ok i just found out that i am a lame in my school which is shoking becouse people say that i try to hard to be popular. since im not loud meaning that i am a very quiet person peole say that i would be a lame if im quiet. and the reason y im quiet is becouse i dont know what to talk about most of the time and i dont want to make my self look like a fool when i talk so what can i do to become popular or a hottie so that every one would lik me pleease HELP!!!
2006-10-09 10:17:07 · 1 answers · asked by jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my advice to you would be to keep working on yourself...on your confidence. u know why?? the Happier u are, the more Confident and Healthy and Positive u are, the more Attractive u will be to others!!!
1st of all, work on your appearance. exercise, work out, get new, flattering clothes, try a new hairstyle, play around w/ some makeup once in ahwile if ur allowed. just take care of your body, and health first. eat well, but not overindulge, make sure u are getting some physical activity.
2nd, work on your Mind: study hard in school! learn more, read more, start developing your mind, how to think critically, how to write papers, how to Discuss w/ teachers and students!
3rd, work on your Relationships with family, friends, eventually other students and even strangers... u always have to make sure you are Confident, Happy and Attractive to people... even if u don't "like" them, u can make new friends if u are a cool person u know?
once u work on ur looks, u will feel better..and once u work on your mind, u will feel smarter......that will HELP you meet new guys, so it is worth doing it. but u have to start Liking yourself FIRST before u meet new people and make friends w/ them.. u will be miserable forever if u keep feeling that u are not cool, not pretty enough, whatever...so "fix" that first, and the better u feel, the less u will worry about it.
2006-10-09 10:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋