I was just wondering do you think that it is cool or totally crazy! FYE they are all adopted I only have one set of twin brothers

2006-10-14 14:43:24 · 17 answers · asked by Tracy h 2 in Family

Well this girl and I have been friends for like 2 years, and when this school year started, it felt different. Like there was coldness to eachother, we can not find nothing to talk about, she always takes her BF side, and she spends time with other girls that she acts more like a BFF to. What can I do, I spent all last night crying! :(

2006-10-14 14:42:53 · 2 answers · asked by african-american 1 in Friends

i am in an abusive relationship.my boyfriend always tells me i'm fat, i'm only 103 lbs. i'm 5'5. he puts me down, tells me i'm not capable, tells me i'm ugly, or stupid, and sometimes even physically abuses me. (hitting or pushing) the thing is, the idea of leaving scares me. how do i get out? i need to.

2006-10-14 14:42:52 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i really wanna be a skateboarder but i know that I can never get it down! what do i do?

2006-10-14 14:42:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She makes love to me only when she thinks or feels she will be pregnant.

2006-10-14 14:42:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is there a female on here who can blow huge bubble gum bubbles? Older than say 18? I think it's really cute, especially if they're as big as your head, or a bubble inside another! Do you have any pics? I'm just a guy in his 20's who thinks it's cute, not crazy or anything. And I'm just talking about bubble gum not anything else.

2006-10-14 14:41:55 · 1 answers · asked by stormbubble05 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 14:40:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends