okay so my friend really likes this guy but its totally the wrong one for her. shes totally clean and he is going 2 mess everything up for her. what should i tell her?
2006-10-14 17:30:37 · 14 answers · asked by culbeebabyx3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Everything you just told us;)...nothing better than to speak in your own words and from your own heart:P
2006-10-14 17:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Delilah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she is better than that and shouldn't run off with guys like that. She deserves better than that, especially if she is totally clean. She'll probably end up regretting the choices that she made if she does go out with him.
2006-10-14 17:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that you should sit your friend down and explain to her in a reasonable way why the guy she likes is the wrong one for her.
2006-10-14 17:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that this guy is not for her, tell her how you feel, but dont try to make it seem like your trying to control her, tell her to take all the aspects of this guy into consideration, and ask her if its worth it, that is if you really think this guy is goning to mess up your friend. but be carefull, she might take it the wrong way
2006-10-14 17:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by ghost_of_onyx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you 100% sure hes TOTALLY wrong for her??? tell her how AND WHY you feel that way and she might get mad but only REAL friends care about what happens to their friends and if you are sure then tell her whats up and why make sure you have facts to back it up cuz if not she will think you like him and that will ruin your friendship good luck
2006-10-14 17:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by kellyshelly04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try but don't be too pushy or you may lose a friend. It is likely that she'll just have to come to the conclusion herself that he's not the right guy for her.
2006-10-14 17:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by perchinawhitewinesauce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel about this whole thing. telll her calmly that you just dont think this guy is right for her. if she listens and follows your suggestion, thats great. if not, her fault. there wasnt anything else you could do.
2006-10-14 17:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by iluvftball217 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her..what you think..or jsut let her do what she wants and let her be in control of her own self.. and let her find out by herself and dont rub it in her face when it gets all messed up.
:) just be there for her..when she needs you
2006-10-14 17:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by ladyb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell her but she probably won't listen, especially if she is really into him
sometimes they just have to find out for themselves, but tell her and forwarn her, that is all a real friend can do.
2006-10-14 17:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by spicy6959 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. It's her life to mess up, if she chooses to.....
2006-10-14 17:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋