Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

2006-10-10 11:32:22 · 22 answers · asked by lonely as a cloud 6 in Family

I'm getting married next Friday my fiancee' and I has been together for 6 years and don't want a big wedding at all (we are going to city hall) but our family is giving us a lot of bull about it. Would you care what your family has to say?

2006-10-10 11:32:16 · 31 answers · asked by Cutiepie85 2 in Weddings

I mean when you are married

2006-10-10 11:31:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not sure I understand the logic in the way wealthy people plan their families.
#1- They either don't have kids because they figure in order to maintain the lifestlye they live a child would only suffer because of both parents working so many hours. (respectable point)
#2- they have just one child, and lets face it most only childs are quite spoiled little people and the parent lives happily giving that one kid all he ever wanted when they are neglecting all the important values the kid is missing out on learning by not having siblings (sharing, playing nicely, patience, etc).
So the question is, why not have 2+ children when you can afford it and in the long run (and not so long run as well) that child could learn to be a more effective member of society starting as early as in preschool? I feel a wealthy family that can afford most anything a child wants can definantly handle 2 kids and would be helping the children in the long run. What do you think?

2006-10-10 11:29:44 · 14 answers · asked by gumby and pokey 3 in Family

2006-10-10 11:29:23 · 13 answers · asked by Damn Dirty Ape 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy at my school and we just became friends. So i was bored in algebra class one day, so i decided to write his name all over my agenda book. I accidentally left in class, and come to find out, 1 of his classmates found it and showed my crush. And we talk on myspace all the time. Im sending him messages back and he wont answer. he sent me a message laughing !
and the people who found my agenda with his name all over call me my crush's stalker!
so what should i do?
i really appreciate ur help!

2006-10-10 11:28:40 · 1 answers · asked by simply me™ 3 in Friends

theres a girl at my school that i really like but there's a problem. she's really popular and i don't know if she would reject me....the guys all make fun of me cuz they think i don't stand a chance. What can I do?

2006-10-10 11:28:36 · 7 answers · asked by Eric M 1 in Singles & Dating

And it sucks really bad and am depressed for the past 3 months because I am unable to see her and hopfully see her this weekend last weekend was a total mess since I was supposed to but everything went wrong so it was a no-show and I cryed almost. Its also messing up my schoolwork and everything and am unable to tell alot of people because of some reasons I dont want to talk about. And she dont got a phone so I cant call her yeah I know what else could go wrong right now..how about everything..

2006-10-10 11:28:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so im babysitting my 6 year old daughters friend and they were in her room doing homework and my daughter did her friends homework. What should I do ground her send a note to her teacher, tell the other girls mom? I want to send the message that this isnt acceptable!

2006-10-10 11:27:57 · 6 answers · asked by hotgurl1805 2 in Family

And any other details about the whole thing will be usefull?

2006-10-10 11:27:55 · 5 answers · asked by moonbaby_ihabia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

j/w because i'm new at this and i'm just starting to realize my feelings for the same sex as well as the opposite...and yeah.

2006-10-10 11:27:47 · 5 answers · asked by Heather R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked this girl out, and said no. Before then, she was one of my really good friends. NOw we don't talk anymore. Now I like someone else, and i would like to ask them out, but i am afraid that if she says no, we won't be friends anymore. Also, i know she likes someone else, but she might like me as well. Do i keep quiet, just tell her i like her, or ask her out? (also, there are rumors that i like her, so she has an idea.)

2006-10-10 11:27:19 · 6 answers · asked by raykun219 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 11:26:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We just moved to a new house. and the box room is the one full of unpacked boxes.

What do you think?

2006-10-10 11:26:26 · 5 answers · asked by s t 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I have this friend (who I dated three years ago). We are like best friends at the mo, we do loads together, dinner,drink,cinema, drive each other places, I have met his daughter on many occasions. But 2nite I think was the final straw for me....about 2months ago we had the chat and said we would have fun but would not loose the friendship.....we have fun when he wants to and have yet to have ALL the fun!!! So 2nite he came for dinner and left. He loved my cooking but just said bye........am I reading too much into this or what????? What I should also say is that I haven't been holding out for him - i'm still havimng my fun.....but really just want him.............Please advise me!!!!

2006-10-10 11:26:16 · 15 answers · asked by scs005 2 in Singles & Dating

Or is one doomed?

2006-10-10 11:26:05 · 16 answers · asked by tigerlilybet 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I went out sunday for the 1st time, with this girl that I have known online for some time now (over a year). It didnt start out as a date, but more like a just get together...I had nothing in mind. But it did end like a date (just 1st base). We had a great time. Since then we haven't talked, I've been busy and did not have time to IM. I would really like to see her again...but wait how much do date, and call? Its a special situation since we know each other a lot. Usually after a first date with a girl im new with, i wait several days before i call, and a week before a 2nd date. But the playground is diffrent here...

2006-10-10 11:25:37 · 11 answers · asked by Dan 1 in Singles & Dating

What do girls like about a good friend that is the opposite gender (not as a boy friend)

2006-10-10 11:25:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Shes more popular than me, ( i'm not that bad off popularity wise, but no Stud) and I'm decent friends with her and her best friend.

2006-10-10 11:25:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 11:24:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 11:23:56 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my b/f have been dating for 5 months and things are just about perfect!(i love him soo much!) but of course occasinally we do argue and its usually b/c of a couple of girls he hangs out with that write all over his hands and stuff like that...lately theyve been writing my name on his hands...but i dont even like the idea of them writing on his hands! am i right too be upset over sumthin like this? or am i just jealous?....i seriously dont want this to come b/t us but i dunno what to do b/c it really does bother me...

2006-10-10 11:23:22 · 8 answers · asked by sarah g 1 in Singles & Dating

Are you a...
-Gourment Chef
-Master of Leftovers
-Add Water to Make a Complete Meal
-Someone who just wings it
-I Don't Cook. I Make My Husband (or Wife) do it.

Please provide details.

2006-10-10 11:23:01 · 4 answers · asked by L.A. Scene 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 11:21:24 · 18 answers · asked by Damn Dirty Ape 1 in Singles & Dating

i have seen some people who seem like they have the easiest relationships. I left someone because I couldnt deal with the problems anymore. I was relieved after but I later realized that I could walk away from the ongoing problems but now its hard to imagine them not in my life. If your ment to be w/ someone should it come easy or can real happiness develop from working at a relationship? What should be the important things worth fighting for?

2006-10-10 11:21:13 · 11 answers · asked by patrick U 1 in Singles & Dating

i split with boyfriend 3 months ago as he couldnt handle my situation that is now resolved, he has text me every day at least 5 times aday since we split and spoken on the phone a few times and out of the blue he asked me out ,we have been out a few times but i am worried that it will end up as it did last time him totally breaking my heart ,i dont think i could take it again. dont know whether to just try and play it cool for a while and wait and see what happens,i am so happy that we are sort of, together again but at the same time i am scared to death that i will lose him

2006-10-10 11:21:10 · 14 answers · asked by demmi 2 in Singles & Dating

Gotten help from a stranger???My bf left me stranded in NY without a way home. And a guido no offese or Italian guy i usually think they are all self absorbed and materialistic because well most of them in my area are was the one to help me get home and even gave me his number and seemed to like me?And even turned out to live by me?Is this strange?

2006-10-10 11:21:06 · 5 answers · asked by Sabrina c 1 in Friends

I also helped him get a decent lawyer, and provided him with a place to crash until he resolves his issues with the law.

2006-10-10 11:21:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

this girl was giving me a handjob. I warned her that i was about the blow. I did all over her hand, and the screamed really loud and said "its on my hands ahhhh" and ran to the bathroom. what did she expect to happen?????

2006-10-10 11:20:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this will sound stupid a probly girly or somethin, but how do you deal with the loss of a friend(girl, but not girlfriend) who you've been friends with since 8th grade(2 years) and they suddenly got mad and never wanted to speak to you again. don't laugh or anything, be serious.

2006-10-10 11:19:35 · 6 answers · asked by Bruce Lee Reborn 2 in Friends