do you bealive in the saying"it only matters whats on the inside not the outside" or is it bs you say to be nice???
2006-10-14 14:56:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well this is a tough one to answer.. because the answer is both yes and no..
First.. the inside and the way people treat you and treat others and their personality is truely the most important.. yes.. but there is a matter of physical attraction that most people need to feel towareds their partner .. but.. I have found that if you arnt shallow then you could become attracted to someone that you wouldnt typically find attractive, by first becoming attracted to their personality! Baically beauty fades with time.. if you are looking for a serious life partner.. dont pass on a great person because they are not winning beauty pagants.. you might be missing out on the best thing to happen to you!
2006-10-14 14:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by minx 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Actually, it matters MORE what`s on the inside, not ONLY. You have to look neat to tell if you`re a good person inside or not. People are really judgemental. You have to look neat and healthy on the outside, but it matters what`s on the outside very little. What`s most important is what`s on the inside, so have a good behavior and attitude, be friendly, and people will no loner care how you look. That`s just my veiw on things.
2006-10-14 22:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in that saying because I've sen people who are beautiful on the outside, but their personalities suck, and people who are not so beautiful but I can't get enough of. Character is what matters.
2006-10-14 22:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by goodfowlkes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that my whole life.
My Granny used to also tell me to marry someone you enjoyed talking to because when you get old all you have left is conversation.
Hummmmm seems like the older I get the more that woman knew.
So, I have to say the answer is "YES".
2006-10-14 22:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
An ugly girl with a nice heart and a beautiful girl who's extra snooby are standing side by side and everyone would overlook the ugly girl unless she's rich or famous.Thats just how the world works
2006-10-14 21:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
TO me its bs because you wont aprroach a person just on the inside because u dont know what is the persons personality and the outside jsut makes you want to know more about them
2006-10-14 21:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by ladyaries64 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes, and no.
yes, because u can have the hottest guy in the world, but if he doesn't have the personality, it makes him unattractive.
no, because u can have the nicest guy in the world, that treats u like a queen, but if u are not physically attractive to him, it won't work out at all.
so its just depends
2006-10-14 22:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its bs that i say to be nice. i go for the outside, but if the inside is what i really like about the person, ill give them a chance.
2006-10-14 21:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by snickelfritz 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
sometimes but some people are just as nasty on the inside as they are on the outside
2006-10-14 22:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by SaDiE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
half half. i think it matters on the inside but i also think the outside is important. but just not as important. it depends
2006-10-14 22:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋