2006-10-10 11:21:24 · 18 answers · asked by Damn Dirty Ape 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is that so wrong? what do you think?
If you can't have him? what? is he some piece of meat, car, horse, dog? is he on sale at the auction? and if you can't buy him? you won't accept anyone elses baby? Its your life. Do what you have to do.
2006-10-10 11:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not so wrong; just rather constricting. It means that you think there is no one in the world for you except him - - - which, if you can't have him, kinda explodes the myth of soulmates (as well it should.) There's nobody in the world for you except him but you are not the right one for him ? Ouch.
He may be everything you think you want EXCEPT he doesn't want you. And if he doesn't want you, then he really isn't everything you want or need, baby. For things to be right, he has to want you just as you want him - otherwise, even if you had him, it would be a lopsided deal and - in the end - absolutely not right for anybody.
If you can't have him, then let him go, kiddo, help your heart heal and then look for someone else.
2006-10-10 18:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you what you are feeling is wrong. But feeling this way isn't healthy. This sounds like obsession not love. I admit when you break up, at first you can't even think about them being with someone else. It makes you crazy. You need to go through all the steps.
I've done this more times than I want to mention. But I never really loved any of them and by the time we broke up I had no feelings left. Didn't lose anything worth fighting for.
2006-10-10 18:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it is hard to see somebody you really like or love with somebody else. I am sure everyone at one point has felt like that a time or two. No worries honey. Just keep your head up. Remember there is someone for everyone. If you really love him and want him to be happy, let him. Even if it means being with somebody else. I know it's hard. But honey, you will find somebody so sweet and right for you. So don't be troubled. you will see that your heart can open up for someone new. Don't take it out on the guy...
2006-10-10 18:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by Becky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong about feeling that way. The reason you are feeling this way is because you haven't found anybody that you are really into. It takes time to heal and give yourself as much time as you need. Just keep your eyes open you may never know when you will meet someone new and exciting.
2006-10-10 18:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by missy_sweets 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep! it's wrong! It's being selfish. You don't want to lead a life like that do you?? There will be a time when others don't like that you have someone either, but then you beat them to this sight and got advice first on how to deal with things like this!! :-)
2006-10-10 18:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just hurt talking. Once you get over it you will laugh at what you are saying right now while you are i bed with someone else.
2006-10-10 18:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good to me. I'd like to see more women having no one instead of having everyone.
2006-10-10 20:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be very lonely babay
2006-10-10 18:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but I'm like that to sometimes
2006-10-10 18:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by crybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋