i split with boyfriend 3 months ago as he couldnt handle my situation that is now resolved, he has text me every day at least 5 times aday since we split and spoken on the phone a few times and out of the blue he asked me out ,we have been out a few times but i am worried that it will end up as it did last time him totally breaking my heart ,i dont think i could take it again. dont know whether to just try and play it cool for a while and wait and see what happens,i am so happy that we are sort of, together again but at the same time i am scared to death that i will lose him
2006-10-10 11:21:10 · 14 answers · asked by demmi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess it depends what the situation that he could not handle was. If you think he could let you down again steer clear, but if you are sure that he is what you want and that he will treat you right then go for it girl! Only you know how you feel and you got to base your choice on that. Was the reason he let you down understandable from his point of view? Did he make a mistake when he let you down and now he has realised he should have supported you? Best of luck.
2006-10-10 11:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lost soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be careful if I were you. It sounds like he might be a fair weather friend. He wants to be around you when everything is cool, but once things start going wrong, he wants to back away, because he's not mature enough to deal with situations like that. I know that love can tend to cloud your judgment...been there, done that. Ultimately, you have to do what your heart tells you is right, but please keep in mind that he has hurt you before, and he very well might again. You really deserve someone who's going to treat you with all the love and respect you need and deserve! You seem like a very sweet and thoughtful young woman. Please take care of yourself and God Bless you!
2006-10-10 18:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him it might be betterto stay friends for a while to see how well you to interact after what he did. Than if you feel that he wont do it again, id risk it. just dont roll over and take it if it happens again. Next time dont go back
2006-10-10 18:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by le_le_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill, chill, chill. You already have unconditional love and you can afford to wait and see what happens. Read 'Wild Love' by Gill Edwards and think about how you'd like to spend your time. Take lots of B vitamins to help you relax! Good luck.
2006-10-10 18:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by tigerlilybet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't be asking if you didn't want to risk it.
Love is pain but as they say it is better to love and lose than never to have loved at all.
Go get him girly have your evil way you never know it might be your last chance so enjoy it while it lasts.
2006-10-10 18:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by Aerroc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh if ur happy, u should chance it coz if u dont ul b heart brokern if u break up just now neways
2006-10-10 19:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must have done something really bad to have broke your heart so why not ,not go through that again, if he cheated once chances are he'll do it again----if that's what he did_______good luck and remember there are way better men out there you just have too look
2006-10-11 13:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen girl, there's plenty more boys out there!
If you really like him, tell him that you don't wanna have a boy that runs as soon as the **** hits the fan, get me? Tell him to be a man not a biatch!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-10 18:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by badboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never said why you split in the first place, whatever it was, look back at this, your answer lies ther,e. Good luck.
2006-10-10 18:27:03 · answer #9 · answered by learned_old_sage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. ask if something like that happens again would he still be there or would he leave again. Decide what you should do depending on his answear.
2006-10-10 18:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by Kendall S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋