Family & Relationships - 14 October 2006

2006-10-14 17:44:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what does a wife have to do to keep you completly satisfied happily and faithfully in marriage ?!!! Be honest I just want to understand a mans point of view ..women to what do you want from a man to be completly satisfied and happy in marriage ?

2006-10-14 17:42:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have been having problems for quite a while. 6 months ago I hired a marriage counselor, but it doesn't seem to be helping enough. We have problems with trust and cooperation. Because of our lack of progress and because the problems are immediate and pressing I am beginning to feel that time is running out. I want to send up a metaphorical warning flare for my wife meaning "pay attention, this is serious, time to take action!!" I think it makes sense to let her know I'm feeling near desperation. I know it will sound like I'm threatening her with divorce if she doesn't change: I don't think coercing her to change to my way of thinking makes any sense. I'm wondering if there is a way of communicating my feelings of seriousness and urgency without it sounding like a threat. Maybe it isn't possible. Serious, balanced, and thoughtful answers please.

2006-10-14 17:41:54 · 22 answers · asked by Dale R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so im 18, im still a virgin, but i really just wanna do it...i kinda want it to be with a a guy i've been hooking up with for a while (which i actually kinda like, and i think he kinda likes me too) but if not, i wouldnt even really care who it was with...is there anything really wrong with that? and if i do do it with that guy do u think he would like not respect me as much after that or anyhting?

2006-10-14 17:41:51 · 23 answers · asked by fini 2 in Singles & Dating

Not sure if I am in love or not. Would love to hear how others knew they were in love.

2006-10-14 17:40:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 17:40:56 · 4 answers · asked by isemoe 1 in Singles & Dating

I am fifteen and have never been with a guy. And by been with a guy, I mean I've never had a boyfriend, kissed, etc. Nothing sexual, not ready for that. Anyway, the thing is I am really picky. I know so many nice guys, but there is something "wrong" with them- don't care about their grades, once smoked, once drank, been with a lot of girls. Should I not be so picky, or should I wait for the "perfect guy" Does one even exhist?

Should it really matter if they guy has smoked or drank if he only did it once and will never do it again? And what about grades? I'm kind of a naive goody-goody with my grades, smoking, drinking, etc

2006-10-14 17:40:49 · 22 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

My man and me have been together for a long time now and I love him. hes everything for me and i see a future with him..its just we have a long distance relationship.Lately, he hasnt been paying attention to me.All he does is stupid EBAY. hes obsessed with it.I dont mind that hes on it everyday, but when we on the phone, thats all he does. he ignores me!! and if he aint on ebay, hes always talking to someone.So we hardly talk and it bothers me.I have talked to him about it and we agreed we both gonna change,but he still ignoring me.its making me real sad and im slowly losing interest. I tell him this and it seems that it dont phase him.He even told me today that i bore him,i dunno what to do.I dont wanna lose him cuz hes the best ive ever had and we migh t be parents, but its like im just on the side...ive already talked to him...what do i do? Sometimes i feel that guys on the street give me more attentio nand make me feel good..it hurts cuz it aint my man.What do i do?!

2006-10-14 17:40:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-14 17:40:05 · 9 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering?

2006-10-14 17:38:25 · 23 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

My 15 year old son’s girlfriend reminds me of a boy. I don’t mean to be rude, but she has short short hair, dresses like a tomboy and speaks with a lowered voice. Her name is Joanna, but she prefers to be called Jo. Anyway this is my son’s first girlfriend. Is the reason she is so masculine an indication that he may be gay? I do not have a problem with it at all, but I was just curious. I've tried talking to him but he tells me to shut up.
What do yall think?

2006-10-14 17:38:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

some friends told me that because of me, most of their friends did not talk or hang out with them anymore.. You see, their friends are hanging out with me and stuffs.. But i did not steal their friends away from them... And they accused me amd lots of hurtful words... I AM SAD!!!! should i just leave all of them and isolate myself from them?? Am i not fated to have friends?? Pls advice...

2006-10-14 17:36:48 · 10 answers · asked by iwanrosly 2 in Friends

so everybody tells me "youll find that guy when u least expect it" but its always in the back of my mind that i wanna find someone. how do u get it off ur mind and get totally independent that needing that guy it not at all a priority or a thought of mine? i just wanna stop caring and its so hard trying to get guys off my mind. HOW?! HELP!

p.s. and NO im not going to become a lesbian, just for those smart alec answers that people like to leave!!!

2006-10-14 17:36:48 · 11 answers · asked by teneff88 1 in Singles & Dating

ther is this senior named dillion at my school. we met one night in a paerk at night. he was giving me hints he wanted to makeout we did. but here is the catch i am a sophmore k then friday at school everyone was saying we kissed the hole skul new. then he got mad and said i told everyone but really i told 1 friend and she told everyone.i still really like him and want to go to homecoming with him but how could i get him to like me again? please help!!

2006-10-14 17:36:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-14 17:36:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son was 28 and killed himself over a girl / I am 47 I have lost my best friend, I thought I knew him well - but I didn't, I have put myself into my work the busier i am the better it is for me - but - when I am not busy - then everything comes to mind, it feels as if I start the whole process over again, what could I have done to prevent it, Why didn't I notice he was depressed, I am so lonely for him. what can do ? His room is the same as he left it.

2006-10-14 17:35:12 · 18 answers · asked by missing_my_blue 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am kind of a freaky person I geuss well you tell me... when I go places it turns me on if a lady bumps into me by accident. Sometimes when I walk by a lady I try to rub against her butt on the sly and pretend like it was an accident. I am kinda of shy but I do this to satisfy myself tell me am I a bad person???

2006-10-14 17:34:54 · 20 answers · asked by splove2009 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 17:34:36 · 14 answers · asked by boxer 2 in Singles & Dating

then complain that all men are jerks?
why didn't they choose wiser?
huh? how bout us nice guys?

2006-10-14 17:33:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel like such a failure and I wish I could do something to make my parents know how much I love them and wish I could give them the world. Any ideas?

2006-10-14 17:33:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-14 17:31:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a real problem, i like this guy and we flirt and when i dont see him i miss him but he wont ask me out. So my question is how do i get him to ask me out?

2006-10-14 17:31:40 · 15 answers · asked by Love Is Suicide 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex bf Matt and I brokeup after a month and 3weeks. B/c I felt like I was being taken for granted and I cheated on him with a guy I thought I wanted. And Matt my ex gives me this look in Math class when he has a gf the look is like I love her but not as much as I love u. And when I was dancing with my friend Chris my ex Matt looks at me straight in the eye and he looks really sad. And then when I looked at him straight in the eye he looks down.Why is that? And its been 5months. And his gf brokeup with him 2months ago.

2006-10-14 17:31:08 · 10 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 5 years and am afraid I am not in love with my husband anymore. He is more like a friend and to that point I am not attracted to him at all. He senses somthing and I just don't know what to do.

2006-10-14 17:30:40 · 21 answers · asked by SexyScorp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so my friend really likes this guy but its totally the wrong one for her. shes totally clean and he is going 2 mess everything up for her. what should i tell her?

2006-10-14 17:30:37 · 14 answers · asked by culbeebabyx3 1 in Friends

Anyone I've truly had a crush on was either in a relationship, or was looking for a specific type that I am not. I've dated people who were into me (for that very purpose), but I was far from interested. I'd like to break this frustrating cycle, but how? If knowledge can set me free, please fire away with answers!

2006-10-14 17:30:30 · 7 answers · asked by Oceanswimmer26 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that i know and i have had feeling for her since we first met. I like other girls but this girl i always think about. I almost have at times but i just never did. I want to tell her how i truly feel but i dont want to make things weird. What should i do?

2006-10-14 17:30:21 · 11 answers · asked by biggamej4mes23 1 in Singles & Dating

What is a good game for a teenage party?? Other than having music and chips and stuff??? I am having one the 21st so I want some ideas!!!

♥me...

2006-10-14 17:29:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and would u ever consider dating him?

2006-10-14 17:29:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for all mother is the first wonderful women

except her whom do u like most?

2006-10-14 17:29:31 · 3 answers · asked by kalai 1 in Friends