I love my boyfriend. We have sex, not a lot, but we still do. Sometimes I'll really really crave it, but I'm so shy, I just can't find it in myself to try to persuade or let him know that I want him. I'm really self-confident about my body, I'm uncomfortable being naked, and sometimes I question my own sexual abilities. When we do have sex, its awesome as hell, but there's days where I'll want it so bad but I don't know how to tell him or show him physically that I want him.
Maybe it's my personal issues about my body, but I don't know.
2006-10-09 10:10:37 · 22 answers · asked by tOnA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hmm.. that's a thoughy...
Personally, the best thing to do is talk about it. Maybe make it a joke and say 'hey, you know what would rock?... if we had sex right now.' You could even say it in a resteraunt where you won't actually have to have sex... but he will get an idea that you want him.
If you are really self-concious about your body... do what I do... buy something sexy... not just for him, for yourself. If you feel sexy in what you are wearing (even if nobody else can see it), it will boost your ego. Try it.
Maybe another good idea would be to plan to stay in one night and make a move yourself. Don't always wait for him to start, chances are he is just as nervous as you. To tell you the truth, guys don't ever want to look like sex craved maniacs (even though lots of them are). Do it, swallow your pride and dive in!
2006-10-09 10:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Yvee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he probably wants sex as much as you do. Since, you love your befriend and he loves you Just Tell Him or you can think of sexy ways to initiate sex, like hopping on him in the morning or dressing up for him. Trust me he will get the hint. And don't let your body issues stand in your way of a great sex life because if your boyfriend truly loves you he's not worrying about your so called flaws. Finally, Read Cosmopolitan magazine they have perfect advice for sexy sex games.
2006-10-09 10:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta have some comment or something that lets him know you want to have sex. Once he knows you want to, he'll be all over you. My girlfriend asks me if I'm tired and then I know that means she wants to have sex. I know she isn't really concerned about wether or not I am going to sleep, she wants to know if I can stay awake for 20 more minutes so we can have sex.
2006-10-09 10:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by pimpn240sx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love your boyfriend you should be comfortable with him. You should not be having sex with someone you are not comfortable saying these things too. That is when you know you are not ready for sex is when you can't talk about it
2006-10-09 10:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be proud of your body, you are a woman. As far as the sex thing goes, cuddle with him. I cannot remember a time when cuddling with my bf didn't lead to more. Good luck!
2006-10-09 10:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by SexxyPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are uncomfortable being naked or asking for what you want then trust me, you are NOT "really self-confident about your body". Quite the opposite. You don't need to ask. Just start. He'll get the idea.
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2014-10-03 00:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are weak when it come to sex..and u said u have a nice body..for a guy to have u..he will be very happy if the girl insist to have sex..
just tellhim..I feel hot baby..can u make me feel cold now..then continue with a sensual touch..on this case his big buddy will know what to do..
hope it works..
for me it did work!!
2006-10-09 10:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by Student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is. You're under 16 and trying to get us into trouble.
2016-03-18 07:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything....just go for it. Kiss him, touch him,..... If he's anything like most guys, all it takes is a change of the wind and they are ready to go. Trust me when I say...."anything that you do to him to hint to him that you want him.....well let's just say....It's on! Good luck!
2006-10-09 10:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by lil_rowdy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋