2006-10-14 18:18:10 · 18 answers · asked by X 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no nice way. Either way it goes, getting dumped hurts like h e l l. Just get it over with, and don't be a jerk about it. Oh, and please don't try to be Mr.Humble, and use the old "it's not you, it's me" line that we've all seen on t.v. It doesn't work on the tube, and it won't work in real life either.
2006-10-14 18:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are good with words write them a letter, and tell them (1) how you feel (2) what you want to see happen (3)tell them how they affected your life in a good way, and you will keep that memory
For example, right now I am feeling frustrated because our relationship is not working how i had hoped it would be. I would like us to part as friends. I shall always carry with me the memory of your beautiful sense of humour, you taught me to laugh at myself when I get so serious, and for this you have my gratitude, thank you for being part of my life, and you know I only wish you the best
Try not give them a reason to hold on after this letter, and be honest, but not brutal. Best of luck
2006-10-14 18:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and humble. Never tell the person your distastes. Just tell them you are no longer interested. At the same time, don't throw up your new flame about another. Give it sometime before having another affair. Give the dust some time to settle... or else, you'll make a puddle of mud that you will become stuck in. Karma is so important. Remember how you treat another will come back to you. Someday, the person you care for will have to tell you goodbye, so the nicer you are to another person, will bring a nicer ending back to you. {if you know what I mean}. WHAT COMES AROUND...GOES AROUND!
2006-10-14 18:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Ms-No-It-All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quick and to the point And if doesn't get it rent a dump truck tell him to climb in and left the dump bed and send him out the back crashing to the ground.
2006-10-14 18:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you should ask yourself why you want 2 dump that person? Because you can't just dump someone w/out a reason.
2006-10-14 18:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Directly. Dump the directly. Don't prolong it. Be honest. And always them the things you like about them. And the memories you will always share.
2006-10-14 18:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by Onjel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply be honest with them and let them know what the issues are and that you also have issues that you need to work out on your own. Then if they try to get clingy...sever the ties, no contact.
2006-10-14 18:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say...I think we've had a great time together, but I think we should see other people and I hope we can still be friends. (I know this is a classic movie asnswer but it works.)
2006-10-14 18:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by jacob_advice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you still want to be great friends and you have had a good relationship so far but you just don't have feelings for that person any more but just wanna be friends
2006-10-14 18:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by miawannabeurfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell em that u cant tke it o more and that he will have someone 4 her or him in the future and u can stay friends wit that person and that it is not workin out !!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-14 18:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋