last friday i went to a bar with a few friends from work, while i was chilling with them and speaking about how much work sucked, there i noticed this cute waitress. now i realize from that moment on, i want to be with her, i can't get her outta my head and the thought of me going over to her and just asking her out incorrectly is driving me insane, i don't want to scare her off, so please can you me help out.
how am i suppose to ask her out without screwing up?
i think the main thing for me is, is that i get really nervous, and my face gets red, i start to mumble words, and the biggest problem is that i kinda happen to stutter alittle.
2006-10-09 10:12:14 · 5 answers · asked by triplet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Damn...that sounds like my husband. And myself. Believe me, I know it's hard to calm yourself down, but that's what you gotta do. If you gotta pretend she's just one of the guys to calm yourself down, that's what you gotta do.
Boy, did my face get red when my now-husband was asking me out in high school! I liked him for years. He was calling my name in the hall, but I couldn't hear him. He, however, thought I was ignoring him. Imagine how that must have felt.
You sound like a really good guy. You are worth that girl's time. She would be lucky to have such a nice guy. I am so lucky to have my man.
Keep up your confidence. You'll be great.
When my husband first asked me out in high school, he just got to the point, "Are you busy Friday?" Since we were in the same class, I knew who he was. Your girl, however, has never met you. Introduce yourself to her as if you were meeting any other person. STAY CALM. She's just a girl. (Try to ignore the fact that she's so sexy!) Just get to know her. DON'T FOLLOW HER AROUND AT WORK! I had a guy stalk me...that's a little scary! Smile at her. Don't forget to ask her if she's seeing anyone!!!
Ask her if she would like to go out with you one night. DON'T try talking to her when she's busy. Wait until after the rush of customers is gone.
Good Luck!
2006-10-09 10:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by lkjgfyfukh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the first thing for you to do is calm down. To avoid getting nervous, try and start a simple casual chat with her. Then proceed accordingly. If you are a good observer then please watch her mood. Girls can be very moody. Also try finding out a bit about her from elsewhere. You never know what kind of a girl she is. Good Luck !!
And I hope you dont stutter.
2006-10-09 10:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by skepty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats sooo sweet I think u should make a movie....lol
anyway I think u should keep coming to that cafe
and keep being nice to her like help her out
and then tell her like how r u today?
and the rest is alllll up to u!
lol goodluck!
2006-10-09 10:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u make a great impression with ur words. ( from wat i can see what u have typed here)
Keep up the exact thing to her. Be honest...u know some girls think nervous guys are cute too.
2006-10-09 10:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anne H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember that she is a human being regardless of what she works , talk to her showing all your respect and she will understand your words from your eyes....... good luck .
2006-10-09 10:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by MIKE IVANA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋