Well my friend susana doesnt like the way i am like i like gangsta stuff and all that!!And she says why do u like all that crap its stupid!!Then later i was walking with my 2 best friends Stephanie and Tesoro then she comes and says wat r u doing i need to talk to u i said ok then i told stephanie and Tesoro to go with out me then i told susana wat and she said nothing and she also said i just dont want you to hang around with them!Im only ur friend so like she only wants me to be with her never with my other friends then wen shes all with her other friends she 4gets about me and shes all with her friends and never lets me be with my other!Should i dump her as a friend or wat should i do????
2006-10-14 18:21:58 · 17 answers · asked by Pinkie R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She sounds exactly like a jealous boyfriend my sister had. Sheesh! Sounds like she wants to control you and wants you all to herself. Run! Get away now! Be yourself. You have your own mind don't let anyone control you.
2006-10-14 18:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by beckini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She maybe trying to protect you. You two should just talk it out. I went through that with a best friend to this day I regret that I was jealous of her friendship with the other person. If you don't see her changing then I say keep your distance. If she was a true friend she would not keep from people that you fit in with. She will also try and included you with her others friends even though you may not like them. I say you do you and let her do whatever. Because you were doing whatever before her and still can do it with out her.
2006-10-14 18:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jazzie_J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your psychology must be, "Im no longer gonna watch you change into an alcoholic"! Thats how i might want to take care of him. Dont accuse him of a few thing, basically tell him this and be finished with it. If he doesnt substitute or elect counseling then unload him. I by no skill went through that section. ingesting is a waste of money and time. It ruins lives, relationships and kinfolk on a daily basis. Thats the way you need to look at it. very last time I had some thing to drink develop into Champagne at a wedding ceremony 9 months in the past.
2016-10-16 04:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Susana considers herself as your good friend she wouldn't leave you alone when she's with her other friends, and maybe she's just trying to manipulate you and that doesn't sound too good 4 me. Try to talk to her and let her know that you have your own personality and if she wants to be your friend you should meet half way. She will have to pay more attention to you when she's with her other friends and then you'll decide if you still want to be with her. Hope it was clear. wish you the best!;)
2006-10-14 18:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Carolita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has any good reason for the "advice" she's giving about your other friends, then maybe she really cares about you and wants to keep you from getting yourself into trouble. However, if she just wants to control your life and who you hang out with for no reason at all, then you should just hang out with people who aren't so overbearing. Just remember, a true friend will always care about what you're doing and who you're hanging out with, because they will genuinely care about you.
2006-10-14 18:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by tigerfish313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you ask me id say keep her around as a hi, how are you friend but you shouldn't let her try to control your life which is what she is trying to do. just because she doesn't like the other friends you have doesn't give her the right to tell you not to hang out with them. you should be friends with whoever you want to.
2006-10-14 18:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by shortyWannaRide513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-14 18:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by raj the secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should dump her because she so selfish in her way of treating you as a friend. she is totally unfair for not letting you go with other people besides her!!! dump her though in a nice way, stay calm and just tell her that you might not be seeing each other for awhile, and she might realize her mistakes then.
2006-10-14 18:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by vernon shadow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is being childish
and unfair
talk to her.
they say love is blind, deaf and dumb, but not stupid i must add.
she wants to b wit u always, understably. but u wud get tired of her and she wud find u boring if that happens.
its more fun with a group but u gotta pay the 1st sacrifice of staying with her, with ur hands off her... and she knows u really care. then later u can bring in the friends, pray wit her, go to church read your bible, go to movies, shop with her, u know, all the normal tins normal people do
2006-10-14 18:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by D *)sukky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her as a friend i had the same problems and tell her not to talk to u again!!!
2006-10-14 18:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋