Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

I am 18 go to UVM in jersey and my bf is 21 and goes to NYU last week on friday we went together into new york to hit some clubs because he likes that stuff i dont really like it and feel out of place. We got into a fight and he walked away from me leaving me stranded and crying i dont normally go in to new york because i live in jersey so i was lost.I tried calling him but he did not aswer his cell phone i had no money for a cab or anything.I cant believe a guido or Italian guy who was a complete stranger helped me get home but my bf would not.The guy acutually happens to also live im my area and gave me his number .My bf does not understand why i am mad!? should i explain or dump him?

2006-10-10 10:54:57 · 11 answers · asked by Sabrina c 1 in Friends

Well, I have not asked my girl to marry me yet, but we have talked about it alot and I was just thinking...my family is quite small but can't travel, and her family is huge. I am American and she is Canadian. There are just SO many obstacles against us having a traditional wedding. To be honest, I don;t want one anyway. Is it unfair to her for me to ask her if she wants to elope? We are students and it would be foolish to spend that much money on a big wedding anyway...just a thought. What do you think? Any ideas?

2006-10-10 10:54:49 · 27 answers · asked by thomearch 1 in Weddings

So i broke up with the slease bag and at homecoming with his other ex girlfriend he asked her out again!! Was i a toold to get over his depression? MAN HE'S A JERK

2006-10-10 10:54:15 · 11 answers · asked by My dad ate my homework 3 in Singles & Dating

She got a new job at the fragance counter at the mall. Do you think she's messing around on me?

2006-10-10 10:53:25 · 25 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend is in kuwait for construction, before he left he made some stupid decisions he lied to me and hid it behind my back when i asked. so we were dating for like a month, then he left but he keeps talking about getting married, i don't want to settle down right now. he is 25 yrs old and i am 19 yrs old, he says he loves me but i don't love him, but i don't know how to tell him. then on the other hand i have this really great guy who i've been friends with since before my boyfriend and he tells me his feelings about me, and it makes me so happy. i just don't know what to say to my boyfriend, that i don't want to be with him. how do i tell him? what do i do?

2006-10-10 10:52:46 · 12 answers · asked by Marybeth A 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so lonely...my husband and I relocated several months ago and it's very difficult finding friends. I choose to work part-time so I have a lot of time on my hands. Where can I go to meet new friends. I miss my old friends and family so much I can barely take it.

2006-10-10 10:52:35 · 12 answers · asked by goldenfire111 1 in Friends

about periods and sex? It seems like girls get their periods earlier than they use to so Im not sure at what age I should tell her.

2006-10-10 10:52:19 · 27 answers · asked by Shellee 2 in Family

how do i ask her? how do i tell her

2006-10-10 10:52:03 · 12 answers · asked by catchup 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 10:51:55 · 13 answers · asked by Ms. Inquisitive 2 in Family

I was on the internet one day and I was bored. So I made a fake e-mail address. Then I made an avatar and sent her letters. I felt really guilty after a while because she kept questioning me. So I told her it was me. Now she hates me. Someone give me advice

2006-10-10 10:51:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl about a month ago, and she's absolutely great, and I think about her alot. Well, when we talk on the phone I started noticing that I am usually calling her more than she's calling me. Is it normal for the guy to be calling more often? I want to know if i'm just being a little insecure or is there an underlying fact that she may not want to talk to me. If so, what should I do?

2006-10-10 10:51:22 · 4 answers · asked by arkainisofphoenix 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 18 go to UVM in jersey and my bf is 21 and goes to NYU last week on friday we went together into new york to hit some clubs because he likes that stuff i dont really like it and feel out of place. We got into a fight and he walked away from me leaving me stranded and crying i dont normally go in to new york because i live in jersey so i was lost.I tried calling him but he did not aswer his cell phone i had no money for a cab or anything.I cant believe a guido or Italian guy who was a complete stranger helped me get home but my bf would not.The guy acutually happens to also live im my area and gave me his number .My bf does not understand why i am mad!? should i explain or dump him?

2006-10-10 10:51:13 · 6 answers · asked by Sabrina c 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 10:51:02 · 13 answers · asked by snowogu 2 in Family

I like this guy in my class. He's really cute!!!! He lives in my neigborhood . But I don't know how to tell him I like him.. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-10 10:50:59 · 13 answers · asked by CUTIE26 2 in Friends

Being with the tallest guy on earth will still make them look tall. They still have to go work alone and walk in the street alone.
What do u think ?

2006-10-10 10:50:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel so unhapy because i cant trust my boyfriend. He went to another country for studying and working. I couldnt go there with him now but if everything gonna be ok he will take me there. I cant trust him about tha other girls. Please help me, what am i do?

2006-10-10 10:50:34 · 1 answers · asked by sinem_che 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think he is going back to his old ways. I thought he changed, but he can't control his jealousy and anger. He lashed out at this construction site worker because he had said something about my breasts in Spanish. He also has a very hard time accepting that I have many male friends and he's always asking me questions about them. I love him so much but his jealousy is pissing me off. I never say anything when he's with his female friends. And he's starting to hang out with the wrong crowd again. How do I stop him from getting into trouble again?

2006-10-10 10:50:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's a real tricky question and a good question too. The man you love doesn't really love you and you don't really love the man who loves you. You have to choose. What's it going to be? You have no other choice.

2006-10-10 10:49:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 10:49:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so theres this guy in my drama class that i like and ive known him for a year now but this year we just became friends and i try to show him that i like him but he hasnt really picked up on the matter of fact that i like him but i just found out that theres this other girl that also likes him in the same class and im afraid that im goin to miss my chance if i dont make a move now...but since the other girl likes him...i dont want to start anything between me and her and i dont want to make a compatition between us over a guy...should i go for it or back off and let her have him?...(shes younger than the guy too)

2006-10-10 10:48:43 · 8 answers · asked by Cutie101 3 in Singles & Dating

just wanted to know what people thought of the issue. what they think the easy and painfree out way would be.

2006-10-10 10:47:42 · 9 answers · asked by crazyami 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

OUCH>>>>

2006-10-10 10:47:42 · 5 answers · asked by MЯ BAIT™ 6 in Friends

how do you know he likes you

2006-10-10 10:47:33 · 5 answers · asked by olivia p 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a dumb question in my eyes but apparently everybody doesn't think so. Let me know if you believe in God, and if so then why and if you don't...why
If this matters....YES I BELIEVE IN GOD...I'm a christian...so please don't bad talk me

2006-10-10 10:47:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 10:47:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

umm...ok
i like this guy...we have been friends for a year and everyone things we should start dating.
i dont know what i should do
should i ask him out and risk ruining our friendship (maybe not totally ruin it, but it might change things between us) , or should i just wait for him to ask me out (which might never happen). If you have a better idea, that's certainly welcome to. I really am scared to ask him, i guess it's like a fear of rejection. But I really want to start a relationship with him...please help!!!
if you can't do that then tell me how i can find out if he likes me...

2006-10-10 10:47:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I turn I man on like really , really turn him on lol Ive been with him for 3 and a half years and just wanna surpirise him

2006-10-10 10:46:40 · 15 answers · asked by clairefleck 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

this boy in my class keep looking at me in a way that makes me feel uncomfertable like i was bent over the table and he was staring at my a**
and i didnt notice till he said u make me hard wen u bend like dat ,so i stood up and told him dont play wit me like that,but he just laughed,then when we were walkin to our next classes he was next to me and i saw him out the coner of my eye lening his head back staring at my butt,then when we were doing group projects this gurl through his paper and he was like if thats how yall feel dont ask for no ding-ding later.and hes always saying hi to me no matter where,who,or wat is around im not attracted to him and he makes me uncomf..i dont no wat else to doand this other boy helps him mess wit me it gets on my nerves.any advice?i can use all u can give.

2006-10-10 10:46:36 · 17 answers · asked by mia 2 in Singles & Dating

senior/freshman as in highschool
and he just turned 17 and i just turned 15



is that too weird?
we talk a lot after school, he's sweet and kind of quiet

but he did tell me get got arrested 2 times
haha

2006-10-10 10:45:32 · 20 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and Iare divorcing after a very loving marriage. He was having emotional afairs with women he met online, calling them, cahtting until all hours of the morning. I never planned it to be this way. Any advice on how to fix my relationship or deal with this pain.
Counceling is out of the question, we have no insurance. He doesn't seem to want to change his chatting online either. We agreed to remain best friends at least and take care of eachother. But I miss him with every part of my soul. HE was my first everything.

2006-10-10 10:44:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce