Family & Relationships - 14 October 2006

I weigh 204 and I am 23 years old height 5'5

2006-10-14 17:15:45 · 16 answers · asked by Kelsey W 1 in Friends

All this guy ever does is stare at me and wink. He's not much of a talker. He always stares into my eyes (even from across the room) so it's not like he's really undressing me with his eyes...but there's definitely an electricity between us. It's magnetic. Is he just thinking about sex or what I look like naked? I often wonder what you guys fantasize about a woman.

2006-10-14 17:15:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was melsted should i tell my parents?

2006-10-14 17:15:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We are both the same grade (10th). I love her so much. I don't mean lust but love. I told her how I felt over the internet, but I thought that was rude. Now I want to tell her in person. I am a shy person and need to know how to tell her I love her in person without having an axinety attack. My friends want to tell her, but I won't let them. I see her everyday at school, but have no idea how to approach her because I don't want to cause a "scene". She is the only girl I have ever loved. I don't want to move on even though I know it is a mental roadblock. How do I say I love you to persuade her to talk to me again without being to foward?

2006-10-14 17:15:13 · 8 answers · asked by J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 17:14:55 · 9 answers · asked by boxer 2 in Singles & Dating

My last 2 long term relationships were emotionally abusive. There was cheating, blaming me for everything and so on. I haven't been in another reltationship for 3 years. I am so afraid of being trapped in that again that I subconciously screw up the 2 dates I let myself go on since. I realized afterward what I did, but there's no point in trying to fix it now. (Nothing weird, just really awkward, not talking much, being nervous and obviously uncomfortable) I haven't even hooked up with a guy in the last 3 years so I'm out of practice with kissing and crap like that.
The last guy I dated was the worst, and he just told me a few weeks ago that he's still in love with me, which made me even more scared.
I know there are a few guys that like me (they told me) but none of them are doing anything about it and I'm not sure why. That's not my main concern, as I'm still afraid that I'm going to mess up every opportunity I have to be with a nice guy if I ever actually find one.

2006-10-14 17:14:31 · 3 answers · asked by Artemiseos 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm away in school today I went to the mall and I came back and my cd's was on my bed. Now before I left i hide it so I told the girl don't touch my **** but the thing is she was searching through my **** and she got mad at me wanting to fight me so I told her hit me you talking I don't do alot of that. But was I wrong what should I have done

2006-10-14 17:13:17 · 8 answers · asked by Scooby_doo06 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

II am good looking. My husband has never said i love you to me after we got married, never hugged me, held my hands and now for the last 2-3 years we hardly have sex, infact zilch. He says he is faithful to me when I try to discuss this. We are good friends and talk about everything on the earth but there is no intimacy, he doesnt even touch me..what should I do

2006-10-14 17:12:47 · 22 answers · asked by Maye12 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why don't some of the most attractive girls don't have guys interested in dating them? I have lots of guys wanting to hook up with me and I think I look good along with many other people but guys very seldomly seem interested in a relationship. When it comes to my personality guys describe me as a "sweetie" so I don't know what the problem is if I've got good looks and personality.. I'm just tired of feeling like a worthless piece of @$$ so please tell me what makes you see a girl as relationship material instead of just a hook up.. Please!

2006-10-14 17:12:46 · 20 answers · asked by ♥L-L-Lindsayyy...♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Tell me your most embarrassing moment growing up. (Around 13)
Long stories please, and Thank You! : )

2006-10-14 17:11:40 · 13 answers · asked by girly_girl 2 in Friends

2006-10-14 17:11:33 · 11 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

We split because things weren't working. He didn't like it at first but he finally agreed. A few hours later he goes out with this girl who I was friends with. Three days later he breaks up with her. A week later he goes out with this other girl. Two weeks later he breaks up with her. Then he complains about wanting me back but at the same wanting to go out with this other girl. She was taken so he had no chance with her whatsoever after that. Then he comes back asking for me to take him back. But after all the whining he goes back out with the second girl. And now this girl is moving away and I stopped contact with him because he got me mad by telling me all the sick details that went on between them even though I told him to stop. I just don't know anymore.

2006-10-14 17:11:12 · 9 answers · asked by craziixazn 1 in Friends

2006-10-14 17:11:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He keeps coming back, I've used harsh words, hateful glares, ingnoring and he won't go away, he is getting too close, what do I do? I don't want my boyfriend to worry about it, so I haven't told him.

2006-10-14 17:11:11 · 6 answers · asked by Chloe 2 in Singles & Dating

When I chat, the conversations between me and my friends seem to slowly just fade out until no one is talking. I try keep the conversation going, but it seems as though some of my friends dont really care about what I have to say, or that they do, but their answers are ALWAYS stupid ones like a single "lol", or "yeah". How can I fix this?...It's driving me nuts.

2006-10-14 17:11:01 · 8 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Friends

if you had a guy who continued to flirt w/ you , knew that he was 20 yrs oldr than u , and married, but continued to butter you up,call u at home and on the celly, compliment you on your looks, and always made sexual undertoned comments to you, and you found yourself getting used to the attention.. what would u do? i know it sounds easy to just walk away , but if you have already developed a crush on this individual, what do you do? it's obvious that he is atracted to me, but he is also hesitant especially after i askd him if he wanted to hang out the other day. after i askd, he said .."where"? and he semed all for it. until i asked him if he considered hanging out with his patients unethical. thats when he seemed to get all serious and tried to say that he thought that doctors and patients should keep it professional! but for the past 7 months nothing about his behavior has been professional... what do u think he got so serious and "by the book" so suddenly... im lost

2006-10-14 17:10:42 · 6 answers · asked by apple martini 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, there is this guy I REALLY like, he knows Who I am but im so shy to tlk to him.! I need advice, QUICK!

2006-10-14 17:10:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've never asked for advice on any type of board, so bear with me! I'm in a 2nd marriage. My 1st was over mainly because of ex's drug habits after 15 yrs. Married my 8th gr sweetheart 10yrs Sounds like a fairy tale, but he's butted heads with one of my kids pretty bad, we argue about little things always. A friend moved back to town about a yr ago, who left town years ago because of drug and gambling debt. This guy friend of his calls him numerous times every day and gets mad when he doesn't return his calls, it's a weird relationship. I dont like the guy and def. dont trust him, he brags to my husband how unfaithful he is. They planned a trip to see an out of town football game, I was ok w/it, until they added on a few extra days in vegas. So now my husb. is in vegas with this guy who has a gambling problem, and with another guy who likes his nose candy. It's dejavu! I'm goin crazy this weekend, crying and being angry. I start counseling in2 wks. How do I get thru this?

2006-10-14 17:10:01 · 33 answers · asked by cathymrehr 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He works behind the cash register at a store I frequent. We exchange quick looks, smile too much, ask eachother how our day went, the look he gives me makes me believe that he is interested....

2006-10-14 17:09:22 · 3 answers · asked by bonbon7350 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom doesn't know i dropped out from college, i have a dorm, yet i still ask allowance and tuition fee... i don't like my course, and i'm just waiting for my bf to ask me to marry him, then i don't like to study anymore.

2006-10-14 17:09:13 · 4 answers · asked by anxiousgirl888 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have seen girls I thought were hot turn bad and the other way around

2006-10-14 17:08:56 · 10 answers · asked by boxer 2 in Singles & Dating

self-explanatory.

2006-10-14 17:08:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

our plans may get cancelled at the very last minute due to the fact that he may (unexpectedly) get his son at the last minute. I know that I have a choice but what is the best way to cope with this? My newly found man is also in his early 40's. help!

2006-10-14 17:08:02 · 8 answers · asked by carolsand10 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay If you can help with as many,any or one problem it would be great!

1. Parents won't let me date until I'm 16 (im 14 now...) and I really like this guy and he might like me and if he asks me out I really really want to say yes but I get so guilty lying to my parents.
2. This guy knows I like him and I actsually told him but I'm not sure if he likes me back. It was awkward talking to him at first after I told him but about 2 days after we were able to start talking normally again. The first day I told him and passed him in the hallway and he smiled at me, but the thing is he's the kind of guy that ALWAYS smiles. It's super cute but makes it impossible to tell if he's smiling because he likes me or because he's just being himself. rumor is he was gonna ask me to homecoming but it could be untrue and at the same time there's a rumor he likes this other girl but she doesn't like him because she thinks he's too prude. I have never liked a guy more than this!!! so what do u think?

2006-10-14 17:07:25 · 9 answers · asked by Cherryluver 2 in Singles & Dating

manik used to speak with my intelligent friend in my absence so freely
but gave me a smile when i asked how he did his exams and noded his head
whenever my friend say that manik talks with her nicely,i feel like burning
goddamn why that idiot is not speaking with me freely?

2006-10-14 17:06:48 · 1 answers · asked by kalai 1 in Friends

back. Would you still like to be with him?

2006-10-14 17:06:39 · 23 answers · asked by sunline 3 in Singles & Dating

...I'm in a store going through a checkout stand, and as my order is being totalled, the checker (who's a lady) says to someone, "There's a guy I want you to meet." How should I interpret this?

2006-10-14 17:06:30 · 9 answers · asked by Brian 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

We just fell out of touch... I was in her wedding in 2004, but due to my health, I haven't been able to go out and do things with them like I used to. She also had a baby a year ago, so she's been busy too. I ran into her at the grocery store Thursday and she told me to stop by for their party Saturday night, if I could.
I stopped by and shortly after I got there (about 5 min) her and her husband decide to take off on a 4-wheeler ride. I talk to a few other people there then I leave because I felt awkward and out of place since I haven't been around much. It doesn't help matters much that I used to date her brother and he was there. That ended several years ago, so that wasn't the main reason for feeling uncomfortable.
My question is where do I go from here? Do I try to persue this friendship? Do I wait for them to make the next move, or do I call tomorrow and ask them what they were thinking? After all, they were the hosts, even though it was an informal outdoor party.

2006-10-14 17:05:08 · 6 answers · asked by mavbax 2 in Friends

i just got out of a 5 year relationship and he cheated on me 7 times and the 8th time i told him its over! and i was wondering if anyone loved me bc rite now it doesnt feel like anyone loves me

2006-10-14 17:04:46 · 16 answers · asked by allie 1 in Singles & Dating

He doesn't know it but as he's on his way over you decide you're going to make lunch for the both of you. You decide to shower first, realizing he will probably arrive before you get out, which is ok b/c then u can ask if it's something he wants to eat, or if he'll just want to go pick something up, especially since you never get to see each other much less go out together.You shower, he's still not there so, since he was taking so long to get there you thought maybe he's going to stop off at your favorite restaurant and bring lunch to you as a surprise and a very sweet gesture. So you decide to wait until he gets there just incase he has really done this. He walks in and has brought lunch, but only for himself because he knows you don't like the food he brought but didn't even call to ask if you wanted something else.Then after telling him how thoughtless that is, he calls you a big baby so you tell him to leave.Now he's mad at u 4 that. Who should be mad at who?

2006-10-14 17:01:28 · 24 answers · asked by ThatsNachocheese 2 in Singles & Dating