I'm 16, and I think I'm pretty good-looking but I don't have a six-pack or a great build.And I'm also really shy around girls. What do I do?
2006-10-14 14:55:09 · 14 answers · asked by oupp30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll need money, and lots of it.
2006-10-14 15:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality counts for a great deal. I've met good looking guys and I've got to know them & didn't like their personalities & all of a sudden -they don't seem so good looking anymore. The same in reverse -- If a guy isn't that good looking, but he has a great personality -- all of a sudden he's alot better looking. Looks are only part of a relationship. Looks also don't last forever - we all get older. It's better to work on having a good personality -- It's what's inside that counts. Most girls would love a guy who has a good heart & someone that makes them laugh & who is fun to be around. Shyness is something your going to have to work on. You can take baby steps. Try just saying hello at first. Then after that say "Hello, how R U? & keep going from there. You can't just get any lady you want. You have to find somebody who is interested in you and somebody that you like. Go out and practise being more assertive. Try to work on self-improvement. Eventually some pretty lady will notice you.
2006-10-14 22:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by yellow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first, you stop thinking that you can get any lady that you want because you can't.
Even the most sexiest guys cannot get every single girl that they want.
And, if you think you're good looking, stop obsessing about the little things. Step up to the plate and start a conversation with girls. I understand you're shy, but you have to emerge eventually. In order to get a girl interested in you, she has to know what you're about... and if you don't open up that'll never happen.
Be yourself, that's essential, open up more and just communicate with females better.
2006-10-14 21:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your confidence is not so confident. So, here is my suggestions:
1. Work out and get a good build, some big arms and ripped abs. Chicks Dig it, even us married ladies.
2. Join a band. Better, become the lead singer!
Good luck. Come out of your shell and read up on being more outgoing & assertive.
2006-10-14 22:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by Mommytothreein20months 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a bottle on a desert island. Rub it three times. When the genie comes out, ask for I want to be able to get with ANY woman I want. Be careful what you ask for... ever seen a movie called Love Potion No 9...?
2006-10-14 22:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then if you are shy around girls you are not going to get a girl like .
2006-10-14 21:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even in your dreams you can't get any woman that you want. If dreams were that great, I'd be asleep all the time. Trust me, you wouldn't just want ANY woman. Here's a more important question, could just ANY woman get with you? I hope not. I hope you're too valuable to be with just ANYBODY.
2006-10-14 22:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by Butterfly Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro, you dont need to be good looking or a 6 pack. that helps but its not nessesary. Be mature, down to earth, and dont try so hard. dont be desperate.
2006-10-14 21:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by mermer7@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be more out going. it`s not hard talking to girls. just open up. just act like you`re talking to your best friend. good luck ! =]
2006-10-14 21:58:17 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont cuz lifes not fair!
be you . we hate liars
the most you can do for urself is be honest and hope you dont get jaded.
2006-10-14 21:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay man i dont no that answer yeat and im 33 yrs old
2006-10-14 21:58:05 · answer #11 · answered by lewis 1136 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋