And it sucks really bad and am depressed for the past 3 months because I am unable to see her and hopfully see her this weekend last weekend was a total mess since I was supposed to but everything went wrong so it was a no-show and I cryed almost. Its also messing up my schoolwork and everything and am unable to tell alot of people because of some reasons I dont want to talk about. And she dont got a phone so I cant call her yeah I know what else could go wrong right now..how about everything..
2006-10-10 11:28:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's probably found someone else. Maybe your ugly cousin.
2006-10-11 10:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by digitalquirk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am touched by your question because I can feel that you are in some distress over this situation. I know it doesnt help to tell you that you will experience love again, maybe several times in your lifetime. And trust me, as you mature, love will be better because your judgement will have further developed and you will have the necessary experience to differentiate between what is an extreme infatuation to true love. Try to relax and focus time and attention on other friends, school work and most important, physical fitness. These things won't guarantee that you will feel better but will help redirect you. In time, you may very well develop a relationship with this girl, but for now...relax...let it be.
2006-10-10 12:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't possibly be in love at 14.
You might say you are but is not love, is just liking someone a lot.
You are wasting your young life being depressed over a girl that you are not marrying at this moment. Let time decide, but keep yourself busy and go out with your friends. School is the most important task for you right now. Do you think that a girl is going to like a school drop out. You are just showing signs of weakness, be a men stand up for yourself and things won't go wrong, is just the way you see them right now.
2006-10-10 11:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love can happen at any age....but age also determines your ability to understand what is happening, at your age everything is confusing and you just dont know what to do hence the schoolwork, a few other answers on here are with very good points like the "you have your life to live" well it is true you may love this girl now but hey in a few years you will mature and go through puberty and you may find a young lady or several in that time, well good luck
2006-10-10 12:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is too young for a person to know what love actually is. What 'till you're at least 16 so you get a better understanding of the dating scene, love, courtship, etc.
2006-10-10 11:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not your fault you feel in love im 13 and been in love 3 or 4 times what you should do is set a time a certain day when you can be w/ her and think about her after school
2006-10-10 11:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by Jakele K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you sense you're "in love", you're "in love". what's "actual love"? i'm uncertain all of us can define that. I enjoyed, and became enjoyed, by using somebody at 15. We believed our love could final continuously. We have been "a pair", continuously mutually, sharing our existence with one yet another. My love moved 1000's of miles away as quickly as we've been 17, met yet another, and married. I additionally married somebody I had met and "fell in love with". somebody i considered my "actual love". I extremely have in no way forgotten, not do I anticipate i will, my "previous flame". a number of my classmates did marry their highschool sweethearts, and function been fortunately married for over 40 years. My "actual love" did not final. We have been divorced after 25 years of marriage.I do have 2 beautiful daughters, 3 granddaughters, and one great grandson i'm very pleased with. the guy i considered my "actual love", and the father of my toddlers, is now lifeless. I enjoyed the father of my toddlers and that i think he enjoyed me. so which you tell me, "What do you think of actual love is?
2016-11-27 20:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! I'm 14 2 dude try to talk to her u telled me that u r seeing her this weekend right? well tell her how u feel about her & u will be more calmed down, really talk to her....... :-) good luck!!!
2006-10-10 11:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry kiddo, you'll fall out of it soon enough.
If this is your biggest "problem", you'll be alright.
2006-10-10 11:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by Chrissy: The Angry Typer a/k/a Mood Mole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14!!!!! LIFE WILL GO ON!!! FORGET HER AND CONCENTRATE ON SCHOOL! WOMEN WILL THROW THEMSELVES AT YOU IF YOU'RE RICH! SO DO GOOd IN SCHOOL!
2006-10-10 11:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋