I have always wanted to know what this term loser means .Usually I see guys who are not having sex or not liked by women who get to be called losers.How do women define loser?
2006-10-09 09:45:22 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A guy with no job, cheats on his girl, mean to his girl,doesn't pay his bills or his child support, or is lazy. Looks and the amount of sex he gets has very little to do with it.
2006-10-09 09:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy next door is the biggest loser ever! He moved in with the single mom, he's always there, so he must not work. He drives her old car, his was towed off sometime ago. He drinks a lot. I put something in their trash can one time because mine had been emptied, and theirs was full of booze bottles! He lives off of her and tells her kids what to do - the guy is a L O S E R!!!
2006-10-09 16:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that sex has anything to do with it. In fact, guys that get around too much may earn the title of loser because a girl doesn't think he can be taken seriously.
2006-10-09 16:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by KP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That has nothing to do with it, a man who has no morals, no standards, and no sense of direction in life is a loser. You need to take care of your self and get established in a good job and everything else will just fall into place :) and then you'll get a good girl who has all that you do, independence.
2006-10-09 16:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by sexygrl21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a guy who has no confidence in himself, usually. some guys are wicked cool, and dont get any action, so thats out of the question. Its just someone who doesn't 'fit' with social circumstances. Therefore, you get your assumption thats its someone not liked by women, but if you look at it, its someone who's also not liked well by men. Thery're not 'popular' so to say. someone whos not liked or appealing in their personality. Thats a loser
2006-10-09 16:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by Carly Michele 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really dont think it has anything to do with looks, maybe hygene would be a factor, but in my mind a loser is someone who doesnt have a job, no car, no licence to drive, cant support the children the bred, always in trouble with the law...but mostly a guy who has no job and wont get off the playstation long enough to get one...
2006-10-09 16:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by tanny_fanny2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all....err....guys who don't have sex are not losers and never will be. You must understand that some girls think it's good that guys save themselves for marriage! It may sound absurb to you, but saving yourself for marriage means that you are not a "easy-to-pic-on" guy or some one who lives to have sex, if that makes sense. As a girl, I will look for a guy who is more reserved and act on their wisdom, meaning that he does not act on impulse or just for a moment of pleasure.
A loser will be some one who uses girls for his own pleasure or self interest.
2006-10-09 16:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Audrey L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to me a loser is some one at the age of 30 still liveing with there mom and dad and dont have a job ,a car ,money and a lazy slob
2006-10-09 16:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A loser to me is neither of these, but somone who doesn't work, doesn't have the drive to work and lives off their woman, sits around and drinks all day etc.
2006-10-09 16:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by MOVING 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My definition of a loser is someone who cannot take care of himself whether he has sex or not is not a factor.
2006-10-09 16:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋