my boyfriend is in kuwait for construction, before he left he made some stupid decisions he lied to me and hid it behind my back when i asked. so we were dating for like a month, then he left but he keeps talking about getting married, i don't want to settle down right now. he is 25 yrs old and i am 19 yrs old, he says he loves me but i don't love him, but i don't know how to tell him. then on the other hand i have this really great guy who i've been friends with since before my boyfriend and he tells me his feelings about me, and it makes me so happy. i just don't know what to say to my boyfriend, that i don't want to be with him. how do i tell him? what do i do?
2006-10-10 10:52:46 · 12 answers · asked by Marybeth A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've only been together for a month. He sounds like a douche if he's talking about it that soon. Find another guy in your town.
2006-10-10 10:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that the whole long distance thing isn't working for u and that him lieing to u in the past and keeping things from u in the past has really affected u and that since he's done that in less than a month that u two have been together that u won't be able to trust him. Just be hones and tell him that the only thing u can offer him is friendship and he can either take or leave it.
2006-10-10 10:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by MEri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the guy in Kuwait has any intentions of marrying you. He just wants someone to come home to for a booty call when he is done in the middle ease. Just tell him that you don't have feelings for him and that you don't feel the relationship needs to go any further.
2006-10-10 10:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 04:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants a visa or green card do what you have to hun but don't let him come over here for that reason that kind of love doesn't last you will have children and he will have another or have converted you to his religion. Love doesn't come with that kind of price hun but you descide. Oh and one more thing they are usually married to another in their country leave them there until they can bring them over. they marry differently to us they can do it with just words and they can also divorce like that too. Look into it.
2006-10-10 10:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by sarell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always good to b straight forward,coz finally what counts is that u n Ur partner should b happy with each other
2006-10-10 22:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get with, get on with your life. A month is a spit in the bucket. You found someone else who seems to be more to your liking, so dive in dear
2006-10-10 10:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a dumb *** just start dating other guys hell get over it, what kind of person proposes after a month ? hes just a little boy hell learn
2006-10-10 10:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already know
2006-10-10 10:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by the_mojo_wire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. tons of nice guys on www.baajaa.com
2006-10-10 13:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋