My fiance cheated on me with a guard. He is locked up. I first noticed,him changing about a 2 months ago. He stoped writting, he only called on certain days. When i asked him about it, he said it was nothing so i did a little investigating myself. I found out he was having relations with a guard. I was at visitation and i said i'm going to get her fired to see what he would say. He yelled you don't even know her name, the he quickly changed it and said "i'm playing". He kept asking my what is her name if i'm cheating. I found it out and told him. This is the second time he lied to me about a female. He was still commuicating with his ex. When i found out about it I called her and we just talked. When he called me collect that day, i pretened tha some one was at my gate and i called her on three way. Since I found out he is cheating he constantly calls me, saying i'm a good woman and he still want to marry me. He made the comment "i'm not a cold you can't just get over me.
2006-10-14 14:59:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What a catch.
No no, you should keep him.
2006-10-14 15:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You picked a real winner there, didn't you? I'm at a loss as to why you would even want to associate with a man like that. You act like he's some sort of prize and that this is a tough decision for you.
Move on. Find someone else. Like someone who's not a felon for starters. Sheesh. Have some pride and self-respect.
2006-10-14 22:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by mike_answ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me. Yes you are hurt and you will always have trust issues with him. Let's look at it from a different perspective. When a mate cheats it reveals a lot about his character and the person he is involved with. Look at the caliber of the that your mate has cheated with. Obviously she has no boundaries and she is jeopardizing her job for sex. In the environment he is in be thankful she is not a he. 73% of black women have contracted AIDS. pray tell who do you think they are getting it from. In today's world sex and lust are powerful weapons in the Devil's arsenal. More often times than not people confuse sex with love. There is a difference. When a mate cheats consider the source of who he is cheating with. You will feel a hell of a lot better about yourself, believe me,
2006-10-14 22:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Mae G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually do not say this: you need to stop taking his calls if they are collect, because I do not think he is the one for you. Yes, you can get over him, and I feel that you should.
2006-10-14 22:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by RY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think is this the kind of man that you want in your life. can you live without him. Is he worth all the stress he is putting you through. make a list what is postives and negatives and you will know the answer. simple as that.
2006-10-14 22:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by wonderingmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump this useless piece of dung, turn in the guard, and get a real man. ie one whos not in prison.
2006-10-14 22:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by Don W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move away, change your number, take a crap on his favorite thing, or object. Fly fly away.
2006-10-14 22:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first if my man was in prison i would say goodbye
2006-10-14 22:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by becca becz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his name isn't sheldon is it,cause I'm with him too
2006-10-14 22:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say
BYE BYE
2006-10-14 22:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Britt_09 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋