Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

ok i just found out that i am a lame in my school which is shoking becouse people say that i try to hard to be popular. since im not loud meaning that i am a very quiet person peole say that i would be a lame if im quiet. and the reason y im quiet is becouse i dont know what to talk about most of the time and i dont want to make my self look like a fool when i talk so what can i do to become popular or a hottie so that every one would lik me pleease HELP!!!

2006-10-09 10:17:07 · 1 answers · asked by jasmine 1 in Friends

I am looking for a man named Sascha who graduated high school from Walden high school located in Danville Vermont in 1988

2006-10-09 10:16:26 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

This gurl at school hates me and i have no clue why, but today she spread a rumor that i was lesbian and now i really want to kick her butt, but that is not like me and there isn't anything that i could spread about her. I know it sounds childish but i'm a sophmore and i don't want ppl to think that about me. what should i do?

2006-10-09 10:15:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

just curious ;0)

2006-10-09 10:15:36 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is only going to be 13, so he doesn't need certain things, like a razor, for instance, but I do know to include deodorant!

Not looking for anything too expensive.

2006-10-09 10:14:53 · 11 answers · asked by LM 2 in Family

The other week i got my girlfriend some flowers i put them in the boot of my car with a note, then went in to see her. i told id left my wallet in the car and asked if she wouldnt mind getting it for me. she got it found the flowers and the note, she was absoloutly thrilled, then i hid chocolates up for her and gave her a set of questions to find them. Question is does anyone have any other crazily romantic ideas like that. Cause she really loves them and i love setting them up and prepearing them for her.

2006-10-09 10:14:33 · 3 answers · asked by frut01 1 in Singles & Dating

Lat week, I just withdrew from my math class so, I wanted to see if my best friend knew the number of Head Start because she worked there. Since I withdrew from my math class, I have some extra time on my hands. I do not go to college full time anymore.
Anyhow, I called my best friend up and told her what happened with my math class. Then, I asked her if she had the number of HeadStart since she has been working there practically for six months now. She told me she did not have the number and to look it up in the Yellow Pages. Now, I frustered as well as annoyed at her because I do a lot for her. I let her choose the movies we see, the resterunts we eat at when we go out. I even get a bottled water out of her car when she is to lazy to get it herself. I feel our friendship is not really balanced. I feel she is selfish as well as self involved. But, I have not told her this yet. Do I have a right to be frusterated or annoyed at her? What should I do?

2006-10-09 10:14:23 · 3 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Friends

what does this mean

2006-10-09 10:13:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why am i feeling this way is it just me or some of u out there have gone through this...my guy lives with some of his roommates n one of his roommate left yesterday giving short notice it was all of the sudden...i dont know this guy personally but just heard about him..my guy is not sad but rest of his room mate are! and i am feeling sad too even through this guy just know me as hos roommate gf ....whats gng on with me..can some one explain me

2006-10-09 10:13:38 · 3 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Friends

my ex-girlfiend was forced into breaking up with me due to servere pressure from her parents..i understand why she broke up with me and why she wouldn't want to get back together with me just yet because she doesn't want to hurt her parents feelings any further. i sense that she is still in love with me and she wants a future with me as we still tallk and she sometimes very slightly hints at it..when i asked her if i should wait for her parents 2 ease up she said no because it wouldn't be fair on me..i kept insisting that i would wait for her but she kept telling me not to...deep down she does want me to wait for her but i dont know if i should wait because she might be over me by the time her parents ease up on her...so shall i wait or not????

2006-10-09 10:13:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok...I'm a christian and i don't believe in sex before marriage. If the mistake is made well i'll just ask God to forgive me and move on. Here's my dilima. This guy who I really like, who seems to like me as much, told me this: "I really do like you, but you won't have sex before marriage and in a relationship sex is 50% although its the least important, it's still half. I respect your morals so i won't force you, If we do start a relationship and i want sex, i'm gonna take it elsewhere and i'm sure that will hurt you as much as i'll feel guilty."
(It really wouldn't matter much to me as long as its just sex. Cause if he wants it, and i'm not giving, its the only solution)
"And you don't deserve that. To me, you really mean a lot, but i don't want to hurt you. If you're willing to cope with it, it's ok even though it'll hurt me to know that i'm doing something like that to a girl like you." I wanna make tha right descision What do you think i should do? (He "was" a christian)

2006-10-09 10:12:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since the 8th september, my partner did an annulment form for the church, so that we could get married. Since then she has become distance towards me, very snappy, harsh tone, no affection or physcial contact. At one point she wanted to end the relationship. She has now amitted to being depressed and seen the doctor. And is recieving treatment towards it. However she still contiunes to be distant to me, when I asked how the relationship is or or if things will get better it's a " DON'T KNOW ". living in this environment is hurtful. I've told her how much I love her and care for her. But if she loved me back would she treat me like this?. The lack of contact, she moves away from even when I try and hug her or hold her hand, is frustrating but does it mean something else?

2006-10-09 10:12:32 · 11 answers · asked by wondergeezer 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it ok to walk around your home nude? just wondering. do any of u do it?if so, how often?

2006-10-09 10:12:27 · 16 answers · asked by sharp 1 in Singles & Dating

my soon to be ex wife and me had a mortgage for 3 years together and then i left the marriage due to repeated violence from her my name is still on the mortgage and it has now been 3 years since i left and in this time i have not paid towards the mortgage as i am unable to work for health reasons and she gets the interest paid for her due to being on benefits so only pays a very small amount each month since we bought the house 6 years ago it has increased in value by £72,000 my question is how would the courts decide who will recive what?
during the marriage my wife worked for most of the time and i looked after our daughter as i was unable to work

2006-10-09 10:12:21 · 7 answers · asked by ag 3 in Marriage & Divorce

last friday i went to a bar with a few friends from work, while i was chilling with them and speaking about how much work sucked, there i noticed this cute waitress. now i realize from that moment on, i want to be with her, i can't get her outta my head and the thought of me going over to her and just asking her out incorrectly is driving me insane, i don't want to scare her off, so please can you me help out.
how am i suppose to ask her out without screwing up?
i think the main thing for me is, is that i get really nervous, and my face gets red, i start to mumble words, and the biggest problem is that i kinda happen to stutter alittle.

2006-10-09 10:12:14 · 5 answers · asked by triplet 2 in Singles & Dating

well i now got remarried and i'm still pregnat but with my exes baby.well anyways my new husband loves me alot but every time he goes to the bathroom and i walk by he says:"our marrige is a no no...a big fat bad no no!" is he talking about us the perfect couple,or someone else?

2006-10-09 10:12:01 · 8 answers · asked by ElEgAnTFiShIe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

whould you rather know what the girl actually lookes like without putting a ton of makeup on?

2006-10-09 10:11:50 · 15 answers · asked by Ketty 1 in Singles & Dating

Are you related to the Muldrow family?

2006-10-09 10:10:51 · 1 answers · asked by CuriousGirl 4 in Family

Does that mean he has gay tendencies or trying to explore other options?

2006-10-09 10:10:44 · 29 answers · asked by postal_marg 3 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend. We have sex, not a lot, but we still do. Sometimes I'll really really crave it, but I'm so shy, I just can't find it in myself to try to persuade or let him know that I want him. I'm really self-confident about my body, I'm uncomfortable being naked, and sometimes I question my own sexual abilities. When we do have sex, its awesome as hell, but there's days where I'll want it so bad but I don't know how to tell him or show him physically that I want him.

Maybe it's my personal issues about my body, but I don't know.

2006-10-09 10:10:37 · 22 answers · asked by tOnA 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do so many people get divorced, especially those in their 20's and 30's?

2006-10-09 10:10:31 · 11 answers · asked by Helping Hand IT 2 in Marriage & Divorce

will someone help me. I am looking for a jacket not like a fancy preppy one but a cute one. im a XL and I found some cute ones at pacsun earlier but they dont fit or didnt have an XL. I am a girl im 17 so something u think someone around that age would like. I looked at ccs.com danscomp.com alloy delias kohls and I dont like those. so someone pls give me some ideas and thanks oh yeah ( im not prejudice But I dont like the big old gangsta jackets) thanks in advance I will really appreciate this I live in Ohio the cold state and itdsbeen gettin cold here.

2006-10-09 10:10:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 10:10:07 · 3 answers · asked by marisapietersen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 10:09:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 10:09:06 · 5 answers · asked by kathleen k 1 in Friends

I lost my father very early this year (72) I have 2 other brothers and we made a bedside vigil doing shifts in the hospital to support mum. After he died my brothers did bugger all to help...

I had the job of arranging all the funeral details when he died, (I paid Too ,They were broke!) did the token speaches in the church cos they couldn't (I even did most of the crying!)
After that I sorted out dad's estate, applying for benefits to make sure mum was okay financially. I virtually did everything and still am to help mum who is still overcome.

My dads birthday is coming up soon and both my brothers are distraught but I'm quite calm and collected "they have to cheek to ask if I have no feelings".
I feel as though i'm the cold hearted one now or am I looking at this wrong...I don't seem to be able to grieve!

2006-10-09 10:08:46 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

I am 27 and am starting to see more and more, now that I am single, that girls these days are wanting nothing more than a sugar daddy, and/or a bad boy who treats them bad. WHY? I treat my girls like a queen and treat them with respect like I was brought up (I can't help it), but I also am not a push over. I don't want a girl who is just about what is cool on MTV at the time..lol..and NO DRAMA. For some reason that is what all girls these days care about.
How is someone like me, who treats his women very nicely supposed to find someone these days? I am not about to lie and make up stories to get a girl on bed, nor am I going to act like something I am not.
What's a guy to do?
Any answers from women would be great! I DO NOT want a male opinion on this matter please.

2006-10-09 10:08:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel so stupid. I posted like 5 questions about this guy I REALLY like and... He doesn't like me back. I mean, how was I stupid enough to think he could like me? I mean, I almost asked him out. And, I told all my friends about him. I really like him. I'm crying. He was like perfect! I wonder, if I was prettier, or skinnyer, would he like me? I'm starting to think I'm pretty, but I want to lose weight. I was down to 104(I'm 13 and 5'3) but I'm 120 now! http://www.myspace.com/thekatesteinberg -look at all the pictures. Why doesn't he like me? I mean, how will I get over him? I just met him this year, but I'm so in love with him. I KNOW it! I just hate it. I'm 13, I shouldn't like guys. I wanna just concentrate on school, or get a boyfriend, or something! I hate it.

2006-10-09 10:07:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 10:06:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My sons father is in jail and will be there for a while. I was wondering could I still get child support if so..I am a single mother and would rely on that for income.

2006-10-09 10:06:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships