I find it difficult to fall for a right man. I'm in my mid-thirties and I find myself attracted physicallt to younger men, but have nothing in mind in common. I find older men mentally attractive, but it's not common for me to be physically attracted.
What shall I do?
2006-10-09 10:20:42 · 4 answers · asked by bestwomanberry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hear ya sister the younger guys are fit and hot to us ladies in our 30s and the older ones are mentally with us and mature and know how to treat a lady I would be patient someday you will meet a guy that will be great to you both ways it will all work out so relax and enjoy life and know your not alone
2006-10-09 10:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start hanging out at the gym. Seriously. Meet a guy your age or older who is committed to remaining physically fit.
Of course, as I have come to find out the hard way, even every reasonable precaution cannot guarantee that a physically fit partner will remain physically fit and attractive. It's a calculated risk no matter how you choose to deal with it.
2006-10-09 17:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that the guy who is younger now with the good bod, will be the older guy with the softening around the edges soon enough. By their 40s they are fighting the same thickening around the middle that we do, especially if they are beer drinkers. I'd go for the older guy that keeps you mentally up.
2006-10-09 17:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by Book0602 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one... Maybe you should date someone your age that just looks younger than you and has a youthful and fun loving personality.
2006-10-09 17:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋