2006-10-14 18:17:49 · 12 answers · asked by latinababy72 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Like food, clothes even books or toys.
2006-10-14 18:24:20 · update #1
no its most certainly not right, when i bring stuf form my moms to my dad my dad always eats it or takes it or has to approve it. I would hate for this to happen to another person. And you can quote me on this "he is an unstable, childish, egotisical baby"
2006-10-14 18:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by Fol67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is HIS house, he has the right to decide what comes into it. I do however think he is being a bit petty about the clothes and toys, but you have no reason to expect him to allow food you purchase in his home. But again it is HIS home and he has the right to say no to anything.
2006-10-15 03:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MEN ARE MEN. Theres no sense in the kids having to chose what toys they want here or there. If your ex thinks hes hes *TOO GOOD* For your stuff in his house, LET HIM BUY IT!! But then again, no need for you to rush out and by them everything either. Loving your kids should not be a competition, Love has no price tag!!!!!!
2006-10-15 01:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by sweetkas_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been divorced for a few years. If you two are recently divorced, it will take some time for him not to feel threatned by the kids bringing things to his 'territory.' Men have very fragile egos, as long as you try and reassure that you aren't tryin' to overthrow his, he may calm down. Hopefully, that will help. Later...
2006-10-15 01:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by icu292876 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not on the surface, but what exactly are you giving the kiddies?
REVISION: That's lame. He shouldn't feel put out by your gifts to the children. Unfortunately, it being his home and all, he probably has the right to decide what comes in and what stays out. Bummer he has to be that way. :p
2006-10-15 01:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not really cause like some stuff that my dad gives 2 my bro m mom dont let it in the house cause like it is probably my dads gfs brothers stuff and we get bad luck all the time so but i sti ll dont think its rite ur the mom of those kids so its not rite !!!
2006-10-15 01:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by #1_cute_baby_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE THEY YOUR KIDS? DID YOU HAVE THEM? IF SO, THEN OF COARSE THIS ISN'T RIGHT. FIRST OF ALL YOU ARE THEIR MOTHER AND THEY NEED TO FEEL A PART OF YOU WHEN YOU ARE NOT AROUND. SMALL CHILDREN CAN FEEL SECURE WITH ITEMS SUCH AS A BEAR OR A BOOK. SOMETHING THAT WILL REMIND THEM "MOMMY IS STILL A PART OF ME" . YOUR EX MUST HAVE MAJOR ISSUES, IF HE CAN'T HANDLE "STUFF" IN HIS HOME YOU GIVE YOUR KIDS.
2006-10-15 01:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by realfix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not right. I take stuff from my dads all the time! There is nothing wrong with that! (unless its bad stuff! lol)
2006-10-15 01:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
He's taking his problems with you out on them. Not cool.
2006-10-15 02:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would never tell my kids that they couldn`t take something to my house thier mother gave them
2006-10-15 01:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by steamroller98439 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋