This guy is the hottie of the school. He's image is shy. But he used to text me and we talk about things that are not really that important. I thought he liked me. When i finally decided to give him a hint that i like him, i decided to tell him that someone from our class has a crush on him. He asked me who. I told him to guess who. The clues left pointed out to me and my girl pal (whom knows very well that i like the guy and who's by the way is the hearthrob of the school also), Then he said that he thinks that my girlpal has a crush on him (theyve never txted each other nor talked at school). When he said that, i just told him that he guessed it right coz i felt i lost. I told my girlpal about it, she couldnt believe it at first but u can tell from her words that she's willing to flirt with the guy. I made them meet up for coffee with me. I made them tell who theyre crush is, and one said the other's name. Now the guy is texting my girl pal and theyre flirting with each other.
2006-10-14 14:59:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theres nothing u can do!
sorry, but u cant change the way how ppl feel.
ur gonna have to deal/move on because the last thing u want is u and ur pal fighting over a guy
2006-10-14 15:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by jumanjifaceee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That stinks. But, it was what you allowed to happen, and if they are into each other, what would it have been like. Now the problem is , does she remain your best pal? Kind of hard to hear it all and try to act like it doesn't bother you. I guess you have to decide if her friendship is worth what you will have to go through. They may not work out anyway, so it may be a temporary thing and good friends are hard to fine. If you feel betrayed by her it's a hard decision but if you feel like you sorta helped it to happen you will have to just move on. He's not the only good looking great guy out there, he may be a player and you don't need that. It's a hard one and only you can decide what to do. Good luck.
2006-10-14 22:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess its just a bad decision that you made. I would tell him that it was YOU like like him otherwise hes gonna just start flirting it up with your friend.
2006-10-14 22:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by Elle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋