I met this girl about a month ago, and she's absolutely great, and I think about her alot. Well, when we talk on the phone I started noticing that I am usually calling her more than she's calling me. Is it normal for the guy to be calling more often? I want to know if i'm just being a little insecure or is there an underlying fact that she may not want to talk to me. If so, what should I do?
2006-10-10 10:51:22 · 4 answers · asked by arkainisofphoenix 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you need to worry about calling her more than she calls you. Even though it is the year 2006, women still want to be pursued. It makes us feel special and desired. When I started dating my boyfriend(we have been together for 7 years now), I would never be the one to call him first. There were days when I was just dying to talk to him, and I held off calling him. I wanted to know that he wanted to talk to me, and I wanted to give him the space that he may have needed. Women also fear that we may appear too needy. As long as she seems happy to hear from you, you are probably doing great!
2006-10-10 11:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lawgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my relationships the guy calls more and that's normal for me. You can tell by the way she talks to you whether she would rather you didn't call. If she talks to you normal then dont worry about it. Keep calling as you are.
2006-10-10 17:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think maybe you should chill with calling her so much. she'll probably end up getting annoyed.. well depends on how she is. lol but ya just try not calling her so much..
2006-10-10 17:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll lose infatuation eventually and she'll become the mouse... as long as things r flowing smoothly keep playing Cat.
2006-10-10 17:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by ~MB~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋