It's a real tricky question and a good question too. The man you love doesn't really love you and you don't really love the man who loves you. You have to choose. What's it going to be? You have no other choice.
2006-10-10 10:49:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like the question. The kicker is "no other choice".
I would choose the person that loved me.
Shae said it well.
Love (not lust or that 'love at first sight' stuff) is a learned emotion.
and has several different forms.
The most important to me is to love because it is the right thing to do.
2006-10-10 11:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by deepndswamps 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have chose the man that loves me, and that didn't work out too well. I have also chose the man I love, that didn't go so well either. But, if it had to be done, I suppose I would go with the man that loves me...just as long as it goes better this time around. I have to agree, hard question to answer, but also a good one. If someone really thinks about this one, they could learn alot about themselves.
2006-10-10 18:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by whatever2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have choosen the man who loves me before and that didnt work and I think now Im with a man I love and the situation stands that maybe I can make him fall in love but in all I want to be loved but a the same time I want to love who Im with how about being single that has worked too.
2006-10-10 17:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What this choice calls for is patience. Although it may seem like it's taking forever for everything to unfold it is necessary to be patient and allow God to bring everything together. Also remember you shouldn't be looking for a man, let him find you! The bible says HE who finds a wife finds a good thing, so that right there lets you know when he comes he will be sent by God and he will already have love for you in his heart and he will respect you in every way and appreciate you for who you are and being that he would be sent by God it would be already destined that you would receive him and love him, you won't be confused or wonder (God is not the author of confusion if there is confusion God is not in it 'cause God gives clear direction in every situation) but your heart would let you know that he's right for you. And finally remember that when God does something He does it well and He doesn't want for us to settle for less than what we deserve, so wait on the Lord and be of good courage and He will strengthen your heart.
2006-10-10 18:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by Hope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose the man that loves me, since we can grow to love others.
2006-10-10 17:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the man that loves you!!!!!! people have arranged marriages all the time any and the both grow to love each other more then most couples now and they rarely have divorces. nothing is perfect... a relationship is not always even when it comes to Love but it has ups and downs...
2006-10-10 17:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by Me, Myself and I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man you love without a doubt, there is no room for putting up with second best.
2006-10-10 17:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by pixiechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have another choice: No man at all. That's the best one!
2006-10-10 20:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that kinda sucks. Hmm.. I guess I pick the guy that loves me. I could choose the other guy but he wouldnt choose me.
2006-10-10 17:53:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
always another way. but if that's it, then you're destined to be alone forever.
2006-10-10 17:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋