2006-10-14 17:34:36 · 14 answers · asked by boxer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean why can't someone have faults? and then you could have compassion,nobody is perfect, I do not expect women to look perfect so why can't I not be perfect in some ways,I can still be strong and self assured and make mistakes it feels to me that sometimes women are harder on men than the other way around, I mean realy have a heart.
2006-10-14 17:38:42 · update #1
I think it goes both ways...^_^
Humans...sheesh, lol.
But the thing is, when you're with someone, you think that they are perfect, so it always works out in the end...usually.
;-)
2006-10-14 17:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the joy of trying to deal with a modern women. Yes we can be an annoying, overbearing royal pain in the ***. But looking for a guy to be perfect, hell no. Want him to meet whatever standard we have personally set for ourselves in an ideal mate, well, unless the woman is an absolute *****, it comes down to what are you both willing to compromise on. Men kept asking for women to not be as needy, be out in the work world, women kept pushing men to be more emotionally supportive in the home and out, so we're all just mixed up. Don't worry about the perfection seekers, they're usually high maintenance, find a nerd, hell of a lot easier to date.
2006-10-15 00:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sword cuts both ways. Many women have unrealistic expectations in relationships, and want their man to be "perfect", at least they want it subconsciously. But many men want their women to be "perfect" in their own way. Men are no better than women in this, and women no better than men, it's just that men and women usually have different wants and expectations in a relationship.
Both genders need to learn some unconditional love.
2006-10-15 00:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by The Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds Like you are trying too hard to be perfect. And maybe you can look to how you see yourself rather than blaming women.
As a 44 year old I have dated a lot of women.over the years..and I have learned that I dont have to be "perfect" in their eyes to be a man and attractive to them. Women in my humble opinion are not looking for Mr. Perfect, but they do want someone who is confident in who he is!
Be proud of who and what you are....A woman is attracted to confidence.
Go get em Tiger!!
2006-10-15 00:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by irishladsj1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only have a few wants:
1.Good looking (Hot)
2.dimples (trust me it looks extremely cute!!)
3.Smart
4.Great Personality
5.Makes conversations anything but awkward
6.Blue/green eyes
7.Great Hair
8. There's more but I forgot...
lol :) I guess your right but I've found a guy that fits everything so he must be a god! lol I luv this question/comment!!!!!!
2006-10-15 00:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by Cherryluver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define perfection.
We want men to be as close to it as possible, you could still be humans, but why be the worst one around when there's always room for improvement.
2006-10-15 00:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by MuzicLv'er 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope..
Perhaps the bar is too high for some but for the most part,
women are quite reasonable...
2006-10-15 00:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfection is boring. I like flaws. They create character.
2006-10-15 00:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by cree siempre 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think in general people can forget that no human is perfect.
2006-10-15 00:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but if you like women you just have to deal with it, but with that said we dont want you to be prefect we just want you to be better, and dont get angry with us because its not our fault its in our nature, but trust me once women go through a relationship where the man says things like that and worse to them they relize they just have to let men be men
2006-10-15 00:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by dazed.and.confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋