Family & Relationships - 14 October 2006

I want to move on but I can't because I don't want to leave my 10 month old son without his dad and I love him to much to leave him, but I can't take his childish games anymore. He hurts me to much and the baby sees it and feels it to because he cries when he sees us arguing. I don't want this for him and I don't need this either. What do you guys suggest I should do?

2006-10-14 18:23:16 · 10 answers · asked by LaDii PyRoH_LoKs 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this guy I ...um...how do you say...had something more than friends with, but it was a real grey area. It was the most magical and happiest time of my life. It was very spontaneous, and at the drop of a hat, we'd take off somewhere. 6 months go by, no official title yet, and we were still doing the same thing...messing around, having fun, and there was no assumption we would hang out on the weekends. For me, it was torture, because I started wanting that official title of "girlfriend" but this guy would not have it. He had just gotten out of a relationship of 2 years, as was I. However, 6 months go by, and I was kinda ready to start up again. I tried to make it okay for us to just be casual, but in my heart, I wanted more. 3 years have gone by, I now have a boyfriend, he has a newly acquired girlfriend. I can't help but feel there is some unfinished business there. Yet, I am done playing games. Do I say goodbye or remain his friend? HELP.

2006-10-14 18:22:31 · 11 answers · asked by Ther 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i never know when he's gonna call me. he lives with his babymama. he left me a message a few days ago and told me to call him when i got it. i called him, and his voice mail came on. wtf. should i keep calling him or leave it alone since i haven't heard from him since his message?

2006-10-14 18:22:12 · 12 answers · asked by beachgirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well my friend susana doesnt like the way i am like i like gangsta stuff and all that!!And she says why do u like all that crap its stupid!!Then later i was walking with my 2 best friends Stephanie and Tesoro then she comes and says wat r u doing i need to talk to u i said ok then i told stephanie and Tesoro to go with out me then i told susana wat and she said nothing and she also said i just dont want you to hang around with them!Im only ur friend so like she only wants me to be with her never with my other friends then wen shes all with her other friends she 4gets about me and shes all with her friends and never lets me be with my other!Should i dump her as a friend or wat should i do????

2006-10-14 18:21:58 · 17 answers · asked by Pinkie R 1 in Friends

Ok i have posted here about 3 weeks ago on me accusing my husband of cheating, and he didnt.....still having problems.

We have been married 9 years and I understand him needing to get away from me...lol we need a little space from each other. He goes to the local bars about 3-4 times a week to deal and play poker and now hes going with a friend to help him with his karaoke nights. I am here at home with 3 kids alone every night sometimes till 4 am. We are going through some financial difficulties right now and we dont have a vehicle, so I go for a week or more without leaving the house, not even to go to the grocery store.......I dont know how to explain to him that I need him , without sounding too needy. I have friends, but they have children also, and I cant go out on my own to occupy my time......I am about to go insane. How do I get him to listen to me without him saying im a b*tch or im just jealous.......Please help

2006-10-14 18:21:47 · 11 answers · asked by sifford844 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-14 18:21:25 · 4 answers · asked by el_taltaro_17 1 in Friends

Since so many are seeking help. Your input has got to be valuable.

2006-10-14 18:20:03 · 16 answers · asked by Charlie Kicksass 7 in Marriage & Divorce

people always tell me i'm pretty, but i don't know because i'm always lonely. everytime i meet a guy that i like he never likes me back. he always just wants sex. i'm so frustrated! why does this happen to me? i'm sick of throwing my back out trying to get guys to like me.....only to end up alone and on my computer poppin sleepin pills to escape. what should i do? it's always the guys that are last on my list who seem like they're willing to treat me good. HELP!

2006-10-14 18:20:02 · 20 answers · asked by beachgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Tonight my husband came back to base from a gig with the military at 6:30pm. I knew this but did not tell him I knew this. I waited for him to come home by now it was 7pm so I called him. I asked him if he was on his way home and the first thing he said was oh there was an accident on the way back to base so it took them longer to get back,...I told him I knew that they got back at 6:30p. Then he said he was playing some foosball game......its not a big deal if he's playing some games before comming home. But I HATE the fact that he doesn't tell me what is really going on and says something else to cover up why he's not on his way home, etc... he does this to me often. Why does he do this? Why can't the guy just tell the truth about what is going on instead of using some kind of cover up?

2006-10-14 18:19:29 · 16 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I used to have a serious problem of watching porn, till I realized it isnt healthy anymore. Although many attempts to get rid of them completely, the wife seems to find them in places I totally forget to search in. I just want her to know that I was serious when I told her im not into it anymore, & dont want her to believe Im trying to lie or hide them from her. She didnt show she was annoyed, instead she was very sweet and asked politely to get rid of them. Yet, I believe it didnt feel nice when she keeps finding them, & that I should really say or do something about this situation, which will hopefully never happen again. Any suggestions?

2006-10-14 18:18:35 · 17 answers · asked by Zwerg 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-14 18:18:10 · 18 answers · asked by X 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 18:17:49 · 12 answers · asked by latinababy72 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have gone so far off the deep end it is rediculous. We fight over every little damn petty thing. We both have a problem with having to be right. We will argue and argue friggen details that don't even matter in the big picture, but if we don't remember something right we will fight and fight. It's almost as though we are two people living side by side and sharing a child as opposed to a married couple. Has anyone had success turning a situation like this into a happy marraige? If so, how and what did you do (I'd like to do counceling, but my husband is not up for it)?

2006-10-14 18:17:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok Its like this. I went out with this girl about three years ago and we broke up. I just started to talk to her and I'm getting some feelings for her. I don't know what to do because she likes this other guy but they broke up like two weeks ago. I guess they still mess around and But its not like I'm with her. It bothers me that she talks to him but she said that she went with him in the movie theaters last night and all they did was argue. I wen't to the club because I knew she was going to be with him. I Feel depressed when I think about them together and She told me today that she hecka likes me. When I told her that I hecka like her back she told me that shell tell me that When she really likes me. What should I do>?

2006-10-14 18:17:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What would you do if you call a girl that gave you her phone and she does not return your call back?

I do really think she likes me, she has been giving me the right signal for two weeks. I did not jump in right cause i did not know what to expect. This girl works at the gym that i work out at, she stars me every time that I'm in the gym. I have caught several times looking at me through the mirrors. So i decided to ask her for her phone number, she gave it to me and I bet she was happy giving it to me cause from her reaction I know she was waiting for me ask her out. I told her that I was her and she said yes.

shoul i give it another shot?
if not, should i talk to her after she did not answer my calls?

2006-10-14 18:17:18 · 3 answers · asked by leki1551 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf and me broke up (stoped talkin) 5 months ago... i really dont know the reason only that the last itme i talkd to him he got really jelouse for stupid reason and i got mad and said " F u then" because he ddint believe me

so now he says hes kool that he loves me(to his friends)bt doesnt talk to me or anything!!! when i talk to him he only says maybe or idk

whats wrong w/ him???

2006-10-14 18:17:05 · 15 answers · asked by thegirlfromthegrayhouse 3 in Singles & Dating

she is totally self employed, and i am just the average joe.

2006-10-14 18:16:43 · 3 answers · asked by vernon shadow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a guy that I work with who has started being very nice to me all the sudden. We had the same break and we were talking about classes and what not because we go to school together. Anyway, at school I've seen him with a girl, who I am assuming is his girlfriend and he is NOT the type to cheat. But it seems likes he's flirting, he's just being too nice.

I guess I could be wrong about the girl. Or I could be wrong about his actions- he might just be overly nice....to me.

Any thoughts?

2006-10-14 18:16:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 18:15:28 · 12 answers · asked by cAoS 1 in Friends

2006-10-14 18:15:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

not co-workers, but people who are friends outside of work, who call you and want to be around you on their own time.

2006-10-14 18:15:01 · 5 answers · asked by bananapuddingwithcoolwhip 2 in Friends

Has anybody here ever given/gotten one? From who? Did it hurt? What were you wearing?

2006-10-14 18:14:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My bf that Im planning on getting engaged to goes out everynight with his friends. Everyday of the week and comes home at 3 or 4. Now we are in a long distance relationship at the moment but he tells me that aslong as I trust hes not doing anything wrong I need to stop worrying. And I dont just worry we fight every night over the same thing. He doesnt put himself in a bad situation like a bar or club just the daily meeting up with his friends. Am I overreacting..being insecure..or controlling as he says or do I have the right to be worried?

2006-10-14 18:14:24 · 14 answers · asked by Amani 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and with who?
and why do they do that?

2006-10-14 18:13:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Both of 'em dunno how 2swim. U can only rescue 1.
Just curious 'bout it........

2006-10-14 18:13:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-14 18:13:34 · 13 answers · asked by EddieDiablo 1 in Singles & Dating

MY EMAIL ADD IS BEEZWEXZ@YAHOO.COM.

2006-10-14 18:12:35 · 4 answers · asked by MEMORY YOU 1 in Singles & Dating

and if it ain't, why is it so prevalent, and if so,
how come i can't get any?
and why are so many women doing it then?
is it an instinctual impluse for women to do it?
and they say, men are pigs always thinking about sex.
i dont think so. its women that are doing the sleeping
around and cheating!
they HAVE CHEATING HEARTS AND WONDERING EYES!

2006-10-14 18:12:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My man and me have been together for a long time now and I love him. hes everything for me and i see a future with him..its just we have a long distance relationship.Lately, he hasnt been paying attention to me.All he does is stupid EBAY. hes obsessed with it.I dont mind that hes on it everyday, but when we on the phone, thats all he does. he ignores me!! and if he aint on ebay, hes always talking to someone.So we hardly talk and it bothers me.I have talked to him about it and we agreed we both gonna change,but he still ignoring me.its making me real sad and im slowly losing interest. I tell him this and it seems that it dont phase him.He even told me today that i bore him,i dunno what to do.I dont wanna lose him cuz hes the best ive ever had and we migh t be parents, but its like im just on the side...ive already talked to him...what do i do? Sometimes i feel that guys on the street give me more attentio nand make me feel good..it hurts cuz it aint my man.What do i do?!

2006-10-14 18:12:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been together since 1999. I moved here to Michigan after high school, i am originally from Ohio. I left my family and friends behind to be with the man i love. It's been a long time, still no ring. Do you think he will ever truely commit or should i just give up and leave him...? We own a home together, everything we have is in both of our names...he just wont even talk about marriage. What should i do?

2006-10-14 18:11:30 · 22 answers · asked by ~*StAcY*~ 1 in Singles & Dating