i told him how felt about him and he said that he likes me alot but the thing that is stopping him to ask me out again is that he has to much problems with his family and out on the streets because a lot of people dont like hime on the streets and he dont want me to suffer want if something bad happens to him and he dont want me to cry for him...how do i try to make him belive me that i wont suffer....i would only sufffer if we are not together.....
2006-10-09 10:38:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Look, this is the classic 'I'm a lonewolf that no one understands so don't get involved with me because it will just end in heartbreak" scenario that immature boys use to get girls because in reality they have nothing to offer except romanticized ideals and promises (usually unfulfilled) of adventure and epic romance. And of course you silly little girls go for it... and keep going for it, even when you're "adult". Contact me in fifteen years and regale me with your 'Rebel Without A Clue' story.
2006-10-09 10:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by Chuck N Knutz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you will take one day at a time. Tell him you rather be with him for a day then without him for the rest of your life. My husband is an officer and he could have his life taken tomorrow but I take that chance. I would be devastated but at least I got to spend part of my life with him. Now if this is just about stress on him because he is trying to figure out his life then you really should give him some space to figure things out. Sometimes we need to love the other person enough to give them some time. Good luck in your relationship! My heart goes out to you. I wouldn't want to spend one waking moment without my husband.
2006-10-09 10:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by copswife93 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't really force to him to believe if he still have problems about family and friends etc... I guess right he is confused, it is not a good idea to hang out with this kind of person, tell him that "i am your friend and i will be here for you no matter what, if you don't want me to be with you its ok, I really care about you" that's all and let him go, he will call you if he needs you, trust me. He is confused right now, he needs time out for himself. Let him breath and think.... goodluck!
2006-10-09 10:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All it skill is whilst he's around you, he thinks you look happier then once you have been aside. you will possibly particularly be feeling chuffed with out him and exhibiting it, or feeling undesirable approximately it and being chuffed whilst he sees you. and you do not ought to 'say something decrease back'. it is not approximately triumphing or dropping the breakup. it is approximately removing somebody you do unlike anymore and getting on which comprise your existence.
2016-10-19 02:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him really knwo how you feels if he really loves you then he would understand that you want to be with him no matter what the circumstance is..no matter if he is livin in the streets or if he has issues at home..just let him know that you are here for him and you can probably help him out if you can..let him know you have your arms out open for him if he needs your help..thats all i can think of..let me know if it helps
2006-10-09 10:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by Mj 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might want to aim your sights a little higher. He may be a great guy, but he's great enough to tell you to leave him alone. Take his advice!
You will one day wake up old before you know it. Don't waste your life...
DStarr
2006-10-09 10:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you care about him very much. And, you want to be together as much as possilbe. And, you understand his situation that he is currently going through.
2006-10-09 10:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by brooke992002 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him exactly what you just told about a million strangers!! tell him that the only way you would suffer is your not with him!!
2006-10-09 10:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by notyochic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is using this as a excuse not to be with you honey. Move on!
2006-10-09 10:41:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Id give him a break if i were you, sometimes all ppl need is a lil break and they realize how dumb they are before.
2006-10-09 10:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋