Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

I really like this guy, we're almost always together because we do the same activity and are constantly at practice last night he took me to dinner and paid. he started talking about how he wasnt like most guys that just cause we went to dinner doesnt mean we have to go out so he made it obvious he didnt think it was a date. but while we were there I was uncomfortable because these guys were staring at me the whole time and he almost fought them to make me feel better. He would keep saying things and then said im really not this weird so i asked him why he cares so much about what i think and he said he didnt know cause he normally doesnt care that much and whenever he hangs out with someone who knows me, he makes sure i go. He never drops me of a minute before curfew and he makes sure of it. He told my friend he liked me but ive heard he is trying to use me to make her jealous because he really likes her. does he like me or not? and what can i do to find out w/o ruining our friendship

2006-10-09 10:28:25 · 5 answers · asked by kiss_me22 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend isnt talking to me and my other friend!and its so stupid!i tried asking her what was wrong and she was like"nothing" and gave me a death glare(believe me she does those well,ur actually scared of those things when she does it!)then in 6th period i ask her again and she smiled and was like "no" but didnt talk to us.she flip flops from me and my other friend to our ex-friend(supposedly her ex-friend too),and its so annoying!what can i do?thanks.

2006-10-09 10:26:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For goodness sake there are like17 mexicans for every amercan. Jeeze and some of them are sooo vilent. I have nothing to oppose of them cause there nice and all. But jeeze why are there so many? Do they like to DO IT alot?

2006-10-09 10:26:40 · 7 answers · asked by Sheldon+shell 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay well what would any lady think if the telephone rang one day and she picked up and heard her husband say and i quote (man dude that ***** is so fine she dresses so badass and she's married) thats what i heard and just put it like this dumb *** dident think his phone had dialed my number!.i only heard that because then he found out that his phone was on and hunged up.i caled him right back and asked him wtf was he talking about he said(oh i was talking to a friend about an artist that comes out on t.v. thats how we men talk its all bullshit. so i asked him -k-k- well what artist is it,he said her name so i looked her up online,and guess what the person he was supposley talking about had never ever been married!.so i confrunted him and he sad oh no she's not married plus i never said she was.o-m-g! what the ****! i think my husband is thinking about another *****! what do ya'll think????

2006-10-09 10:26:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy and we have been friends since ninth grade(sort of). He doesn't tell me how he feels about anything and won't let me in. How do I get him to open up to me?

The second is that we got into a fight a while ago and last night he said he was sorry. I forgave him but then he told me he wanted some and he says that that's not the reason he said sorry to me. We have done stuff once before but that's it. (not sex)

How can I tell if he likes me for me and not just for sex or something like that?

2006-10-09 10:25:56 · 1 answers · asked by Brattany2988 1 in Friends

Okay here's the thing. I'm a decent looking, smart and funny guy. I'd be a great catch for any girl. The only problem is that I lack self confidence and have trouble asking girl out. Does anyone have any suggestions to boost my self confidence?

Btw, please dont say "if your decent looking, smart, and funny then what's the problem?".

2006-10-09 10:25:52 · 5 answers · asked by packerswes4 5 in Singles & Dating

She's 21 and is really really shy. She's never had what you would call a boyfriend but she has gone out on dates. She's always asking me for advice and I feel like I can't help her. She says she's really nervous around guys and that she thinks she either ruins the date by not being able to look them in the eye or because she giggles too much and makes the guy uncomfortable. She says she can't help it. I think it's a lack of self esteem, but what I say never seems to help. Can anyone give me advice on how to help her feel more comfortable with guys? Thank you.

2006-10-09 10:25:10 · 12 answers · asked by Red 1 in Singles & Dating

am I so totally being used or what went to the mountains this weekend he called his mom said he went to mountains with a "woman" scared to give my heart completely to him makes him angry yet he doesnt even aknowledge we are together

2006-10-09 10:24:57 · 11 answers · asked by laurafox0 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do u guys like a big but more or chest on a girl?ive always wondered

2006-10-09 10:24:22 · 4 answers · asked by irma 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok here's the problem i like this girl she likes me from what her friends have told me. My question has 2 parts, first part iam thinking of writeing her a note asking to her to talk what should i write in the note? As for the second part if she agrees to meet what should i say what should i talk about. I really have no clue on what to do, i would have talked to her at homecoming over the weekend but choked up when i saw how beautiful she looked, so what should i do i would really apreciate any help. Thanks.

2006-10-09 10:24:20 · 2 answers · asked by Gabe 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok. I dont go on school buses, taxi, vitrans, nothin' i have a cobaly and im 15. Anywyas, im very attractive, i have a cute body. I have a huge two story house that has everything anyone can think of, and i have lots of friends. So y do ppl think ur perfect and rich just becuz u have that? I dont get it.

2006-10-09 10:24:05 · 9 answers · asked by princess 2 in Friends

im confused on what to do im hearing different things on what to do my bf doesnt have a steady 8 to 5 job but he does get out and hustle up money to get what i need so whats ya s opinion should i throw him out or what he is good to me and my kids

2006-10-09 10:23:45 · 13 answers · asked by dkay 2 in Family

a friend helped me somtimes ago 2 stay wit him,he is 5yrs older dan i am,,he had a wife some months wen i got his place. before the wife's arival i had been the one doin mst cleaning job at home,,when the wife came in i also help her in doin most of what she should be doin includin washing wife's wears.wen she gav birth i stood by her in cleaning, washing n running errands.ialso engage in a job where i earn living and whenever am paid i buy foood stuff at home for everybody to eat..but of recent i noticed they were taking me as fool and they were like exercising control over me but they didnt know all wat i was doin was just coz my mind is free n hapy wit dem,actually wat d wife did to me are when i fetched water in she restricted me,when i was broke they took it as advantage not to give me food,well later wen i met her husband 2 ask of wat i did why both of them were reactin some how 2 me he said his wife i reacted some how when she wanted to send me erand wat should i do

2006-10-09 10:23:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if you were judged as "the only thing you have achieved in life is to have a baby".
Personally I think having a healthy beautiful child is the biggest achievement I will ever make in my life and leaves a career and awesome income way down the scale of my priorties now.

2006-10-09 10:23:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-09 10:22:54 · 20 answers · asked by Peach F 1 in Friends

I really like this guy at work he is everything a girl could want, he doesnt know I like him an I have been told that he doesnt date girls he works with should I forget about him? He is near perfect an I think he likes me to but we work together. What should I do? forget about him or go for it?

2006-10-09 10:22:53 · 14 answers · asked by dljtr37 2 in Singles & Dating

He was driving me to my ballroom dance lessons, and we were argueing...you see the day before we had gotten home from a softball tournament (4.5 hr drive) and i brought in my bookbag full of clothes and my big purse that had everything else i needed. As i was walking into the house i heard a loud noise & when i turned around i saw that he had thrown a lawn chair on the ground in front of him, and then thrown another one on top of it, i mean he threw them hard against the ground. And about a week before, he had told my mom to **** off, she then threatened that if he ever said that again, he would be outta the house. But back to driving to dance lessons, he was yelling at me cuz i was standing up for my mom and sister and i was yelling back, and he was wrong in this arguement he called me a B**** in this also. then he drew his hand back like he was going to hit me, then stopped, so i looked out my window...then i felt it...he backhanded me across the face, what i am supposed to do?

2006-10-09 10:22:03 · 26 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Family

2006-10-09 10:21:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been together for 2 years and we have had many ups and downs. Today he decided he had enough. I don't know where to go from here. He siad for me to stay in the house and no have to worry with the bills, he would pay for everything and he loved me but love is not enough. He still wants to be firends with me, but I cannot.

I cannot stay here without him. I cannot sleep in our bed and see all of the things that we bought for our lives together. The house I set up for us can't be just for me.

It is past the point that sorry will fix us. If I call and appoligize it won't do any good. I don't think anything will make him come back to me. I scared and confused. Where do I go? I am still very young, only 20.

My parents never were involved in my life and going to them is not an option. All of my friends are married and I don't think staying with them is an option.

How do I heal from this? Anyone else who has been divorced advice please.

2006-10-09 10:21:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well my cousins husband sounds like he is having an affair.first off he calls someone everyday.and she says he talks to a lady.and then she says hes always 50minutes late from work.and she says when he goes to work he puts himself all neat.could he be cheating on her with another women?

2006-10-09 10:21:06 · 22 answers · asked by ElEgAnTFiShIe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 10:20:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I find it difficult to fall for a right man. I'm in my mid-thirties and I find myself attracted physicallt to younger men, but have nothing in mind in common. I find older men mentally attractive, but it's not common for me to be physically attracted.
What shall I do?

2006-10-09 10:20:42 · 4 answers · asked by bestwomanberry 2 in Singles & Dating

i have one and it's geting fuller all the time. everyone thinks my abs are soo hard but to me they're not where i want them. whenever girls rub it they really like it, how much deos having one help??

2006-10-09 10:20:42 · 13 answers · asked by Justin 2 in Singles & Dating

if a boy stares at u in school does it means he likes u cause i know this surfer in my school who stares at me in hallways and in gym and he never says anything what should i do

2006-10-09 10:19:11 · 11 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Singles & Dating

what causes some guys to become players and only interested in the chase?how can you tell if i guy is genuinly interested in you and not playing games?does the length of the chase matter and show that hes really interested in you?

2006-10-09 10:19:06 · 9 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

I am having an iceskating party for my 8 year old & am paying all the fees for the 30 invited kids

I cannot afford to pay the $6 fee if the parents and additional siblings want to skate also-how do I make this clear on the invite?

2006-10-09 10:18:59 · 11 answers · asked by Bons 1 in Family

2006-10-09 10:18:33 · 10 answers · asked by First L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean is he interested in dating, just getting to know me as a friend, or possibly just to get into my pants!!!

2006-10-09 10:18:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend in the world was a beautiful woman in which I would have went through hell with gasoline underware on for, is gone! I never thought about her as nothing but my friend for a long time, and then I realized I had fallen in love with her. She could have any man she wanted, because she is knock dead pretty, but I saw beyond that, and became the best of friends with her. I never tried anything with her, but shared everything, and now she is gone because I told her I was in love with her. I am in love with her, but I would give anything in this world if I could just have her back. I now realize what a fool I was to open my big mouth, because she won't even as much as call me anymore, and I hurt so bad that I want to cry. The problem is; I never knew love until she came along, and now I regret this so bad that I just want to die. I am desperate here. I have to make things right again, somehow!!

2006-10-09 10:17:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I asked her to homecoming, but she's going with a senior. her best friend told me "she's only going with him because he's a senior", and when I asked this girl I like to homecoming, she told me that she's going with him "just as friends". So, should I ask her out later?

2006-10-09 10:17:13 · 7 answers · asked by Dr Jaeowry Pu Pinshowa 1 in Singles & Dating