Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

Here's the situation: I'm 24 and I've been with someone for two years, it was completely amazing for about a year, but then I've started feeling like while I do love her, I'm not IN love with her anymore.

We just feel comfortable together and hardly even make love anymore. I don't want to hurt her, but I often find myself wondering what else life might life to offer. She's going to be a doctor, so I know our lives will be really taken care of financially between both our jobs, but I know money doesn't make you happy. Also, my family absolutely loves her - so I feel a bit trapped... I guess I'm wondering if perhaps I should settle for safe and content or try and find that someone who will make me feel like I'm in heaven every single day - if that even exists...

2006-10-09 09:54:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Or just wait?

2006-10-09 09:53:51 · 16 answers · asked by to_sassy4_u 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seeing my boyfriend for over 2 years and he has this friend named Skirker who he talks to me about but I have never met the guy in person. He tells me his friend does not like everyone duh who does and I have specifically asked him that I want to meet him since I have met all of his other friends. He spends a lot of time seeing this guy after work before he comes to my house and I just wonder what I should be thinking. I did speak to him once on the phone briefly but that is all.

2006-10-09 09:53:51 · 12 answers · asked by postal_marg 3 in Singles & Dating

i got to know and quick please

2006-10-09 09:53:26 · 7 answers · asked by brizy53 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 22 and i've never had a boyfriend
yesterday my only best friend said somthing that touched me , she said: "lower ur expectations or you won't find anyone"
but why?
i dont want to be with someone who cheats on me, who is not my type or he is not cute, smart ,sexy and nice enough for me...
is she right?
i am lost, i do want to have a boyfriend, but right now i dont have anyone in mind that i trully like or see as my future bf, so should i lower them or stick to my morals and norms?
thanks

2006-10-09 09:53:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the type you sleep with and the type you marry?

which one am i?? lol

2006-10-09 09:53:02 · 11 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 09:51:34 · 1 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

They dated for 2 years and broke up 3 years ago. I find at least 1 call to her on his phone bill every month. He added her to his myspace and started messaging her there too. When I confront him he swears he has no desire to be with her. She has another very serious boyfriend. Her messages back to him were very vague, as if she really had no interest in talking. When I got really upset with him over it the first thing he did was to go message her again about it. I told him he was on his last chance with me and if he talked to her again it was over. Then I looked at his phone bill and after swearing he wouldn't, and that I am the only important thing to him, he called her for over an hour just 2 days later. He swears he told her he doesn't want to talk anymore because it causes problems for us and that there is nothing between them. I don't know if I can ever believe him at this point. Would you believe him? Can I ever believe he's not sneaking around to call her?

2006-10-09 09:51:19 · 20 answers · asked by bellagirl1414 2 in Singles & Dating

She has kissed most of my friends. Would you consider that cheating on me? Should I break it off?

2006-10-09 09:51:12 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 09:50:56 · 6 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 09:50:42 · 18 answers · asked by joshjones007 1 in Singles & Dating

when i am trying to chat room,they showing- getting catogery list.why not getting the room

2006-10-09 09:49:40 · 1 answers · asked by ashraf ashraf 1 in Friends

he wants to see me with another girl, but I've always objected because I thought that he would have sex with her too. He says that it's just for him to watch me with her, and he wouldn't touch her. He was surprised that I even thought he would have her. Anybody with experience here? We decided to ask a girl from a bar to come home with us.

2006-10-09 09:49:39 · 30 answers · asked by HotK 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 09:49:32 · 4 answers · asked by kotaboo32 1 in Singles & Dating

Everyone is weird and most people aren't well, good looking, lets say. Don't get me wrong, no offence, its just, well you know. Anyway, I haven't made many friends because i took a week off of school and now, since my school's HUGE, I couldn't find my bus and had to call my mom to see if she could pick me up!!!! I'm getting really depressed cuz i cant find my way around and I thought about my old school and almost started crying in class. But i didnt . Almost every one here is a dork and most of my teachers are mean. Will thing's get better or stay the same? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-09 09:49:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He gave me strict orders to keep an eye on her and now I have fallen for her. She is so pretty and innocent. Sometimes he says that he is going to hurt her and sometimes he says that he is going to have sex with her. It's just like he can't make up his mind. He has made attepts so many times and she has managed to get away. I kind of feel sympathy for her and there is nothing I can do to stop him.

I am stuck between here. What can I do?

2006-10-09 09:48:51 · 10 answers · asked by Sleek Mystery 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy told me he was a free spirit. After 2 hrs on the phone a week later, he then tells me he is looking to settle down. He told me I was very pretty, very accomplished, kept in shape, had a nice family and could have any guy I wanted. I said I just got out of a relationship and needed some time to myself. I didn't want him to think I was making excuses so I called him back to let him know that I was attracted to him.

After two weeks, I called him. He called back. We talked for an hour. Two weeks later I called him at work. I asked if he was seeing someone special. He said no. I told him I would like to call him once and a while on a personal level, not about work. He said ok. At the end of our conversation he said give me a call. A week later I called and we talked for an hour until I had to get on my flight. Each time we talk I am the one who needs to end the call but I am also always the one who initiates contact. Should I stop calling him?

2006-10-09 09:48:50 · 3 answers · asked by j t 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been messing around with this guy from my school for the past two years he has yet to ask me to be his girlfriend but can always manage to ask me to have sex with him.I feel as though I'm in love with him, but I don't know whether I should give in to him and have sex or let him go

2006-10-09 09:48:40 · 12 answers · asked by Too_short_to_be_sweet 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The problem? His wife is a complete mess! She acts hostile and freaks out over little things....so irrational! Anyway, grandpa turns a blind eye to it and I don't want my son to be traumatized by the she-witch. How do I explain this nicely to him?

2006-10-09 09:47:32 · 2 answers · asked by Christabelle 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Like three months ago I meet this guy. Over labor day weekend we went to San Deigo together. We talked about being in a relationship but he doesn't want to be in one right now because of school. We do something or spend together almost everyweekend and it is turning into a friends with benefits kinda thing. i am beginning to have feelings for him what should I do?

2006-10-09 09:47:13 · 4 answers · asked by shell 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband used to come home for lunch and sometimes I would surprise him by being in bed, waiting for him, etc., his office moved so now I am missing him. Today I had a chicken bowl. Boring...:)

2006-10-09 09:46:41 · 27 answers · asked by Forever 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi I need some advice on how to get my mum happy again at Christmas time.I know that me and my brothers are all grown up, but when christmas gets near we all,including my dad get into the christmas spirit and get excited. But my mum seems to dread it. She seems to get down as it reminds her of family that she has lost and she doesnt really seem happy around this time of the year. Through the year she is fine, but i want to know how i can make her happier to realise that we are still her family and are here for her and these are the times we should be making the most of. I can understand as last year we lost our uncle and it was a hard time, but now it seems to have hit her harder than ever. She doesnt really talk about it much to not get upset. I know i cant even imagine how it feels to have lost both parents and a brother. But i dont know what to do as i dont like seeing her down. Any advice would be great.

2006-10-09 09:46:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My live-in boyfriend and I broke up last year, and he had already started flirting with another girl he was playing soccer with before that. I moved out of the place Sunday, and Monday that girl went over to our place already. How can a girl do that? There were pictures of me everywhere still, she knew my ex from when he was telling everyone how much he loves me...I could never understand how can a girl do that? I think they give all of us a bad name.

2006-10-09 09:46:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need to know what your opinion is on how to play hard to get. what should i do? what turns a guy on. what makes him want you(please keep the answers apropriate. i go to a christian school, so know triple X stuff.

2006-10-09 09:45:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have always wanted to know what this term loser means .Usually I see guys who are not having sex or not liked by women who get to be called losers.How do women define loser?

2006-10-09 09:45:22 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 09:45:14 · 8 answers · asked by coolpotatoeslive 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been married to this man for 25yrs this last June. I knew for about the past 2 yrs something was going on but had no proof. This last July I started snooping in his email, message archives, everywhere I could think of. I found that he was meeting with someone for sure and confronted him on that but still had no name of the person. Kept digging and just about a week ago through my own detective work I found out for sure who he has had an affair with for over 2 years. I walked into the store she manages and asked her if "she had been F&#@ing anybodies husband lately"? She wouldn't admit it but my husband did. He is just as much to blame I know. I am sooo angry with both of them. But I really want her to hurt because she had been involved with everyone in my family for those years and acted as if it was nothing. My children are grown and my husband wants to act as if it never happened. He has no idea how much anger I still have inside me. What Now?

2006-10-09 09:44:30 · 10 answers · asked by Judy D 2 in Family

I'm 26 and have been with my boyfriend for a year and 1/2. We're starting to think about moving in together. I have lived on my own for 3 years before moving back in with my parents to finish my schooling w/o having to worry about rent, etc. Well, my parents have said that the next time I move out, will be the last time. I'm not going to be allowed to move back in. How do you make that leap of faith that everything will work out? I live in California, and am going to be a teacher, so it will be difficult to have just one income if things don't work out with the bf. I have NO reason to believe that they won't, but...just how do you take the flying leap into the unknown??? Suggestions? Those who have gone before? :)

2006-10-09 09:43:28 · 3 answers · asked by Froggy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-09 09:42:51 · 29 answers · asked by Mac 1 in Family

Do some guys like it when their girlfriends ask them if they can kiss them? And will some guys in turn ask their girlfriends if they can kiss them back?

And will some guys tell their girlfriends the truth when they ask them if they are a good kisser?

2006-10-09 09:42:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating