Why don't some of the most attractive girls don't have guys interested in dating them? I have lots of guys wanting to hook up with me and I think I look good along with many other people but guys very seldomly seem interested in a relationship. When it comes to my personality guys describe me as a "sweetie" so I don't know what the problem is if I've got good looks and personality.. I'm just tired of feeling like a worthless piece of @$$ so please tell me what makes you see a girl as relationship material instead of just a hook up.. Please!
2006-10-14 17:12:46 · 20 answers · asked by ♥L-L-Lindsayyy...♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok althought im not a guy im going to answer anyway.. there is more to looks, they look for personality and it depends on how you act around them.. are you a tease or are you a girl who actually has something inteligent to say? maqybe try looking in a dif area for a guy, go to a museum or something.. if you can tell they just want a root or a quick hook up dont bother.. trust your gut on it and you will find the right guy
2006-10-14 17:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Julz H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be you, but the guys you are around. It may be they see you as a hook-up because that's all they are looking for. If you want a relationship, you have to find a guy looking for the same thing, not some shallow guy looking for a hook-up.
Hang with a different crowd a bit. Mix and mingle. Find guys who aren't shallow. And make sure you aren't sending wrong signals. If you dress like a hook-up (and I'm not saying you do), then guys may be more inclined to think of you that way. Try making friends with guys first, building a friendship before it becomes a relationship. Let them get to know your character, and be interested in you as a person.
And above all, keep sex out of it. If guys find out that one guy could get something out of you, they will all want to, and they will tend to look at you as a hook-up. Keep yourself clean, and they will respect you. This will drive away the guys seeking a hook-up, and attract guys who care about having an actual relationship.
2006-10-14 17:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by The Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just tired of feeling like a worthless piece of @$$ first of all don't feel like this isn't helping you at all your just putting yourself down. It could be a lot of reasons why a guy is very seldomly interested in a relationship. Give it time someone you like will come around and ask you out just be patient
2006-10-14 17:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by jsn792001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it rather is okay to come back here because of the fact many singles prefer mature advice and that i'm happy to help! discover out first if he's unmarried by way of friends. If he's unmarried, provide him a decision and tell him which you have been feeling shy and uncertain if he became unmarried. tell him you theory he's lovable and became too bashful and that i wager he became feeling an identical. so discover out if he's accessible. some human beings can mistake shyness for being caught up and misunderstand and picture you're no longer involved. possibly he theory you have a boyfriend. So discover out and notice the situation and in case you the two are unmarried and involved, touch him for espresso and a candy cope with and get to appreciate one yet another! Merry Christmas and desire all works out properly!
2016-10-02 07:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by esannason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a good personality and that means a good heart. It also means that you trust people to easily. Your kinda in the situation I used to be in. First of all don't just go out with a guy because he has good looks. Make sure he also has a personality because guys with good looks and no personality have a big ego and there just looking for a one night stand and another notch in their belt. You need to start watching who you give your trust to because trusting people to easily you always get hurt. Also try not to let yourself come off as easy because then guys will think that your easy and not even try a relationship with you. Good Luck
2006-10-14 17:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by Esther V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys feel insecure because if you are too pretty they live with the fear of being left behind by you if another guy, more handsome and more "suitable" for you, shows up. Plus, if you are really pretty and you have a nice personality, chances are that you might have a million guys after you, and boys feel insecure with too many other competitors. They feel you will always wonder and fantasize a little about the other guys...
2006-10-14 17:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by Horumaket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely, the guys who want to hook up with you aren't interested in a relationship with anybody. Try telling them, "Not until there's a ring on my finger." Then, see which ones disappear, and which ones don't.
2006-10-15 10:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever given thought that just maybe the guys that you've been hooking up with lately are just jerks?That means you need to wait a little longer before giving up the booty to see if you've found the guy your looking for.
2006-10-14 17:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe with your good looks and personality, guys finds it intimidating. they would run away from having a relationship with you! actually , guys are not that confident when it comes to girls! most of us guys are just playing macho and confident in front of girls. so, if a girl too good-looking and have a great personality, maybe we'll see her as someone we couldn't measure up to!
so, it's not turly your faults but it's just the guys! good luck on finding the right guy!
2006-10-14 17:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by immortal1983 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what mostly pretty girls have is that they like to dress up like hoookers, just becuase they know they gonna look sexier.
Every guy dreams of having a one night stand with a sexy girl, but not to have a relaship. becuz they think that a sexy and crazy looking girl wouldnt care for any guy, guys are worried that any other guy could steal their sexy girl...
if u sexy, u dont need to dress like a huker, (hope u dont)
so if u dont dress like a huker, not too many guys would wanna hit on u, only the interested in u, urself
2006-10-14 17:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by big brotha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋