i just got out of a 5 year relationship and he cheated on me 7 times and the 8th time i told him its over! and i was wondering if anyone loved me bc rite now it doesnt feel like anyone loves me
2006-10-14 17:04:46 · 16 answers · asked by allie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and now hes calling me and telling me no one needs to love me! im just trash! and he never loved me he just wanted a gf and then he found other girls he thought was hotter than me and cheated on me! I FEEL SO UNLOVED
2006-10-14 17:10:06 · update #1
if u wanna im me at my yahoo IM hott_n_sexy_tulsa_chick007
2006-10-14 17:13:55 · update #2
ANYONE WANNA DATE ME! I HATE THE FACT THAT IM SINGLE AND NO ONE WANTS TO DATE ME
2006-10-14 17:17:57 · update #3
Pretend this poem is me, and I am with you;
I hold you in the circle of my fire.
Come into me, and time and space will vanish,
You and I alone, joined at the root.
There is a special room where I am with you;
I close the door and you are in my arms.
You become my skin, my self, my world,
Till I go back to sleep in lonely darkness.
So we defeat the miles and months between us;
We make love in our hearts if not in touch.
You are more to me in hope and passion
Than any man who brushes by my day.
I love you foot_15143@yahoo.com
2006-10-14 17:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you possibly allow someone to cheat on you 7 times and still take him back? You wasted 5 years with a loser.
Remember, you can have 100 people love you, but if you don't love and respect yourself it's meaningless. Love and respect yourself and no one else matters.
Letting someone cheat on you for 5 years is a pretty clear indication your self esteem is pretty low. You didn't need that guy. You SHOULD have kicked his asss out of your life after the first time. You need to truly love yourself as a person. Then and only then will the right guy come. And until you do, you'll probably bounce from loser to loser because you don't like being alone and feeling they way you do now. It's a vicious cycle and the only way to break it is to learn to love and be proud of yourself. Good luck.
2006-10-15 00:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by ZenPenguin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I know exactly how you feel. I dated this guy for 1-year and seven months today would of been two, but he cheated on me. I felt the same way you did. Does anyone love you and sometimes I still feel the same way, but you know what I always do? I pray that God would help me and give me the wisdom, stregthn, and understanding that I need. An you know what? I love you as a friend and so does GOD!!!!! Also, the first time he cheated on you I would of got reid of him. Its hard to do but its the best thing to do.
2006-10-15 00:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by dimples 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! I am so glad that you finally realized how much of a sorry *** that guy was. It took you a while, but you did it. Hey, take time now to enjoy life and to look for another opportunity with someone who will truly love you. There is someone out there who will not cheat on you. Start by loving yourself and setting goals for the future and whatever happens - do not go back to this one. I send you lots of love, hugs, and kisses. Good luck!
2006-10-15 00:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Ladyinred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there with my ex, of 14 years, we never were married, but he cheated all the time, I have moved on, and now have been with an honest decent man, for the last 4 years, who really loves me, and you will find happiness as well, it will hurt for a long while, but you deserve better, and you will find true love, and wonder what you ever seen in this guy.... good luck
2006-10-15 00:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by Nicky J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 yrs and 7 chances, you are one in a million. I would love any girl who has that gift for understanding. I'd never abuse it by cheating. And thank heaven for what I've found.
Some guy, a very lucky guy will realize this, and treat you with the kindness, care, respect, and love you deserve.
And your Ex, he's a moron, a matter of fact, if you look up the word moron in the Dictionary, you'll find his picture there.
I hope your smiling, better days are coming. Charley
2006-10-15 00:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by charley128 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for getting out of the relationship.Anyone who cheats on you is a putz and not worth your time!!
You now need time to grieve. Ending a relationship is a tough thing especially if you are the one doing it....Seek counseling or a friend who can help you through. the process. It aint easy but you will get through it and go on with your life.
2006-10-15 00:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by irishladsj1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, someone loves you... God loves you. He is always there for you, and He will never do you wrong. If that guy cheated on you then you dont need him anyway. God has somebody better for you. God always loves us...always...and He wants the best for our lives. Call on Jesus, he is a friend that will never leave you or forsake you. He is our comfortur. He will always listen to you...no voice mail or answering machine at his house, He always answers His phone. Give Him a call He will listen and never do anything to hurt you. God loves us even when it seems like no one else does.
2006-10-15 00:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by dineyb68 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well,,,seeing as how I don't really know you I can't say for sure that I could love you but I will sure be a good friend to you and love you that way. Even tho I may be a little older I can still be a hot friend to you.
2006-10-15 00:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've gotta try to love yourself first. everything else can come later. make 'you' time right now. get yourself back on track. i admire your ability to keep going. your family will always be there, even if it's one or two members... love yourself and the rest will come naturally.
2006-10-15 00:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by lewisthomasp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋