I think he is going back to his old ways. I thought he changed, but he can't control his jealousy and anger. He lashed out at this construction site worker because he had said something about my breasts in Spanish. He also has a very hard time accepting that I have many male friends and he's always asking me questions about them. I love him so much but his jealousy is pissing me off. I never say anything when he's with his female friends. And he's starting to hang out with the wrong crowd again. How do I stop him from getting into trouble again?
2006-10-10 10:50:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey,
There is no way in the world you can change your man. It is by choice of self. I can say this to you because not only did I date, but I married a man with a very jealous and angry spirit. And yes, he is going to tell you he has changed, and yes it will only be temporary, but it will come back again. Have you guys sat down and talked about how his anger and jealousy make you feel? I'm not one to be giving advice, but make sure that this is what you want. Remember, everything is by choice.
2006-10-10 10:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by mamas1gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be responsible for an others behavior. But I am curious about the role you play in this. Ask yourself Do you repeatedly get involved with men with jealousy and anger issues? How is your self image? How do you present yourselves to men? I'm wondering about your level of insecurity you seem dependent on others behavior for your happiness and that my dear will not get you there. LOOK hard in the mirror.
2006-10-13 09:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by NuMi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man made a comment about my breasts in public and my man didn't lash out, or otherwise correct him, I would be pissed.
Your man has a right to ask you questions about your life.
As far as getting in with the wrong crowd: You have the right to ask questions about his life and to express your feelings about it. If you gave him crap when he questioned you about your male friends, don't expect him to be understanding at first. You should start by apologizing.
2006-10-12 10:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by limendoz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and that you really love him and only want to be with him. Let him know that your male friends are only friends. Bring to his attention that his old ways are coming back and that you can not be with him if he is going to act this way. Tell him " shape up or ship out" but say it nicely.
2006-10-10 10:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by trina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move Along
2006-10-10 10:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by ***The One*** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you teach me what that construction worker said about your breast in spanish.... it may come in handy one day.
2006-10-10 11:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by ~MB~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't change someone. you can make yourself THINK they've changed for a small time, but after that you're screwed. find somebody else.
2006-10-10 10:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you dump his childish azz and get a real man?
2006-10-10 10:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel, if he doesnt change than there's nothing else you can do....just let him go and find another.
2006-10-10 10:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋