my friend Jess* (*name was changed) is secretly dating a austriallian teacher. he is 22 and she is 16. (oh and hes also married!) i think this is wrong but she loves it. she says he loves her and she loves him. i think hes liying. she said that they were very close to having sex. the only reason i know about it was i walked in his classroom and caught them making out. what should i tell her??
2006-10-14 14:55:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her that if she really loves him, she has to leave him. Otherwise, she will ruin his life for ever. And he is a low life.
2006-10-14 14:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first of u should tell her, as a best friend, i don;t think u should be dating a teacher, why because you are under age, he can hurt u, in many ways, and it is just gross. Tell her maybe if u was 19 or 20, it will b ok, but u are 16, and this is jus nuts. Tell her about other teachers and students affairs, and see if those will get to her head. Then the worst part about this is that this teacher is crazy, and pathetic, for dating a student, especialy when he is married. Let her know that as a friend, you are very concerned about what she is doing, and if she don't listen, just stop talking 2 her for a lilttle while, and c what happen. But always be on the look out to make sure they are ok. N if u really want to be her friend you should tell, and if she don't want to be ur friend any more, then just know that u save her life. You will have more friends later on in life anyway.
2006-10-14 22:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what my brother told me when he found out that I was dating a single professor of mine in college. "What are you doing that for?Don't you know he has a new one(girl) every semester? You're this years flavor of the month and next year you'll be yesterdays news." By the way the instructor should get his butt fired for trying to seduce an underaged student.Thats called jailbait and statutory rape. You should go tell him directly and tell him if he doesn't stop seeing her immediately you'll report him.
2006-10-14 22:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by Yahooanswerssux 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aha sounds like Degrassi. Well i say keep it a secret, it will all come doewn into pieces in a few weeks. Cant say you didnt try, does she know that you saw them making out? Tell her that you think it is wrong, but if she wants to do it make her learn from her own mistakes.
2006-10-14 21:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very wrong! He doesn't love her. She is a toy. Plus under age. For her own good, turn him in to the police before some young girl gets hurt. If it makes her mad, so what. He is a dangerous individual. Personally, I think he needs a bullet in his head.
2006-10-14 22:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by unclewill67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if they do have sex, then you might want to keep it personal, utherwise he will get arrested but in the mean time let her know it is the wrong thing to do
2006-10-14 22:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by snickelfritz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she is ruining ppls lives by doin this shes ruining his and his wife and her life because the teacher probably has S** with his wife
2006-10-14 21:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by My Life is in Black and White 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately Wrong!! tell someone this could get bad.
2006-10-14 21:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jinxed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong,you should tell his wife people like him are a dime a dozen. i think he is the scum of the earth
2006-10-14 22:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by gettinggray1964 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you know about him. then back away from the situation. let her handle and learn for herself.
2006-10-14 22:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by susta1951 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋