My man and me have been together for a long time now and I love him. hes everything for me and i see a future with him..its just we have a long distance relationship.Lately, he hasnt been paying attention to me.All he does is stupid EBAY. hes obsessed with it.I dont mind that hes on it everyday, but when we on the phone, thats all he does. he ignores me!! and if he aint on ebay, hes always talking to someone.So we hardly talk and it bothers me.I have talked to him about it and we agreed we both gonna change,but he still ignoring me.its making me real sad and im slowly losing interest. I tell him this and it seems that it dont phase him.He even told me today that i bore him,i dunno what to do.I dont wanna lose him cuz hes the best ive ever had and we migh t be parents, but its like im just on the side...ive already talked to him...what do i do? Sometimes i feel that guys on the street give me more attentio nand make me feel good..it hurts cuz it aint my man.What do i do?!
2006-10-14 17:40:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get a pregnancy test asap! find out for sure. then tell him if you are, if you are not then you should probably just let him go. If you dont share the same intersts now, or if his interests bother you so much, think about what it will be like 10 years from now! Sounds like a relationship based on lust. There are plenty of good men out there...
2006-10-14 17:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships just don't work. I was in one we would start out fine then slowly over time he would drift apart. I am so sorry the best way to handle it is don't put so much of you in it. that is how learned to protect myself and my feelings. he probably is losing interest if he has not already have. how often do you see each other? if the visits are less and less then you might want to find someone where you are. maybe don't act so interested in him to see if you get a different response. that is on idea. sometimes i hate men because they can not be honest.
2006-10-15 00:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Big Chelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems he takes you for granted. If i was your man i wouldnt do that. I would treat you how you want to be treated. I think it is a little weird. Maybe it is time to move on.
2006-10-15 00:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by biggamej4mes23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have talked to him and he isn't giving you attention maybe it is time to move on and find someone closer that will give you the attention you need.
2006-10-15 00:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by lunarbuni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time to let him go. Get on with your life. Your time and prince will come but only when you least expect it. Don't let this guy bring you down. You deserve better.
2006-10-15 00:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth (while on a date like at a restarunt) or tell him a love threat, like i will dump u if u keep on doing this. and so on. hope that helps..
2006-10-15 00:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by sagar p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you live with him, just leave for a couple of hrs....
if not a couple of days, he will then realize
what he could have lost......
2006-10-15 00:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋