i need to know what your opinion is on how to play hard to get. what should i do? what turns a guy on. what makes him want you(please keep the answers apropriate. i go to a christian school, so know triple X stuff.
2006-10-09 09:45:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suppose playing hard-to-get would be treating the guy like you would to any other casual friend, and pretending that you only like him as a friend. That's basically the general idea of playing hard-to-get.
2006-10-09 09:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by WaterfallOfDestiny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, a big turn-off are girls who don't play hard-to-get, at least part of the time. I like females who take on an equal part of any courting; who portray an attitude that says you (the dude) may or may not be worth my time. This keeps it interesting - girls who smother and become dependent on a guy just suck. They become boring very quickly. Pay attention, but NOT enough to make the guy think he has you in his pocket. If you do that, that's exactly how he'll treat you. I know I do.
BTW - I find that if a guy doesn't like girls that play hard to get - it's because they can't get girls. If a girl is trying to play the game with me, I know she thinks she's worth something, she's confident. And if she can back up her confidence with her activities (school, work, play, etc.), habits, and look, then of course I'm going to play the game. DON'T sell yourself short... is what I'm trying to say.
2006-10-09 09:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by Barret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never play hard to get - you just come off as a tease. Oh yeah, and a Christian school is probably not the best setting for any type of lustful adventures. Young men are filled with too much guilt to begin with without inviting God to a menage a trois.
2006-10-09 09:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by Chuck N Knutz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard to get is just another form of being a tease. That is a major turn OFF for most guys.
Being hard to get into bed is fine (and Christian) we generally respect that. A girl that has values is a big turn on (it means she has a brain and personallity.)
What we want (for real) is girl that is honest with us, no games, no teasing etc. Be yourself and don't compromise your values. You get the respect from guys that you demand, you set the rules girl.
2006-10-09 09:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by my_iq_135 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about not playing hard to get. Thats most womens problems. They think of it as a game. Most men are simple and will tell you a woman that likes to play games is not worth it. Try being upfront with him. Flirt a little. Guys dig it. Hard to get is not the way to go. Games are such a turn off for about 99% of men.
2006-10-09 09:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by Theandysullivan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what about the single X stuff? Anyway, time to quit blaming the church on your lack of flirting skills. Hard to get is a game, game playing sucks. Nothing wrong with remaining somewhat aloof while getting to know someone, but try to keep it on a real level.
2006-10-09 09:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myself, I prefer girls that don't play hard to get. If she is as into me as I am into her, I like a straight-forward approach. It's much easier to start a relationship off with that kind of honesty. If a girls going to turn me on, it's going to be her personality and her openess with her true feelings.
2006-10-09 09:49:02 · answer #7 · answered by iuneedscoachknight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tight clothes and good makeup will attract guys but mostly attracts the wrong type of guys.
Just being yourself and just talking with them normally will attract the guys who really like you for who you are
2006-10-09 09:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well......um. U shud play hard to get cos that makes the guy realize that u r worth everything!!!!!! Even if u reeally like the guy don't always sound desperate.......good luck anyway!!
2006-10-09 09:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to get, just hesitantly turn him down, but make sure he knows you are really interested. I suggest just smiling at him and if he asks, go for it.
2006-10-09 09:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by treseuropean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋