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We are both the same grade (10th). I love her so much. I don't mean lust but love. I told her how I felt over the internet, but I thought that was rude. Now I want to tell her in person. I am a shy person and need to know how to tell her I love her in person without having an axinety attack. My friends want to tell her, but I won't let them. I see her everyday at school, but have no idea how to approach her because I don't want to cause a "scene". She is the only girl I have ever loved. I don't want to move on even though I know it is a mental roadblock. How do I say I love you to persuade her to talk to me again without being to foward?

2006-10-14 17:15:13 · 8 answers · asked by J 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Well speaking from experience DO NOT CREEP HER OUT. Start to be her friend, yes it takes time and is hard, then hopefully she will grow to like you. But do not tell her you love her until you start dating for a while.

BTW, If you really have to tell her how you feel wite her a note and do not sign your name. Therefore it will look like anyone could have sent it and she won't be creeped out.

2006-10-14 17:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by stephenjlb 3 · 1 0

Ask her over ,or ask her to go some place special other than the mall,then say I know I told you online already but I did mean it,she will ask what was it you said then tell her,again. Something about this bothers me though you are so in love with this special girl what if she doesnt feel the same as you?It will break your heart if she says she just wants to be friends or that she is in love with another guy.Saying you love her might scare her off a little if not a lot if you dont know how she feels about you..So take it slow and easy.If you feel like you Have to tell her then ask her out. Good Luck

2006-10-14 17:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by Joan C 3 · 0 0

Give her something special... like a pair of diamond earrings or a diamond ring. Don't spend more than $99.00. If she doesn't accept your gift, then you can always return it. Let her parents know how you feel towards her. Make sure you present the gift to her in front of her parents. This will avoid problems later down the road. She just might become your girl. Good luck!

2006-10-14 17:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ms-No-It-All 4 · 0 0

My husband proposed to be 3 months whilst all of us started relationship and we've been married 2 months later... maximum folk suggested it became WAAAAY too quickly... which, in a fashion, it became... even with the undeniable fact that it worked for us... and we've been married 2 years now and are nonetheless as happy as we've been interior the 1st month of relationship. you extremely could base your determination off of your courting and the style you recognize/think of she feels approximately you. If it feels appropriate, then decide for it... yet once you're any way "iffy", you are able to in all probability wait. i'm going to declare even with the incontrovertible fact that, because of the fact it rather is rapidly, you do no longer could rush into the marriage... relish the engagement... (my husband and that i've got been pushed right into a rapid marriage using defense force)... sturdy luck!

2016-10-02 07:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by esannason 4 · 0 0

Bro, Check it out, You dont have to walk right up to her and confess your undying love.

If you feel you need to express yourself to her, Tell her that you truely care about her, Also tell her that you would like to spend sometime with her to re-kindle(sp) the friendship and the bond you have with each other.

Dont cause a scene, Ask her to come chat with you for a moment.

I guess my advice is spend time with her and give her a chance to come to the conclusion that she is loved by you on her own. Tell her when the time is more appropriate, Dont just drop the bomb on her out of the blue.

Good luck buddy.

2006-10-14 17:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mark. 2 · 0 0

yea dont tell her ova the internet cuz thats is RUDE but u should be like hey i have to tell u somthing like during a dance or something

2006-10-14 17:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Hypercutie_2 4 · 0 0

say i love you

2006-10-14 17:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just tell her! =)

2006-10-14 17:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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