Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

I'm fairly well off and I want to get a Prenup drafted before I propose to my girlfriend but every time I bring up the subject she acts like it's horrible to even consider it and that it's bad to start everything off so negatively with "In the event of a divorce" etc... Like it's going to curse the marriage or something. It's pretty against her culture to sign such things but I refuse to get married without one. How do I warm her up to the idea?

2006-10-09 10:40:09 · 15 answers · asked by coxdebate 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy but I dont know how to tell him! I dont know how to talk to him or what to say to flirt! I think he might like me! HELP!!

2006-10-09 10:39:26 · 9 answers · asked by ♥BrunetteSweetie♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

i told him how felt about him and he said that he likes me alot but the thing that is stopping him to ask me out again is that he has to much problems with his family and out on the streets because a lot of people dont like hime on the streets and he dont want me to suffer want if something bad happens to him and he dont want me to cry for him...how do i try to make him belive me that i wont suffer....i would only sufffer if we are not together.....

2006-10-09 10:38:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok my boyfriend is very quite......i want him to be more loud or maybe more talkable,I try to make him more interesting but he just seems not to get it,i still want to be with him and have good things together.......what would you do if you where in his kind of problem?

2006-10-09 10:38:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and join the land of the living, but its no good here iam again? has anyone had a bad day today? cos mine was ****!

2006-10-09 10:38:29 · 24 answers · asked by snoopdog 1 in Friends

2006-10-09 10:38:23 · 8 answers · asked by da unknown poet 2 in Family

Why is it that when a Black man dates a White woman no one has anything to say about it but when a White man dates a Black woman, everybody flips. I am a Black female who as always been attracted to White men but the controversy has got me a little bit on edge.

2006-10-09 10:38:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said he was flying down in a Sikorsky helicopter to his friends farm in the nearby village in Surrey from his house in Derbyshire My texts to him have remained "pending" and I am at a loss to know where he is....HELP!

2006-10-09 10:37:55 · 4 answers · asked by Pan 4 in Friends

Could you please give me all the info you can about them...like cost. how long they take what you have to do to do it. I live in neb by the way

2006-10-09 10:37:04 · 7 answers · asked by justasking 3 in Weddings

Is honesty really the best policy?

2006-10-09 10:36:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister met up w/an old bf, & he wants to marry her. (only been talking for about 3 mos, hasnt seen him for about 30yrs (she is 51) & she told him no not yet) he is getting divorced (sis already is) & they are planning on driving a tractor trailer truck together so they can afford a huge ranch with horses, etc etc. That is what he is promising her. The thing is, she has 3 boys, 18, 17, and 16 who will be home alone while she is on the road w/this guy! am i wrong for disagreeing? he said he will give her all his money in exchange for him staying at her house when he is home for the 4 days from the road.

2006-10-09 10:35:01 · 4 answers · asked by zoe 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been friends with him for 2 1/2 years, he is married (but for convenience only, a mutual agreement), he has bought me 16 roses for my birthday, mixed colour. What do you think about this? Is it just a nice gesture from a good friend? Or do you agree with my other friend that there is more to it?

2006-10-09 10:34:59 · 30 answers · asked by Contrary Mary 2 in Friends

there is a boy at school that i like and one of my friends told him that i like him with out me knowing and he siad he doesnt like me. But everybody keeps telling me he may be shy and is afraid to tell me. Is that true r guys really shy? And now part of me still thinks he might. I have tried EVERYTHING, i cant get over him. and i am REALLY afraid of rejectoin so i dont know if i can do that either. What do i do?

2006-10-09 10:34:20 · 2 answers · asked by Beth 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

you were orn in california and lived there with your parents for 15 years of your life. then ur mom becomes mentally ill and your father hates you. you have to live with your family in cleveland until you graduate.your at the point where u are almost 17, and have to make the decision weather to go back after high school or stay in cleveland. california is where u grew up and what u know, and that is where lots of your friends are, ut in cleveland u made a whole new set of friends, have family and it is cheaper, plus the guy u really like is in sleveland. what would you do if u only had 1 year to make this desision. would u go to california or stay in cleveland?

2006-10-09 10:34:05 · 7 answers · asked by snakeprincess831 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 10:33:21 · 7 answers · asked by eviechatter 6 in Singles & Dating

For the veterans, what can I expect here? A good time? A hard time? Let me have it, so I will know, lol!

2006-10-09 10:33:20 · 14 answers · asked by me_keekee 1 in Singles & Dating

my guy friend just pointed this out to me. this information i could have done without. i changed the subject and made a joke he laughed. in simple terms if a guy is interested isn't about the woman? even if he is busy? and we are just friends?

2006-10-09 10:32:28 · 5 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Singles & Dating

hi we have a school dance and i dont have anyone to go with its less that than a month away. the boy that i liked already asked someone but their is this one boy he is kida cute he is also a grade below me. but he is nice.im a library aid andhe came into the library for the last 4 days today whem he came in he he was in thier for like 10sec and the left he lookedat me and smiled but i dont know if he has a girlfriedn already but i do want to ask hime to the dance but idont want to be embarassed please help

2006-10-09 10:31:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have both, and work on them a lot cuz they're not where i want them. i wanna look great so girls can show me off : D who would like to rub mine haha

2006-10-09 10:31:40 · 20 answers · asked by Justin 2 in Singles & Dating

I was looking at our cell bill the other day because our daughter ran the bill up to over $300. Well in my research I found where my wife had made call to a guy that she had feeling for over a year ago. (We were having problems and it was a guy she worked with, he knew of her situation and he gave her a nice long kiss one day in the hallway at work. I am sure it was one of those nights when she was working until we hours.) Anyway when I saw the number it made me suspecious so I checked past bill and it seems that she is calling him about every month. Don't know how many times they talk at work. He still works for the same company but is at a different location. I want to know if I should confront her or wait until I get more evidence?

2006-10-09 10:31:10 · 17 answers · asked by Joesmoe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy at my skool who just called me and we were talking n he's going to say some " Call me back in 5 min if u don't i wont talk to u " do u think he was serious or just sayin that becuase i called him a minute later

2006-10-09 10:31:04 · 1 answers · asked by Peyton J 1 in Singles & Dating

I tell my friend, let's celebrate your birthday, and she's like no, it's ok, I don't want to celebrate it...

2006-10-09 10:30:53 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together a year and a half. I'm 7 months pregnant but we are not married. He lost his job a few months ago and seems to have absolutely no desire to get another one. He always has excuses. When I get fed up and throw him out he always caomes back all " changed" and things look good for a few days. Then, it comes time for responsibility and he's back to doing nothing. I do love him and I used to think he loved me but I dont think so that much anymore. When I try to talk to him about helping out I'm "complaining"- a nicer word than what he uses. He says I take away his self esteem and make him feel worthless....

2006-10-09 10:29:40 · 45 answers · asked by Shell 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He then fell in love with her for the first time, but she rejected him.

Months later...she got married to her boyfriend. He was extra sad!!! But he knew he had to move on and yet...he cant. Again...he sometimes sit in his room and cries. Its not weird or anything because the girl he wanted to marry rejected him and thats pretty sad and harsh.

He even went to school again for her to like him and stuff....but still didnt love him back.He told me this story yesterday and I thought it was so romantic, like those regualr Korean drama series? lol and sad.....because it was a real life love story for a girl. But it wasnt no happy ending for him. He seems so sad and thinks about her..I really want him to cheer up and be happy. Please give me sensible advice and help out this poor man? No silly or stupid answers please....! Be serious and if ur not going ot be serious...then dont bother answering this question. He cant move on!!!!! Please help out....=]

2006-10-09 10:29:32 · 13 answers · asked by Jellybean_93 2 in Friends

2006-10-09 10:29:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She wants to rent me out to other men so she can humiliate me and make money from it.
She's not going to take no for an answer.
What should I do?

2006-10-09 10:29:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When a baby is born. They don't have a sexuality,untill they get older and they choose which one they like best?And is says in the bible god loves us no matter what and it does not say anything about are sexuality we pick wich ones we like best.

2006-10-09 10:29:09 · 6 answers · asked by rikkan171 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

......could i get twolips in return ???...lol......

2006-10-09 10:29:08 · 23 answers · asked by juslookin 5 in Singles & Dating

How come there are only pictures of smaller framed women? Is there any magazines out there that show brides of different sizes and shapes? I recently bought Elegant Weddings and was astounded at just how one-sided the whole book was.

I want a magazine that shows real women with real curves- any suggestions?

2006-10-09 10:28:40 · 6 answers · asked by glorymomof3 6 in Weddings

So, I met this guy about a week ago through a mutual friend. He is absolutely wonderful from what I know of him so far. We have hung out a few times, went out for drinks on Saturday, and then chilled at his house last night. He seriously is amazing. So, without going into details and dragging on forever, is it possible that I could be falling for him already? Is it possible that with a 16 year age difference that it could really work. (I'm well beyond my teenage years, and am a mother of an adorable little boy, so please do not assume that I'm some silly 15 year old.) I haven't been looking for someone to be in my life in that way, but for some reason I cannot stop thinking about him. Honest opinions are greatly appreciated.

2006-10-09 10:28:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating