My ex bf Matt and I brokeup after a month and 3weeks. B/c I felt like I was being taken for granted and I cheated on him with a guy I thought I wanted. And Matt my ex gives me this look in Math class when he has a gf the look is like I love her but not as much as I love u. And when I was dancing with my friend Chris my ex Matt looks at me straight in the eye and he looks really sad. And then when I looked at him straight in the eye he looks down.Why is that? And its been 5months. And his gf brokeup with him 2months ago.
2006-10-14 17:31:08 · 10 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, i'm sorry to tell you that feeling your boyfriend is taking you for granted is no excuse to cheat on him. If you feel like that, or if he made you feel like that, it's because he was already taking it serious and didn't think he needed to keep doing sappy stuff like sending you flowers or stuff. He thought you had already passed on to the next level. If he looks sad, it's because you broke his heart. Does he care about you? Yes, HE DOES. He may still be in love with you, and is having an internal conflict trying to convince himself not to love the person who broke his heart, but he just can't help himself. If you ever feel like that again with any person, make sure you talk it over with him before you go around and do stuff like that. It's just not cool. Talk to him, try to make him accept what happened, and if you care about him you'll help him out of this state. Try to be his FRIEND again, but just friends or you'll keep hurting him...
2006-10-14 17:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by Horumaket 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea everyone seems right on that one. Personally if you cheated on me I'd have NOTHING to do with you, because then all that love that was proclaimed is all a lie, trust is gone, and EVERYthanG. Yea reasons he looks n stuff is cause he wasn't ready for that, he still loved you, you ****** up and now he can't have it no more, and it hurts, that **** hurts, for a LONG time specially if he still has to see your face every now and then. That just sucks. I feel sorry for homeboy though, cause apparently you've ****** it up for all the other girls giving him a chance, cause i'm assuming he just broke up because he probably still hasn't got over you yet. I'd try to just stay away, and avoid being seen really, either that or be friendly and try to get him to move on or something. Maybe explain to him why you cheated (course there really IS no excuse for it) but at least he'll know why, so as not to make the same mistake again.
2006-10-15 00:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I did not put a ring on her finger in the promise of engagement,
then yes I would still care about her, just as I would expect the same from her if I cheated on her. When going out there is no promise of faithfulness, unless you plan to marry.
2006-10-15 00:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's sad because you ended the chance at having a good relationship based on trust when you cheated. If he took you for granted, then I guess he can't be surprise things happened as they did.
2006-10-15 00:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by MH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I'd still care about her, but I'd be afraid of being hurt again. I'd want to be with someone who would address any problems in the relationship in a more constructive manner than cheating on me. I'm guessing he'd still like to be with you but doesn't see how it could work.
2006-10-15 00:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by James L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would hurt really bad but I wouldn't want to be with her after I found out, because I wouldn't be able to trust her ever again.
2006-10-15 00:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by CSA_NP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I'm going to be honest with you ok so don't get mad
YOU BROKE HIS HEART! duh of corse he doesn't love her as much as he did you but maybe with some time and healing he will I'm sorry to say but if you cheated on him if I was him I wouldn't give a rats azz about you.
"Burtaly Honest"
~shadow~
2006-10-15 00:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheat? As in "have sex with another guy"? Hayullllll no!
2006-10-15 00:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by edward_the_l0ngshanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe as a friend but not as a girlfriend
2006-10-15 00:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno, if you were an awesome girl, sure, I would still care.
2006-10-15 00:34:58 · answer #10 · answered by KT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋