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I feel like such a failure and I wish I could do something to make my parents know how much I love them and wish I could give them the world. Any ideas?

2006-10-14 17:33:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

12 answers

The best thing you could ever do for your parents is to do something constructive for yourself.

2006-10-14 17:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Onjel 2 · 0 0

The best thing you can do is to make the most of your life, being the best you can be, and showing them that you love them. When was the last time you hugged your mom and told her that you love her? Or the last time you asked your dad to do something that would involve spending time alone together? Most of us would like to give our parents the world, but that's not possible. The only thing you can do is to prove to them they are doing good at raising you, and that is world enough.

2006-10-15 00:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by bugoff26 2 · 0 0

I'm sure they're very proud of you already. I would be more concerned as to why you feel like 'such a failure'.

2006-10-15 00:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0 0

The question should be 'What can I do to make ME proud of me?'

Tell them you love them. That should be enough.

A parent's love is (or should be) unconditional. Not based on what the child has done to make THEM feel proud.

You must live life for you!

Best wishes.

2006-10-15 12:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

STOP!!!
do not put yourseld down b/c they dont congradulate you enough..trust me..!
I have an older brother they are always saying nice thing sabout him and not me... like even if he does something wrong somehow he is better than me..and i got the better grades..better classes..and i did much more than him either than sports... and also i started having responsibility b4 him b/c i got a job at an earlier age...did that help? no!...
so you need to stop trying to make them say how much they are proud of you adn just be proud of yourself....i had to learn to do that to me..now i dont wait anymore i know i do my best..i know im a good person adn student i dont need their approval or their commetns to make me feel good... i know i wish they would say it but since they dont im not gonna put me down b/c of it...
and just tell them you love them everyday and how happy you are that they are your parents and that you are their son...and for everything they have done fo ryou...try to hang out and do manly stuff with your dad and hug your mom and kiss her and stuff....but don't worry one day they will notice...but please stop putting yourself down it's not worth it...and be proud of yourself ....
if you still have trouble then you should talk to them abou tit..and tell them that you never feel good about yourself because they dont congradulate you on anything..and that you feel bad b/c you think they are not proud of you...
good luck!

2006-10-15 00:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 0 0

sounds to me you feel your parents either don't give you enough attention or you just want something to make them go thats my kid. try anything your parents will love you for whatever they'll always be proud of you if you follow good examples and maybe get good grades in school

2006-10-15 00:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by marlee f 1 · 0 0

ok ur parents definatly should already b proud of u for just being their kid. what u should do is watch wife swap or nanny 911 with them so they can see what a good kid u are compared to the little a-ss holes they show on those freakin shows i mean come on ----anyway if they arent proud of u shame on them thats just bad parenting dont be so hard on ur self :)

2006-10-15 00:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Be yourself. Don't change who you are. Make a homeade card, Buy some flowers, leave a note somewhere unexpected..refridgerator..tell them that you love them. You don't have to buy things to show your love. My parents have done that to me all their lives, and I hate it. They buy me their love. Just show your love, and let them know they are loved.

2006-10-15 00:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

tell them that you love them and then come back on here and tell us if it worked...also you should do what they tell you when they tell you...that's a no-brainer. Good luck!

2006-10-15 00:40:50 · answer #9 · answered by alayton_1991 2 · 0 0

smoke weed

2006-10-15 00:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0 0

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